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Old May 10, 2007 | 06:38 AM
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What would you do...

If your girl says it "ain't a thang" to have a threesome?

Would you go for it?

Or say no...
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Old May 10, 2007 | 07:19 AM
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I'd dump her for using phrases like "it ain't a thang"
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Old May 10, 2007 | 07:34 AM
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^^true.....how old is she?
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Old May 10, 2007 | 07:35 AM
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I was just teasing
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Old May 10, 2007 | 07:39 AM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
I'd dump her for using phrases like "it ain't a thang"



Depends on how serious the relationship is. Chances are this will ruin it so be prepared.
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Old May 10, 2007 | 08:00 AM
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important question: are we talking 2 guys & 1 girl or 2 girls & you?
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Old May 10, 2007 | 08:13 AM
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I would probably grin uncontrolably, have a sudden relization that I couldn't use my e-penis and then run away sobbing...
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Old May 10, 2007 | 09:00 AM
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Originally Posted by SG81
important question: are we talking 2 guys & 1 girl or 2 girls & you?
What she wants isnt necessarily what you want










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Old May 10, 2007 | 09:12 AM
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if I was not serious about her and I was up to it, yes... but that would be with 2 women. If she wants a 3some with 2 men, " see ya! ".

I know, double standards suck!!
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Old May 10, 2007 | 09:47 AM
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It depends on how serious the relationship is. If she's a fling, go for it (only with another woman though); but if you're really into her and it has potential for somethig serious, I don't think its a good idea. The whole relationship will change. Everything will feel 'weird'.
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Old May 10, 2007 | 09:52 AM
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If you want the experience then go for it. Be prepared to get tested and all the drama that follows. If this is a relationship that you treasure, she's not the one for you.
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Old May 10, 2007 | 10:17 AM
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What a dilemma!!! I'd sure want to go for it (2 girls and me...) but I know it would probably harm the relationship long term. So I guess I agree, if she's just a fling, do !T!!
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Old May 10, 2007 | 10:28 AM
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i agree with the rest...

but if she agrees to it and is okay with you and 2 other girls... don't be surprised if one day she brings it up again with two guys... then it might be see ya!
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Old May 10, 2007 | 10:31 AM
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The only thing good that can come from this is just the EXPERIENCE.....nothing more!
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Old May 10, 2007 | 10:47 AM
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yeah unfortunately to learn the lesson about women is an expensive course...
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Old May 10, 2007 | 10:51 AM
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I could see the morning after conversation with the gf now.

ME: "Man, last night was great, thanks for allowing me to explore a fantasy.:
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HER: "This isn't going to work out. I'm leaving you."
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Old May 10, 2007 | 11:02 AM
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if you do go for it your most likely going to hear "remember that time we had a 3some with that chick....well now i want to bring in a guy"..............just be ready for it.....this day may never come but theres a chance.....but hey if your not really serious with her go for.....a 3some with 2girl not 2guys.....or be careful she could be trying to set you up to see what you say......and this could turn into one of those "what your not happy fights"......
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Old May 10, 2007 | 12:10 PM
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if you remotely care about the girl. Usually it ends up akward and a breakup ensues.

Or, like my case, she slept with me and her best friend, then decided it would be "cool" to do her best friend when I wasn't around. Overall, it wasn't worth it, caused mucho drama. Not a good experience IMO.

If you truly don't give a damn and could leave this girl at the drop of a hat.
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Old May 10, 2007 | 12:16 PM
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Originally Posted by LSBoogie
I would probably grin uncontrolably, have a sudden relization that I couldn't use my e-penis and then run away sobbing...



and
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Old May 10, 2007 | 01:03 PM
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Does the fact that she's brought up a threesome mean negative things for his relationship? Even if he says no does it mean that she's not serious about the relationship?
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Old May 10, 2007 | 01:37 PM
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the hard part is that we don't know if she even brought it up to 'test' him about it... but don't all girls know that this is a guy's fantasy???
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Old May 10, 2007 | 01:58 PM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
I'd dump her for using phrases like "it ain't a thang"


Im not an orgy guy....I don't want orgy clothes...I don't want a robe and thin mustache....
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Old May 10, 2007 | 02:02 PM
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Well, so long as you don't end up being the third wheel watching two girls at it while you're pushed to the side...?



And who's the third person candidate...? And I'm assuming it's a she, right?
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Old May 10, 2007 | 02:03 PM
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Old May 10, 2007 | 02:07 PM
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that looks like the chick from ER
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Old May 10, 2007 | 02:08 PM
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Old May 10, 2007 | 02:13 PM
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Its the girl that wants 2 men to satisfy her....
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Old May 10, 2007 | 02:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers


Its the girl that wants 2 men to satisfy her....

Is that GMachine and his GF?
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Old May 10, 2007 | 02:18 PM
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Is that GMachine and his GF?
Yes Shirlock, from the Members Pic thread....
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Old May 10, 2007 | 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
Yes Shirlock, from the Members Pic thread....
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Old May 10, 2007 | 02:29 PM
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Canadians...
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Old May 10, 2007 | 02:33 PM
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Canadians...
tell me about it
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Old May 10, 2007 | 02:33 PM
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Doin it with 2 chicks is like driving 2 cars at the same time. Not to say it's something to avoid, but just be aware that expectations rooted in the classic male fantasy will probably not be met.
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Old May 10, 2007 | 04:18 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers


Im not an orgy guy....I don't want orgy clothes...I don't want a robe and thin mustache....
all I could think of was
"Hi, I'm here for the gang-bang."
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Old May 10, 2007 | 05:14 PM
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hope she means her and another girl and not a Devil's threesome.
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Old May 10, 2007 | 05:32 PM
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ha, hell to 2 girls, hell to 2 dudes
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Old May 10, 2007 | 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by MikeCLS6
^^true.....how old is she?
29
Originally Posted by SG81
important question: are we talking 2 guys & 1 girl or 2 girls & you?
2 girls and me
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Does the fact that she's brought up a threesome mean negative things for his relationship? Even if he says no does it mean that she's not serious about the relationship?

Originally Posted by Yummy
And who's the third person candidate...? And I'm assuming it's a she, right?
Yes sir.
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Thats my personality when it comes to sex...aren't all men like that? There are two categories of pervert men.

Open pervs - share everything about anything to anyone

Closet pervs - well you know...
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Tell me about it
She is canadian, from Vancouver.
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Old May 10, 2007 | 07:07 PM
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well are you 2 serious?
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Old May 10, 2007 | 07:42 PM
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Originally Posted by LSBoogie
I could see the morning after conversation with the gf now.

ME: "Man, last night was great, thanks for allowing me to explore a fantasy.:
HER: "You think I'm fat don't you?"
ME: "huh?"
HER: "This isn't going to work out. I'm leaving you."
Sounds like the second best case scenario.

Best case:
ME: "Man, last night was great, thanks for allowing me to explore a fantasy."
HER: "I don't excite you enough on my own anymore, do I?"
ME: "huh?"
HER: "That's okay. I will bring in a hot chick to join us at least once a week."

In some seriousness - as other have mentioned, if you really like her and see a future together, that future will disappear if you go through with it.
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Old May 11, 2007 | 06:43 AM
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If she really cared about you, she wouldn't be willing to share you!
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