Well i got out of a long term relationship like 2-3 months ago and I did the whole rebound thing. Now I met a girl that I am crazy for and would totally take it slow and start dating. We are both pretty freakin into each other when alone but sometimes I question if I am trying to hard and not letting her chase me at all. Problem is I don't think she is into games and likes to be persued. Now this past Monday - Thursday she was in Vegas with her sisters and a few friends. She said she was going to bring her cell and at least text me while she was there and that she would miss me.

Last night I gave her a ring and left a quick message but haven't heard anything from her on the entire trip. I mean she leaves tomorrow at like 5-6 pm Vegas time to come back to NJ. So her trip is almost over. Should I be worried hahaha. I figured if she missed me or was thinking about me she would have at least made a little effort to text me or leave a voicemail.

I don't wanna be a pushover but at the same time don't want to lose her due to her thinking I have a lack of interest. Any thoughts? I am not going nuts but I just wonder if she is going to return and be like....yeah I had fun out there and I decided I just don't really want this right now......LOL

 

Do whatever your heart leads you to do. You never want to look back at end of your life just to remember a bunch of what ifs. What if i did this or what if i did that? Just follow your heart.

 

damn, 4 days without a call, and she is in Vegas with her friends. not a good sign. Hope things work out for you mang.

 

Yeah i know, but it is kinda hard sitting here at work each day wondering what the hell she is up to. I mean she can be pretty "wild" from what I understand but then again she is there with her sisters two of which are married. I am probably overanalyzing it but I mean come on it is Vegas haha.

I wouldn't mind if she never called me if she comes back and we continue right where we left off. I am just fearing the "well my sisters convinced me that you are probably just rebounding and I don't think I should get involved with you" which has happened before. Hahahah ughhh women

 

but to clarify she wanted to take it 1 day at a time so that it was slow and stuff, and she did tell me that she kinda has a fear of involvement since this one guy totally broke her heart 2 years ago. And we have been gaining momentum for about 3 weeks now. So it is pretty new.

 

IBTM

 

I know exactly how you feel dude, and sorry to say but you are probably still on the rebound.

I broke up with my girl a little over a month ago and I am like that with every new girl I meet. It's been two years since I was single and now if a girl doesn't call me or text me or something I start thinking "damn she's not into me anymore".

It's a mental game man, the best thing you can do is not sweat this chick, fight the urge to call her or text her and wait until she calls you. And be prepared to walk away from her if she does shit that makes you wonder about her interest level in you. If I know one thing about a girls it is this, when they are really into you they make sure you know it, once she seems to be distracted and no longer into you it's time to start making an exit plan.

 

Yeah, she could of at least called in-between:

:bukkake: :bananahump:

 

dont worry.. as u said.. its vegas. Just relax and see how things are when she comes back.. no use in worrying about things you cant control.

 

OK ok everything is cool now....she called me this morning at 7 am as I was stepping out of the shower She missed me and had to sneak away from her sisters who weren't letting her call me b/c it was a "girls" only trip haha. So everything seems cool!