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It depends on how serious the relationship is. If she's a fling, go for it (only with another woman though); but if you're really into her and it has potential for somethig serious, I don't think its a good idea. The whole relationship will change. Everything will feel 'weird'.
I could see the morning after conversation with the gf now.
ME: "Man, last night was great, thanks for allowing me to explore a fantasy.:
HER: "You think I'm fat don't you?"
ME: "huh?"
HER: "This isn't going to work out. I'm leaving you."
ME: "Man, last night was great, thanks for allowing me to explore a fantasy.:
HER: "You think I'm fat don't you?"
ME: "huh?"
HER: "This isn't going to work out. I'm leaving you."
if you do go for it your most likely going to hear "remember that time we had a 3some with that chick....well now i want to bring in a guy"........
......just be ready for it.....this day may never come but theres a chance.....but hey if your not really serious with her go for.....a 3some with 2girl not 2guys.....or be careful she could be trying to set you up to see what you say......and this could turn into one of those "what your not happy fights"......
......just be ready for it.....this day may never come but theres a chance.....but hey if your not really serious with her go for.....a 3some with 2girl not 2guys.....or be careful she could be trying to set you up to see what you say......and this could turn into one of those "what your not happy fights"......
if you remotely care about the girl. Usually it ends up akward and a breakup ensues.Or, like my case, she slept with me and her best friend, then decided it would be "cool" to do her best friend when I wasn't around. Overall, it wasn't worth it, caused mucho drama. Not a good experience IMO.
If you truly don't give a damn and could leave this girl at the drop of a hat.
Doin it with 2 chicks is like driving 2 cars at the same time. Not to say it's something to avoid, but just be aware that expectations rooted in the classic male fantasy will probably not be met.
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Originally Posted by MikeCLS6
^^true.....how old is she?
Originally Posted by SG81
important question: are we talking 2 guys & 1 girl or 2 girls & you?
Originally Posted by onelic
Does the fact that she's brought up a threesome mean negative things for his relationship? Even if he says no does it mean that she's not serious about the relationship?

Originally Posted by Yummy
And who's the third person candidate...? And I'm assuming it's a she, right?
Originally Posted by Whiskers

Open pervs - share everything about anything to anyone
Closet pervs - well you know...
Originally Posted by SG81
Tell me about it 

Originally Posted by LSBoogie
I could see the morning after conversation with the gf now.
ME: "Man, last night was great, thanks for allowing me to explore a fantasy.:
HER: "You think I'm fat don't you?"
ME: "huh?"
HER: "This isn't going to work out. I'm leaving you."
ME: "Man, last night was great, thanks for allowing me to explore a fantasy.:
HER: "You think I'm fat don't you?"
ME: "huh?"
HER: "This isn't going to work out. I'm leaving you."
Best case:
ME: "Man, last night was great, thanks for allowing me to explore a fantasy."
HER: "I don't excite you enough on my own anymore, do I?"
ME: "huh?"
HER: "That's okay. I will bring in a hot chick to join us at least once a week."
In some seriousness - as other have mentioned, if you really like her and see a future together, that future will disappear if you go through with it.











