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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 03:23 PM
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What's the biggest age gap?

...just curious, what's the biggest age gap (in a relationship or just hook up), you've ever had? A couple years ago... when I was 33, I dated this girl that was 20, that lasted about a year, then earlier this year, before turning 35, I dated someone that was 46... that lasted about a month...
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 03:38 PM
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18 years...

never again..
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 03:39 PM
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 03:39 PM
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18 years...

never again..

...so she was 18 and you were... 20?
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 03:44 PM
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I hooked up with a couple girls that were probably 4 years younger and maybe one that was about that much older than me. None of them worked out to anything more than a hookup. Everyoe i've dated seriously have been within 2.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 03:45 PM
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I was 25 & she was 20. Lasted maybe a year but ended badly.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 03:46 PM
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Oldest I've dated has been 4 years older than me.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 03:50 PM
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I got together with a 17 year old about 2 years ago. Lasted like 3 months. That was a gap of 4 years.

I've "hoked up" with a 36 year old woman, though, when I was also 21. That's 15 years, but it was just one night.

And I've made out with a 40+ year old lady drunk at a bar once, for the hell of it. I don't know exactly how old she was, but she definitely HAD to have been over 40, hell she might have been in her 50's.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 03:55 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
I got together with a 17 year old about 2 years ago. Lasted like 3 months. That was a gap of 4 years.

I've "hoked up" with a 36 year old woman, though, when I was also 21. That's 15 years, but it was just one night.

And I've made out with a 40+ year old lady drunk at a bar once, for the hell of it. I don't know exactly how old she was, but she definitely HAD to have been over 40, hell she might have been in her 50's.

Oh my! Actually, around here... I've seen some 40+ women that I would hook up in a heart beat!!! And the thing is... most of them are married to guys in their 50s even 60s and can't really "get it up"!
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 04:25 PM
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4 years.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 04:41 PM
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3 years...I was 19, she was 16.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 04:58 PM
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11 years - I was 22, he was 33; lasted 4 months.

It's been between 4 and 6 years for other relationships. The latest one was 6.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 05:04 PM
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Originally Posted by eve
11 years - I was 22, he was 33; lasted 4 months.

It's been between 4 and 6 years for other relationships. The latest one was 6.
How the hell are 21-24 year old guys supposed to compete with 33 year old men?
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 05:16 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
How the hell are 21-24 year old guys supposed to compete with 33 year old men?
Easy, we're significantly hotter.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 05:17 PM
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first time i ever got helmet, I was 16 she was 21
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 05:18 PM
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Six years younger than me.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 05:19 PM
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The biggest age gap for dating was 7 years for me (dated a 26 year old for awhile when I was 19, didn't quite work out different stages of life etc etc).

The biggest age gap for a hookup was when I was 18 and he was 34. I made him do whatever I wanted. It was fun, but never again. 16 years is a pretty big gap. Besides, right now my current bf is 22 and everything is much easier.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 05:21 PM
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Originally Posted by amisconception
How the hell are 21-24 year old guys supposed to compete with 33 year old men?
I could go for a 24 year old guy now
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted by eve
I could go for a 24 year old guy now
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 05:50 PM
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1.5 years younger...
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 05:52 PM
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Originally Posted by eve
I could go for a 24 year old guy now





4 years was the biggest gap for me.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 06:07 PM
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she was 2 years older than me
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 06:13 PM
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15 years. Me = 23, Her 38. Or so she said. I was only 3 years older than her son!
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 06:33 PM
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Originally Posted by is300eater
...so she was 18 and you were... 20?
first of all, i'm a GIRL.
second, he was 18 years older than i was.
third, it didn't last very long because of it.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 06:50 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
first of all, i'm a GIRL.
second, he was 18 years older than i was.
third, it didn't last very long because of it.
Ah, but was it fun? I find that as a younger person, it's always easy to wrap the older ones around my finger using sex appeal. Most of them are so excited with even having a CHANCE at sex with a 21 year old that they'd do almost anything I ask. Of course, I'm not going to milk this since I'm in a relationship and I'm not that bad, but I did do it once.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 06:57 PM
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if i were single.. i would be trying to pursue someone 18 years older than me. but im not so end of story.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 07:20 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
Easy, we're significantly hotter.
We are? What do I know

I just figured 33 year old men have more power, money, freedom, confidence, careers, etc. that most younger 20 year olds (my demographic) don't have...
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 07:21 PM
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Originally Posted by eve
I could go for a 24 year old guy now
Hey now
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 07:22 PM
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I was 20 she was 31. Lasted on and off for a year.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 07:24 PM
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I'm 18, he's 24....2 weeks so far.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 07:31 PM
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3 years younger (my current girl)
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 07:42 PM
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but im 21, hes 24 and weve been together for 5 years, engaged.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 08:35 PM
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14 years older... lasted 6 months.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 09:03 PM
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I've always dated men who were older...the oldest was 38, I was 26 (12 yrs). Other than I've averaged 3 years differance.

Current bf is 4 years younger, but I don't feel so bad because I look so young as it is.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 09:32 PM
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Never break the french rule.

1/2 your age (man) plus 7.

amazing how well it works.

Me? 10 years...she was stupid an immature, won't do it again. I was 32, she was 22.....if I had a nickel for everytime I thought "gee, you are immature and quite frankly stupid and think you have life all figured out" I wouldn't be working right now. But damn the nookie was good.

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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 09:36 PM
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but im 21, hes 24 and weve been together for 5 years, engaged.
WAY too young. Best of luck to you both though.
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 10:23 PM
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Originally Posted by supermegaglossy
first of all, i'm a GIRL.
second, he was 18 years older than i was.
third, it didn't last very long because of it.
...sorry about the gender mix up...
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 10:25 PM
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Ah, but was it fun? I find that as a younger person, it's always easy to wrap the older ones around my finger using sex appeal. Most of them are so excited with even having a CHANCE at sex with a 21 year old that they'd do almost anything I ask. Of course, I'm not going to milk this since I'm in a relationship and I'm not that bad, but I did do it once.

...well, actually... like I said... I was once in a relationship where she was a lot younger, (Me-33 and she was 20) and it was the other way around... but I started to feel like her "sugar daddy"... We still hook up now and then... she currently is with a guy... but when we're both NOT seeing people we use each other for booty calls...
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Old Aug 24, 2005 | 10:35 PM
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Originally Posted by is300eater
...well, actually... like I said... I was once in a relationship where she was a lot younger, (Me-33 and she was 20) and it was the other way around... but I started to feel like her "sugar daddy"... We still hook up now and then... she currently is with a guy... but when we're both NOT seeing people we use each other for booty calls...
Word. You make them think that they have you wrapped.

But in reality it is the other way around. That's the thing of being played.....you don't even know that you are being played like a fiddle. Its a fine line. The real player is the one who makes the other feel like they have all the power, but yet the playee has no power whatsoever.
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