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Old May 29, 2008 | 02:41 AM
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Son of a bitch...

Exchanging dirty texts with the chick on the side. GF texted. Mistook her number for the other chicks and yeah...wow. Im so fucked.
Old May 29, 2008 | 02:54 AM
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if names weren't mentioned couldn't you just say it was for her?
Old May 29, 2008 | 02:57 AM
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good luck...
Old May 29, 2008 | 02:57 AM
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Originally Posted by TypeSAddict
if names weren't mentioned couldn't you just say it was for her?
nope. the gf was talking about calling me in a sec and the text to the other chick was very explicit. couldn't play it off for shit... fuckkkkk
Old May 29, 2008 | 03:07 AM
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did she text or call back?
Old May 29, 2008 | 03:11 AM
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Originally Posted by JediMindTricks
did she text or call back?
Twice. right after the text she said WHATT? and then Lol. she's not stupid. i'm fucked...
Old May 29, 2008 | 04:34 AM
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cheater ftl.

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Old May 29, 2008 | 08:15 AM
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now you're stuck with the girl on the side
Old May 29, 2008 | 08:19 AM
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Old May 29, 2008 | 08:20 AM
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soooooo how did it go? or is it still going??


PICS of the carnage OR GTFO lolz
Old May 29, 2008 | 08:23 AM
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Just tell your GF you were feeling dirty...
Old May 29, 2008 | 08:23 AM
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Old May 29, 2008 | 08:45 AM
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not to sound self-righteous or anything, but if you're cheating on your gf, why do you care?

obviously, you can't be too concerned with hurting her feelings if you're cheating on her unless you're naive to think that you'd never get caught.

and why would she text back "lol"?

maybe she's got someone on the side too?
Old May 29, 2008 | 08:47 AM
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Originally Posted by JediMindTricks
not to sound self-righteous or anything, but if you're cheating on your gf, why do you care?

obviously, you can't be too concerned with hurting her feelings if you're cheating on her unless you're naive to think that you'd never get caught.

and why would she text back "lol"?

maybe she's got someone on the side too?

Old May 29, 2008 | 08:47 AM
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Old May 29, 2008 | 09:10 AM
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Karma bit you in the ass. If you two are in a commited relationship and dedicated bf/gf, having the "chick on the side" was probably a bad idea in the first place.

Live and learn, or at least pay more attention to your text inbox, lol.
Old May 29, 2008 | 09:17 AM
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Just tell her one of your buddies, coworkers, etc sent it, trying to get you in trouble.
Old May 29, 2008 | 09:19 AM
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ur fuked....wut more can i say..lol

either way tho..like others have said.if you are in a committed relationship..why have a chik on the side?

might as well spare some feelings and not have a gf and you can talk to as many girls as you want and there will be no problem because none of them are your girl. thats how i do!!!
Old May 29, 2008 | 09:20 AM
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Old May 29, 2008 | 09:39 AM
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For a dude with such a righteous, holier-than-thou attitude about becoming (being?) a cop, you sure are a dick when it comes to women.
Old May 29, 2008 | 09:40 AM
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Old May 29, 2008 | 09:45 AM
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Old May 29, 2008 | 10:08 AM
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Real purpose of this thread: "I'm cool becasue I have a girl and a girl on the side"
Old May 29, 2008 | 10:09 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
You made your bed dude. Let us know if she lets you keeps your balls.

*Hopefully she won't
Old May 29, 2008 | 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted by Pete1burn
For a dude with such a righteous, holier-than-thou attitude about becoming (being?) a cop, you sure are a dick when it comes to women.

He'd be the cop that would "offer" girls a choice; either they can flash him, "go see his cop car", or get a ticket...what a nice guy.
Old May 29, 2008 | 10:17 AM
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Might as well hit her up for a threesome now...nothing to loose...
Old May 29, 2008 | 10:18 AM
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OK...be honest...then prepare to move on.... this goose is cooked...been there...done that...walking away is better than running for your life...
Old May 29, 2008 | 10:20 AM
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Originally Posted by Mockenrue
Real purpose of this thread: "I'm cool becasue I have a girl and a girl on the side"
Old May 29, 2008 | 10:40 AM
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OOO good luck. At 19 I'd play it off tell her I was feeling freaky whatever, but from what you described you were text sexing this chick and got caught up in the middle of it. As stated above, be prepared to move on....
Old May 29, 2008 | 10:59 AM
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hahahahaha

my buddy did this by mistake he was fucked....but we thought fast it was late at night and we were going to go chill with the girl he just met and her freinds when he accidently texted her gf back with the wrong message......

well he though fast and played it off as i was drunk, he was acting like he was pissed at me yelling stupid stuff at me all, telling her i texted his mom, it was a gig and she fell for it...and she wasn't that pissed at him but more at me saying im irresponsible......

your prety screwed dude unless if you say u just want to see her or w/e and though it would be interesting to see what her reaction was.
Old May 29, 2008 | 11:06 AM
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If you have any history with the gf of cheating, then you can probably forget it. This includes if she only suspected you of doing it. Pretty fucked up thing to do, but you live and you learn...

On the other hand, since it wasn't you actually "getting with" a girl, just texting, it may just result in a really bad argument and you wind up staying together. Just a lack of trust for a while. The reason I say that is because I don't know how long you two have been together, and what your love is capable of overcoming. But you can do worse and stay with a woman for sure. Most of you people chiming in should be aware of this.

I'm not condoning it, but I have heard worse both on here and in real life, and the people stayed together.
Old May 29, 2008 | 11:08 AM
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You don't care, you just wanted AZ attention.
Old May 29, 2008 | 11:12 AM
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Lol just tell her your friend stole your phone and wanted to be an asshole by sending that text?
Old May 29, 2008 | 11:39 AM
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You don't care, you just wanted AZ attention.
Old May 29, 2008 | 11:57 AM
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Old May 29, 2008 | 12:12 PM
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^ like shaggy *wasn't me*

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Old May 29, 2008 | 12:13 PM
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Texting back "LOL" = Now she feels comfortable opening up to you about all the dick she's been getting on the side.
Old May 29, 2008 | 12:31 PM
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Since no pics of said girls have been provide, can we at least get the content of the messages?
Old May 29, 2008 | 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Rock2534
Since no pics of said girls have been provide, can we at least get the content of the messages?
Good idea! How about it? Then we can give you a better idea of whether or not you're screwed!
Old May 29, 2008 | 12:53 PM
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