go for it, its not gonna be awkward the next day or a week later or ever as long as your mature enough to handle it. I did one a while back with the girl i was dating and actually cared about and we stayed together for another 5 months after that and broke up for different reasons

 

Like everyone else I'd say if you want you are in it long-term with her.

If you decide to go for it, be aware that the 2nd girl is there for viewing pleasure, oral sex and while fondling is allowed don't

 

x2, threesome's are fuckin wack unless it's with people you aren't serious with.

 

no threesomes...i don't like to share. if i ask to just "test" him, he better say the right thing or else...

 

is that how most girls are???


we kinda-sorta started one once and I guess I paid too much attention to the wrong girl so there was some volitility for the next few months.

 

your going to have to be super sensitive w/that situation. You'll have to pay nearly double the attention to her, than her friend.

 

Perhaps she's testing you. But it's a catch 22. If you do it she may think she's not enough for you. If you don't then she may think your not letting her explore. Perhaps you should discuss it a bit more and see why she want's this.

Word of advice. If you do go through with this, don't spend too much time with the other girl. You dont' want your GF to feel bad. Good luck

 

I was given an opportunity when I was 21 with this same scenario but I thought she was of 'keeper' material, so I couldn't go through with it. But when I saw a pic of her best friend ... and what kind of tramp she was ... I'm glad I stayed out of that!

 

I hope you are being facetious here. If anyone asks in a serious tone but in fact they are "testing" the other ... that's Games are not meant to be played.

 

not true bc nothing happened beyond a makeout or two....

and the "volitility" came from you deciding to start obsessing over this bitch (my once best friend) for like a year after! i'd say you pretty much squashed your chances of a 3-some ever taking place after that...... good job!

 

 

yeah i pretty much jokingly asked.

this never was a serious thing that came up...let's keep it that way.

 

 

You screwed up your chance, Mike!

 

Interesting thread. Should turn out well.

 

I'd have to agree whole heartedly with everything you just said.

 

 

If I cared about the person probably not... I dunno, I just think it speaks to their ideas on mutual exclusivity, so I'd get thoughts in the back of my head from that. I wasn't an avid fan, but didn't someone on friends have a wife who lezzed out after a threesome?

While I'd do it to "say I did" in an outside situation, it seems like a lot of work.

Mike