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Old 08-24-2005, 03:23 PM
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What's the biggest age gap?

...just curious, what's the biggest age gap (in a relationship or just hook up), you've ever had? A couple years ago... when I was 33, I dated this girl that was 20, that lasted about a year, then earlier this year, before turning 35, I dated someone that was 46... that lasted about a month...
Old 08-24-2005, 03:38 PM
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18 years...

never again..
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
18 years...

never again..

...so she was 18 and you were... 20?
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I hooked up with a couple girls that were probably 4 years younger and maybe one that was about that much older than me. None of them worked out to anything more than a hookup. Everyoe i've dated seriously have been within 2.
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I was 25 & she was 20. Lasted maybe a year but ended badly.
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Oldest I've dated has been 4 years older than me.
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I got together with a 17 year old about 2 years ago. Lasted like 3 months. That was a gap of 4 years.

I've "hoked up" with a 36 year old woman, though, when I was also 21. That's 15 years, but it was just one night.

And I've made out with a 40+ year old lady drunk at a bar once, for the hell of it. I don't know exactly how old she was, but she definitely HAD to have been over 40, hell she might have been in her 50's.
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Originally Posted by amisconception
I got together with a 17 year old about 2 years ago. Lasted like 3 months. That was a gap of 4 years.

I've "hoked up" with a 36 year old woman, though, when I was also 21. That's 15 years, but it was just one night.

And I've made out with a 40+ year old lady drunk at a bar once, for the hell of it. I don't know exactly how old she was, but she definitely HAD to have been over 40, hell she might have been in her 50's.

Oh my! Actually, around here... I've seen some 40+ women that I would hook up in a heart beat!!! And the thing is... most of them are married to guys in their 50s even 60s and can't really "get it up"!
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4 years.
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3 years...I was 19, she was 16.
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11 years - I was 22, he was 33; lasted 4 months.

It's been between 4 and 6 years for other relationships. The latest one was 6.
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11 years - I was 22, he was 33; lasted 4 months.

It's been between 4 and 6 years for other relationships. The latest one was 6.
How the hell are 21-24 year old guys supposed to compete with 33 year old men?
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Originally Posted by amisconception
How the hell are 21-24 year old guys supposed to compete with 33 year old men?
Easy, we're significantly hotter.
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first time i ever got helmet, I was 16 she was 21
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Six years younger than me.
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The biggest age gap for dating was 7 years for me (dated a 26 year old for awhile when I was 19, didn't quite work out different stages of life etc etc).

The biggest age gap for a hookup was when I was 18 and he was 34. I made him do whatever I wanted. It was fun, but never again. 16 years is a pretty big gap. Besides, right now my current bf is 22 and everything is much easier.
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Originally Posted by amisconception
How the hell are 21-24 year old guys supposed to compete with 33 year old men?
I could go for a 24 year old guy now
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Originally Posted by eve
I could go for a 24 year old guy now
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1.5 years younger...
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Originally Posted by eve
I could go for a 24 year old guy now





4 years was the biggest gap for me.
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she was 2 years older than me
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15 years. Me = 23, Her 38. Or so she said. I was only 3 years older than her son!
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Originally Posted by is300eater
...so she was 18 and you were... 20?
first of all, i'm a GIRL.
second, he was 18 years older than i was.
third, it didn't last very long because of it.
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
first of all, i'm a GIRL.
second, he was 18 years older than i was.
third, it didn't last very long because of it.
Ah, but was it fun? I find that as a younger person, it's always easy to wrap the older ones around my finger using sex appeal. Most of them are so excited with even having a CHANCE at sex with a 21 year old that they'd do almost anything I ask. Of course, I'm not going to milk this since I'm in a relationship and I'm not that bad, but I did do it once.
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if i were single.. i would be trying to pursue someone 18 years older than me. but im not so end of story.
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Originally Posted by youngTL
Easy, we're significantly hotter.
We are? What do I know

I just figured 33 year old men have more power, money, freedom, confidence, careers, etc. that most younger 20 year olds (my demographic) don't have...
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Originally Posted by eve
I could go for a 24 year old guy now
Hey now
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I was 20 she was 31. Lasted on and off for a year.
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I'm 18, he's 24....2 weeks so far.
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3 years younger (my current girl)
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but im 21, hes 24 and weve been together for 5 years, engaged.
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14 years older... lasted 6 months.
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I've always dated men who were older...the oldest was 38, I was 26 (12 yrs). Other than I've averaged 3 years differance.

Current bf is 4 years younger, but I don't feel so bad because I look so young as it is.
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Never break the french rule.

1/2 your age (man) plus 7.

amazing how well it works.

Me? 10 years...she was stupid an immature, won't do it again. I was 32, she was 22.....if I had a nickel for everytime I thought "gee, you are immature and quite frankly stupid and think you have life all figured out" I wouldn't be working right now. But damn the nookie was good.

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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
but im 21, hes 24 and weve been together for 5 years, engaged.
WAY too young. Best of luck to you both though.
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
first of all, i'm a GIRL.
second, he was 18 years older than i was.
third, it didn't last very long because of it.
...sorry about the gender mix up...
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Ah, but was it fun? I find that as a younger person, it's always easy to wrap the older ones around my finger using sex appeal. Most of them are so excited with even having a CHANCE at sex with a 21 year old that they'd do almost anything I ask. Of course, I'm not going to milk this since I'm in a relationship and I'm not that bad, but I did do it once.

...well, actually... like I said... I was once in a relationship where she was a lot younger, (Me-33 and she was 20) and it was the other way around... but I started to feel like her "sugar daddy"... We still hook up now and then... she currently is with a guy... but when we're both NOT seeing people we use each other for booty calls...
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Originally Posted by is300eater
...well, actually... like I said... I was once in a relationship where she was a lot younger, (Me-33 and she was 20) and it was the other way around... but I started to feel like her "sugar daddy"... We still hook up now and then... she currently is with a guy... but when we're both NOT seeing people we use each other for booty calls...
Word. You make them think that they have you wrapped.

But in reality it is the other way around. That's the thing of being played.....you don't even know that you are being played like a fiddle. Its a fine line. The real player is the one who makes the other feel like they have all the power, but yet the playee has no power whatsoever.


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