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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 01:53 AM
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So ive found myself in quite a predicament. I was seeing this girl for a while, and it turns out she decided to see someone else behind my back. im all about second chances, cus ive fucked up my fair share of times as well. its been a while since it happenned and she was my best friend before we got into things.

tonight, I met this girl when I was out and we started talking and seriously hit it off. she volunteered her number and weve got plans to hang out this week. it was one of those connections that just seemed right. it wasnt forced and there was a pretty good deal of flirting.

now girl number 1 is practically begging for me to take her back and she means alot to me, but girl number two's got my full attention as of right now.



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1. girl number 1 cheated
2. met girl number 2
3. months later girl number 1 wants to get back together
4. very interested in girl number 2, but just recently met
5. ???????
6. profit

what to do?

annddd pictures for you 's

girl number 1


girl number 2
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 06:20 AM
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Who is better at handling teh cawk?
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 07:53 AM
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Who says the 1st girl will never go behind your back again? In my book, cheaters don't deserve 2nd chances because you can't respect and trust them anymore.

Start fresh and date the 2nd girl.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 08:41 AM
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I'd go door number 2. No cell phone to nag you with.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 08:43 AM
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girl 1 is hot, but a skank. go 2.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 10:03 AM
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go with girl number 2 cuz girl 1 looks she will deff cheat on u again.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 10:08 AM
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I like #2.

# 1 will cheat again.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 10:12 AM
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fuck one. fuck two. fuck one and two and have a three
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 10:19 AM
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I think you should go for number 2 for the same reason as everyone else....also you should drop the info on number 1 for the rest of us
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 10:28 AM
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Originally Posted by IlliNorge
I'd go door number 2. No cell phone to nag you with.
that's what I was thinkin... haha...

See where number 2 goes. If it doesn't look promising take a look at number 1 again, but if she cheated once, she can cheat twice...




Fooled me once, shame on you. Fooled me twice, shame on me...
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 10:31 AM
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Girl #1 has a nice ass. Other than that, she went behind your back and girls like that in my experience don't seem to change. Girl #2 is also hot and is interested in you so I'd say #2 ALL THE WAY
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 11:00 AM
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#2 for sure, but id be lying if i wouldnt hit #1 one more time and post pics.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 11:19 AM
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haha alright thanks guys, i just wanted to make sure i was making the right decision in moving on. i have many pictures of girl number one. many that she sent me with the intentions of noone else seeing

i guess i could upload some of the non nudy ones? Also, girl number two DOES have a cellphone, her text message woke me up this morning..whore..
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 11:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Anhedonia
haha alright thanks guys, i just wanted to make sure i was making the right decision in moving on. i have many pictures of girl number one. many that she sent me with the intentions of noone else seeing

i guess i could upload some of the non nudy ones? Also, girl number two DOES have a cellphone, her text message woke me up this morning..whore..
You gotta stop sleeping with the phone tied to your ear.

And you can change your name all you want, we still all know you're the guy that eats 7,000 calories per meal. :lardass:
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 12:01 PM
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Keep number 1 as your friend and see how far it can go with girl 2. Seems like you guys already have a good history other than the cheating thing and there is no reason to subject yourself to her knowing that there is a possibility of her cheating again.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 12:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Anhedonia
haha alright thanks guys, i just wanted to make sure i was making the right decision in moving on. i have many pictures of girl number one. many that she sent me with the intentions of noone else seeing

i guess i could upload some of the non nudy ones? Also, girl number two DOES have a cellphone, her text message woke me up this morning..whore..
Stick with girl #2. However, go ahead and pm me all the pics of girl #1.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 12:43 PM
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in my book a cheater is always going to be a cheater, in your case she looks really good, but are those few nights, ok maybe more than a few nights, worth the trouble? Is it worth your time? Is it worth your health? I would say no and move on. Think about it this way, you have all those photos which were "gifted" to you, why not sell them or post them away and have some fun with girl #2, who actually looks like a real person and you can presumably grow old with...
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 01:01 PM
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gotta agree, girl one will do it again, go for 2
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 01:02 PM
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pm me the nudes of girl 1
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 01:56 PM
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Originally Posted by IlliNorge
You gotta stop sleeping with the phone tied to your ear.

And you can change your name all you want, we still all know you're the guy that eats 7,000 calories per meal. :lardass:
LOL it's not tied to my ear, it just serves as my alarm clock and i forgot to put it on 'alarm only' mode last night. its not 7k calories a meal, its 7k a day. and im still waiting on pchops.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 04:52 PM
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<------Will pchop for nudes
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 04:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Scottman111
<------Will pchop for nudes
Blubberboy up there is waiting on porkchops.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 06:45 PM
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mm not a fan of pork actually. strictly beef and poultry for me.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 07:13 PM
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#2 you already had number 1 go get something new
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 07:29 PM
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Originally Posted by invisiblewar
#2 you already had number 1 go get something new
ive had 38 other something news, im looking for something serious. i was head over heels in love with a girl i dated for two years and she broke my heart. its been close to 8 months since it ended and i actually miss loving// being loved.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 07:32 PM
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So girl no. 1 is an internet whore?
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 09:12 PM
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So girl no. 1 is an internet whore?
model, so yeah, same thing. over winter break she woke me up for work with a picture message of her
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 09:25 PM
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start fresh and go with two....pm pics to girl 1
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 10:29 PM
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Everyone's tried #1, but how many have tried #2
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 11:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Anhedonia
ive had 38 other something news, im looking for something serious. i was head over heels in love with a girl i dated for two years and she broke my heart. its been close to 8 months since it ended and i actually miss loving// being loved.
Think you answered your own question. Girl #1 = not serious, especially if she's cheating. But...damn.

IMO, go with the chemistry.
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Old Mar 30, 2009 | 11:27 PM
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no pics yet. this thread fails
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Old Mar 31, 2009 | 12:10 AM
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Originally Posted by phee
no pics yet. this thread fails
theres two there.. i think everyone wants more of girl one? this involves me uploading some... grr.








fap away 's
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Old Mar 31, 2009 | 12:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Anhedonia
haha alright thanks guys, i just wanted to make sure i was making the right decision in moving on. i have many pictures of girl number one. many that she sent me with the intentions of noone else seeing

i guess i could upload some of the non nudy ones?
Also, girl number two DOES have a cellphone, her text message woke me up this morning..whore..
To the PGT immediately and post or
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Old Mar 31, 2009 | 12:18 AM
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I'll move those to the correct thread for you.
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Old Mar 31, 2009 | 01:08 AM
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Maybe it's just me, but I will NEVER date a girl who is willing to use a payphone. No exceptions.
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Old Mar 31, 2009 | 01:12 AM
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Originally Posted by stogie1020
Maybe it's just me, but I will NEVER date a girl who is willing to use a payphone. No exceptions.
it was a cute photo-op, i double checked just to make sure.
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Old Mar 31, 2009 | 01:12 AM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Who says the 1st girl will never go behind your back again? In my book, cheaters don't deserve 2nd chances because you can't respect and trust them anymore.

Start fresh and date the 2nd girl.
true, but when she is this hawt and he mite get some booty, I'd say go back for seconds
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Old Mar 31, 2009 | 01:18 AM
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Originally Posted by nbennettksu
true, but when she is this hawt and he mite get some booty, I'd say go back for seconds
s what your saying is, continue to fuck girl number one till shit with girl 2 gets going?
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Old Mar 31, 2009 | 01:21 AM
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Shit just find a way to keep nailing teh hawtness of number1
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Old Mar 31, 2009 | 01:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Anhedonia
it was a cute photo-op, i double checked just to make sure.
No exceptions.
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