What would you think of a guy that's never had a girlfriend?
#41
i don't see the big problem with a 19 year old that's never had a girlfriend.
it's just a matter of personality and priorities. some guys, at 19, just simply don't want a girlfriend. and i'm sure there are many of you that wish you didn't have a girlfriend at 19. if a guy at 19 feels like he isn't ready for a relationship, costs, etc and would rather devote his time to school, work, friends, playing ball, etc. then it's all good.
personally, i never had a serious girlfriend until i was 22.
now....for the sake of the op's story, i think your friend sounds like he does need a girl though.
it's just a matter of personality and priorities. some guys, at 19, just simply don't want a girlfriend. and i'm sure there are many of you that wish you didn't have a girlfriend at 19. if a guy at 19 feels like he isn't ready for a relationship, costs, etc and would rather devote his time to school, work, friends, playing ball, etc. then it's all good.
personally, i never had a serious girlfriend until i was 22.
now....for the sake of the op's story, i think your friend sounds like he does need a girl though.
#42
I still don't think OP specified which kind of dude this is. Has he never had a gf because he's out banging a ton of chicks every weekend and doesn't feel a need to commit to just one? Or is he socially inept and cannot get a girl to talk to him to save his life, let alone be his gf?
I know several of both types and I think it's important to know what kind of dude this guy is.
I know several of both types and I think it's important to know what kind of dude this guy is.
#43
Originally Posted by Mike 350Z
I still don't think OP specified which kind of dude this is. Has he never had a gf because he's out banging a ton of chicks every weekend and doesn't feel a need to commit to just one? Or is he socially inept and cannot get a girl to talk to him to save his life, let alone be his gf?
I know several of both types and I think it's important to know what kind of dude this guy is.
I know several of both types and I think it's important to know what kind of dude this guy is.
From what I've gathered, he's an okay looking guy that has had chances with hot chicks before, but never did anything about it, even when he knows they like him.
And if he doesn't have anything better to do than hang out with S A CHO and his old lady, I doubt he is out banging random girls on the weekend.
I'm guessing he is a virgin? He sounds like he has no confidence in his ability with women and is scared of being embarrassed
Off topic: Mike, are you going to the Ramblings meet?
https://acurazine.com/forums/acurazine-clubs-meets-15/d-c-ramblings-meet-1-12-08-pw-thread-die-375630/
#44
Originally Posted by Scottman111
From what I've gathered, he's an okay looking guy that has had chances with hot chicks before, but never did anything about it, even when he knows they like him.
And if he doesn't have anything better to do than hang out with S A CHO and his old lady, I doubt he is out banging random girls on the weekend.
I'm guessing he is a virgin? He sounds like he has no confidence in his ability with women and is scared of being embarrassed
I'm guessing he is a virgin? He sounds like he has no confidence in his ability with women and is scared of being embarrassed
Off topic: Mike, are you going to the Ramblings meet?
https://acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=375630
https://acurazine.com/forums/showthread.php?t=375630
#45
Originally Posted by 07tsxchick
virgin? never had a girlfreind? i personally wouldnt want him....scary. he needs to know what he is doing
Actually i believe alot of women would agree with you. Alot of my freinds that are girls say they want a guy who knows what hes doing, they dont want the purden of having to teach a guy from scratch
#46
Originally Posted by Mike 350Z
Well I know a guy like this and my friends and I have decided he's very socially inept and when girls show interest he either won't know how to handle it or find some flaw with her and say he can do better. But it's probably all a way to cover up his insecurities.
That's what i'm thinking
That's what i'm thinking
Yeah, I think this guy has some serious insecurity issues. I think S H CHO should hook him up with another shy girl and let them teach themselves. The longer he goes like this the worse it will get
I haven't read the thread yet since it's close by and so far into the future but it looks like it'll be fun
#47
Originally Posted by MikeCLS6
Actually i believe alot of women would agree with you. Alot of my freinds that are girls say they want a guy who knows what hes doing, they dont want the purden of having to teach a guy from scratch
#49
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That was uncalled for...
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Alright, well, he agreed to meet a friend of ours... He said that he needed a picture before anything though (what does that tell you about him?)...I told him that beggers couldn't be choosers, but he wouldn't be dissapointed...
Should this be a double date or let them go alone?
Should this be a double date or let them go alone?
#51
Originally Posted by S A CHO
Alright, well, he agreed to meet a friend of ours... He said that he needed a picture before anything though (what does that tell you about him?)...I told him that beggers couldn't be choosers, but he wouldn't be dissapointed...
Should this be a double date or let them go alone?
Should this be a double date or let them go alone?
and for the record, i see no problem with wanting to see a picture first.
#52
Originally Posted by S A CHO
Alright, well, he agreed to meet a friend of ours... He said that he needed a picture before anything though (what does that tell you about him?)...I told him that beggers couldn't be choosers, but he wouldn't be dissapointed...
Should this be a double date or let them go alone?
Should this be a double date or let them go alone?
Ask both of them what they would like to do?
Personally, I like going on individual dates. No distractions, etc.
And can we get a picture of the girl you're hooking him up with?
#53
Originally Posted by S A CHO
Alright, well, he agreed to meet a friend of ours... He said that he needed a picture before anything though (what does that tell you about him?)...I told him that beggers couldn't be choosers, but he wouldn't be dissapointed...
Should this be a double date or let them go alone?
Should this be a double date or let them go alone?
2. Make sure he cleans his bathroom really well...nothing turns a broad off like mysterious substances on the side of the bowl.
3. Get your girl to give him a bit of a primer on her...likes, some interests, etc so he can make good conversation
4. Make sure he rubs one out 9 hours before the date and 3 hours before the date. Will cost him a bit in volume, but for an inexperienced 19 year old, it will help his stamina for sure.
5. Make sure that he doesn't focus ENTIRELY on her, but make sure he knows to not just be hanging out with friends...it's important to maintain the feel of a date right off te star...otherwise he runs into ladder problems.
What kind of date you going to do? I don't know you guy's tastes, but if I know what specific activities
#54
big deal, i've never had a girlfriend before but I think it's just because of the lifestyle I'm living..., work, school, homework, etc...VERY boring
and after seeing what my 22 year old cousin is going through with his girlfriend, i dont think I want one....well atleast for now
and after seeing what my 22 year old cousin is going through with his girlfriend, i dont think I want one....well atleast for now
#55
Maybe he's just a late bloomer? He's probably a shy guy who can't approach women or he may have not be looking for something serious in his life right now. People relate to things at different times in their life. I mean, most women mature faster than women! :p I'm sure he'll be ready for it when the time comes. There's plenty of reasons as to why a guy stays single. Maybe you should just ask him and find out?
#56
S'all good. I mean I can totally relate to this guy. I'm 19 and I haven't been in a single relationship so far although I have had many opportunities to do so. As for the commitment, I would rather not think about it right now. Focus on school, get myself stable and then go in. There hasn't been a single girl that would suit my expectations or that I would see in myself with for the long run. Why settle for less when you can wait it out and get the best for yourself.
PS.. I'd be broke and wouldn't be able to spend money on the ride.
PS.. I'd be broke and wouldn't be able to spend money on the ride.
#57
Originally Posted by crazymjb
I wouldn't do shit without a picture. I am more than willing to go below the surface, but the surface has to be nice too
Mike
Mike
Hey, it's not expected that you will bowl a strike if you've never had your balls go down a lane before. At this point, he'll take a gutter ball or two to get a couple of notches...get some experience, and then be choosey! You gotta know what to ask for! Fuck all that saving yourself for the right girl shit. That shit almost always ends up with crash and burn! Like the Nike slogan says: Just bust a nut!
#58
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That was uncalled for...
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If you'r wondering why I haven't updated you it's because I have nothing to update. The were planning on going out two weeks ago, she got food poisoning the day before... Last weekend they were supposed to go out, he cancelled because of a Mid-term he never knew he had so he stayed home the entire weekend and crammed...
Hopefully they go out either this week or the next, but he told me that he's been talking to a few people and maybe wont need my help after all, but he'd still give it a shot...
Hopefully they go out either this week or the next, but he told me that he's been talking to a few people and maybe wont need my help after all, but he'd still give it a shot...
#59
Originally Posted by S A CHO
If you'r wondering why I haven't updated you it's because I have nothing to update. The were planning on going out two weeks ago, she got food poisoning the day before... Last weekend they were supposed to go out, he cancelled because of a Mid-term he never knew he had so he stayed home the entire weekend and crammed...
Hopefully they go out either this week or the next, but he told me that he's been talking to a few people and maybe wont need my help after all, but he'd still give it a shot...
Hopefully they go out either this week or the next, but he told me that he's been talking to a few people and maybe wont need my help after all, but he'd still give it a shot...
#60
Originally Posted by darksom1
Fuck all that saving yourself for the right girl shit. That shit almost always ends up with crash and burn! Like the Nike slogan says: Just bust a nut!
It sounds like a recipe for misery if you ask me. It would be like buying a car before test driving and keeping it for your entire life.
#61
I was just playing along Pull_T, but yeah, he's fucking gayer than a faggot with a bag of dicks!
Can you imagine not fucking - AT ALL - hearing all about it from your friends fucking hot chick after hot chick, but saying to yourself: NO! I want someone special, and dammit I'm going to wait for her! Then you get married to a chick who you think is like Special K special, and she won't do anything beyond bare minimum to your dick! Hahahahahahahahaha! Conversation with the fellas:
You: Guys, I finally had sex last night!
Friend 1: Awesome - did she come?
You: I don't know...
Friend 2: Did you fuck her in the ass?
You: God no!
1: Fuck you mean God no?
You: Well, she said she doesn't believe in doing that...
1 & 2: (laughing hysterically)
You: Guys, I have a question...
2: What?
You: How do I get her to...you know...
1: Do what...spit it out!
You: You know...put her mouth on it like you said before
2: Is she there now?
You: Yeah...she's right next to me looking at tv...think she can hear me?
1: Uhhh...yeah...good luck on that bj in the future, but seriously, you can use my porn to get her in the mood...
You: She doesn't watch porn...says it's disgusting
2: You know what - I don't want to hear anymore of this shit! I told you to fuck her beforehand! You have no one to blame but yourself!
You: Well, at least I'm having sex now...
1: LOL...yeah...but are you enjoying it? I bet you didn't even come did you?
You: ...
1: Well...
You: ...
2: Get the fuck outta here! Hahahahahahha!
You: Angry, and dial tone as you turn up the volume on the Lifetime channel
You: Baby, is it any chance I can get my...
Her: If you finish that sentence...it's also your death sentence...
You:
Can you imagine not fucking - AT ALL - hearing all about it from your friends fucking hot chick after hot chick, but saying to yourself: NO! I want someone special, and dammit I'm going to wait for her! Then you get married to a chick who you think is like Special K special, and she won't do anything beyond bare minimum to your dick! Hahahahahahahahaha! Conversation with the fellas:
You: Guys, I finally had sex last night!
Friend 1: Awesome - did she come?
You: I don't know...
Friend 2: Did you fuck her in the ass?
You: God no!
1: Fuck you mean God no?
You: Well, she said she doesn't believe in doing that...
1 & 2: (laughing hysterically)
You: Guys, I have a question...
2: What?
You: How do I get her to...you know...
1: Do what...spit it out!
You: You know...put her mouth on it like you said before
2: Is she there now?
You: Yeah...she's right next to me looking at tv...think she can hear me?
1: Uhhh...yeah...good luck on that bj in the future, but seriously, you can use my porn to get her in the mood...
You: She doesn't watch porn...says it's disgusting
2: You know what - I don't want to hear anymore of this shit! I told you to fuck her beforehand! You have no one to blame but yourself!
You: Well, at least I'm having sex now...
1: LOL...yeah...but are you enjoying it? I bet you didn't even come did you?
You: ...
1: Well...
You: ...
2: Get the fuck outta here! Hahahahahahha!
You: Angry, and dial tone as you turn up the volume on the Lifetime channel
You: Baby, is it any chance I can get my...
Her: If you finish that sentence...it's also your death sentence...
You:
#62
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That was uncalled for...
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Originally Posted by Pull_T
Seems like he is gay.
#63
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Um yea I'm in the same dilemma, I have only liked a few girls over the last few years. Unfourtanely I can not tell if a girl likes me, so if I never got confirmation a girl likes me I won't do anything. Like for instance now I met this really cute girl and I hung out with her all day yesterday. But I'm afraid to call her because I don't want to be one of those annoying guys who calls the same girl a lot. Plus I can't tell if she likes me, but if she does ill go for it. I guess that could be your buddy's problem too.
#64
Originally Posted by Pull_T
4. Make sure he rubs one out 9 hours before the date and 3 hours before the date. Will cost him a bit in volume, but for an inexperienced 19 year old, it will help his stamina for sure.
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