me and the g/f just fought and she makes no sense because she's saying i made a mistake twice and thats inexcusable, but then again we are still dating. So I ask her whats going to make her happy, and she says nothing i can do now, the only hope is for her to overlook everything.

So we argued for about 20 minutes, and I really like the girl so I don't want to say goodbye, but its just really pissing me off.

So after this, I'm deciding to only pick up when she calls and to not call her again, until she either says bye bye, or becomes normal again.

 

Sounds healthy, i wish you the best

 

Sounds good, just stop trying to make her happy, if she's not, let her move along.

 

thats what im doing, im not trying anything to make her happy, i just asked what would make her happy.....

 

Sounds like shes trying to give you another chance after YOU fucked up twice. I think she has a right to be pissed, not you.

I read your other threads and i hope she dumps you soon.

 

lets just say the other half is not so innocent either.

 

Well fill us in, cant just tell us one side. What she do?

Is this what you pissed about? https://acurazine.com/forums/dating-relationships-14/typical-girl-behavior-328635/

Which lead to https://acurazine.com/forums/dating-relationships-14/what-would-you-do-328752/


If so you then guys have trust issues and i would bail out NOW.

 

it's only the beginning, i don't want to get to into it, i was primarily posting on this just to see if it was a good idea to leave things the way they are, by not calling.

 

If its the same one as before, and don't look back.

 

Women are always right

 

 

It made your marriage easier?

Not calling her is going to make things even worse because it shows you could care less about the relationship. If you do like her, then talk to her about it. If you aren't going to call her, break up with her.

Get some confidence in yourself before your next relationship, you still have trust issues from the girlfriend you had last year, and until you can get over them, you're going to be stuck in the same rut.

 

I try to talk to her about it, but she says by doing that i keep bringing things up and it makes things worse, I also don't want to play the friend card for a while either, so i figured without calling it would give her the space she needs and maybe she will start to appreciate the good things i do.

 

I can't believe you would actually consider furthering this relationship when you both aren't being respectful to each other and you're both young. I mean come on, do you want this much drama at the ripe age of 19??? There's plenty of normal girls out there that you can be with.

btw. get you act together fool or you'll have focked up relationship throughout your life.

 

You have so many relationship issues it's unbelievable

Do yourself a favor and get comfortable with you before you try to start another relationship. You sound way too insecure about every relationship you're in - you really need to either work on the self-confidence first or start dating girls who aren't so untrustworthy in the first place

 

The thing is im not insecure, i was in a relationship for 3 full years and never was jealous or insecure about my relationship, but as things went bad, jealousy rose and trust issues occured....


so now im trying to fight those problems off.

 

You didn't have problems before because you were in high school.

College/real world has more situations you can't control and options for trouble, which is leading to you trying to keep your women on a shorter leash, which they're seemingly not happy about.

 

Actually I think my problems occured because when I was 16 i went to my friends bar mitzvah and kissed a girl when i was drunk (first time ever drinking), i felt horrible about it and finally told the g/f like a year and a half later. ever since that happened shit went downhill, and i guess what happened was i got nervous she might try to get me back and thats how i got into the issues.

 

i.e. Prostitutes...

 

Ahhhh... well, I guess if you can't get comfortable with that, you need to get out of the relationship.

 

I meant call her, don't talk to her about the issue at hand, unless she brings them up. It might help and you can still get to talk to her. I am not sure if any of this works, she might just not like you.

 

For fucks sake...do you post every 4 days with a tale of woe about a girl? Turn his ass back to Amoeba and then run away from girls.

I suggest you go dump her, grow a mustache, go gay and invest in KY

 

a little harsh

 

Isn't that all of D&R

 

End yourself.

 

Yes it does! Trust me. If you admit to the fact that women are always right, your married life will be peaceful....Even if you KNOW they are wrong. Dont even argue. Smile and nod.

 

what was the mistake twice? did you wrongly assume that 7+5=11, and then do it again? or did you "acidentally" slip a finger where it doesn't belong, again. or did you scootch your naked butt on her persian carpet, leaving a skid mark, again? did you just happen to fall into her sister or brother, again? what was so egregious that you are fighting, and she is counting the errors, again?

 

Seems to me that your a stalker pussy. Leave the fucking girl alone.

 

Renegade, firstly just trying to help. Fix your grammar.

Dude you're fucking 19, you'd figure after a 3 yr relationship you'd want some freedom. Please grow some nuts.

I'm waiting to see a non-bitching thread from you.

 

quit getting into relationships so quickly. That is so freakin needy is pathetic.

You thought you were going to die when that 3 year relationship ended yet now you're in another? - once again with problems? Dude, take a break, be 19. DATE!! Committing so quickly is juvenial and you SHOULD be mature enough to know this.

 

oh wow...not calling back is a BIG NO NO....i learned it the hard way when me and my ex were in a fight.

**NOTE** girls always remember every little detail about wuts coming out of your mouth.