...is when your woman won't let you give her "PG" type affection because you know how to get her juices flowing too well.

Now, I get plenty of action, so it's not that kind of complaint and I fully realize/respect that sometimes she's simply not in the mood for sex. However, when she is not in the mood, she doesn't want me to really hold her or kiss her at all cause she knows I can make her want the sex once we start fooling around.

I usually don't try and overanalyze this sort of thing, always fucks things up, but I wonder why this is. Maybe she just doesn't want to "tease" me with light play when she doesn't want sex

 

I feel your pain. trust me.

 

yah... all it takes is a simple kiss on the neck...
that and if i do it just because, she thinks i'm trying to get in her pants....

 

sometimes the initiation of having sex just doesnt appeal to us gurls. of course most of the time is does but not ALL the time. sometimes we just wanna chill. there are plenty of times i dont INITIALLY wanna have sex, but after a few mins of messing around, of course i dont stop. dont think too much into it, youre starting to sound insecure over something small.

 

Yeah, I am not overananlyzing though, at least I don;t think so.

Was more of a "one of those funny things" post rather than an actual issue or complaint.

 

Forum rules:

pics first...comments later.

j/k...

 

hmmmmmmm

:sqnteek:

 

I completely understand what hes saying, and im a girl.

its hard to just make out with your S/O when youre used to getting it all the time, and leave it at just that. cuz you want more.

doesnt sound insecure to me at all

 

Yeah it must suck to be there I'll trade you any day of the week...sick and fucking tired of being single, esp. this time of year, with the family questions and all that...where's your G/F, when are you getting married?? Big PITA.

 

My e-penis is 8 3/4"...no insecurituies there haha

Thanks for the backup Silvia

 

 

Forgot the rest of my post - Been with the same girl for 2 years and I feel your pain bro. Sucks.

 

I hate just making out...bores the shit outta me.

 

Dude you are like 22 years old, WTF when are you getting married, they say that shit to you. I'd be like, I don't know when are you going to die, hasn't it been long enough. I think that's a seinfeld Joke.

 

I'm sorry to hear that it's so small.

 

Some families are just like that, esp. certain religions or ethnicities. You know, the ones that marry their kids off at like, 12. I like your idea though, I might use that one myself one day

 

Hehe, true! If you're gonna have an e-penis, HAVE AN E-PENIS!!!

 

"PENIS, what the Fuck is this PENIS shit, it's dick, fuckin dick. What the fuck am I a doctor"

Chris Rock

 

Ahh you're only 2 days older than me, we got plenty of time before we have to hear that, Like 15-30 years before marriage.

 

I agree, most definitely! I have a feeling I'm gonna be one of those people getting married later in life as opposed to, say, early 20's. Or 20's in general, lol.

 

I'm thinking I gotta settle down around 35-40 with a 23-28 year old. That is about right.

 

Oh, its gonna come late for me too...I don't think there is anyway I will get married until I finish grad school, and no way am I (if ever) having kids before I own a home. (or at least am renting one from the bank) That siad my immideate family (though they don't ask me this...they let me be) and my extended family is mostly mormon...almost 20% of the girls graduating in my class were marrying 21 year olds that had just gotten home...its a load of shit and one of the MAIN reasons I want to get out of here. Its so hard to find someone that is cool and understanding of the way I am...90% of mormon girls will immidiately discount a guy like me, the 10% that don't are almost all dating/married and the non mormon girls here are also dating/married for the most part, at least the ones that aren't just bitches.

:whatbish: me bitter?

 

I'll probably 23-25 when I get married. If it's with the girl i wanna get married to she's 2 years younger than me.

 

 

Nah, you're not bitter, just a victim of circumstances. Don't give up hope though...as i have seen for myself, good things DO happen when you least expect it

 

Shit, Water-s...you're ready for that again already? I thought I was bad.

F*ck marriage. I have no desire to get back into that shit again...for a looooong-ass time. I like being 30 and not married.

 

Spill

 

30 and single is great. Not that I have any experience with it (I'm 21), but I can imagine that at your age you have much more leverage with 21-24 year old pieces of young nubile ass.