For a girl to have a boyfriend, but still flirt with other guys behind his back, and then when the guy asks to hang out, she says sure, but then tells the boyfriend she just is nice to guys that like her because she doesnt want to be mean, and that she has no intentions of hanging out with them. I mean is that typical, or right to do?

 

If I were in your shoes, I would get offended. Why would she continue to flirt with other guys? And why would she give the impression that she can still go out with them? It seems like she is not acknowledging your relationship.

If I am with someone and another guy asks me out, I would politely decline and explain that I am already seeing someone else.

 

Definetly not the right thing to do...

 

She uses the boyfriend line supposedly, but later when she talks she says she'll hang out with them, but she says she wont.

 

Dude you got too many problems with girls. If a girl is being a whore ditch her man. PLenty of fish in the sea, and you know I'm not the first to tell you this.

 

I know, it just seems like they are all the same.

 

Back away slowly from this one and ...

 

u r still young like all of us...

 

If you have to ask, you should to stick to masturbating...a lot.

 

at least you are learning this at a young age, and I have to say it is very typical behavior. put your foot down son, and lay the law of the land when you meet someone new from the beginning. but make sure you practice what you preach


sad but true

- metallica

 

Grow a set.

 

Yup. Like the old adage goes: "if you have to ask........"

 

she just likes the attention. But trust me, she isnt saying she has a man.

but you need to stay away from the girls & get yourself a woman.

 

Sounds like an attention whore.

Extremely unattractive and disrespectful, IMO.

 

I've heard similar stories before and I usually live by the "if she isn't telling him, there is a reason for leaving the opportunity open".

 

Yeah it happens a lot why are girls such whores?

 

I don't think she knows what she really wants yet if she's doing that.


But I do have to kind of defend her, not really but in my situation, I'm around a lot of car lovers, all my friends are almost guys (except the girls in my sorority) so I'm use to being around my guy friends a lot to chill & do nothing. So if she's in the same situation then you don't really have the right to say anything.

My last bf had a problem with this b/c he was very insecure & wasn't use to this & my life style, but never did I disrespect him & pretend that he didn't exist, I introduced him personally whenever I was out with him to all my guy friends n they all knew him & at the same time what is it worth with out trust right?

 

same question as why are guys such dicks? pussy hunters? hah jp with yah

 

 

Hey hey im no dick. Im actually a nice guy.

 

Because being a dick and a pussy hunter makes females want us more.

 

the truff he speaks

 

You're learning. I'm proud of you.

 

I'd blame it on the age, most chicks under 25 are always "looking." Older chicks have their priorities set.
Notice that you're 20 on your profile, is she younger?

 

It's typical. It's high school girl mentality. As soon as she finds someone better, she'll ditch you when it's convenient. Dump her.

Her flirting is NOT the innocent type!

That being said, innocent flirting is okay. I flirt all the time even when I'm in a relationship (and he usually does the same with a little bit of tips from me), but in the end we don't let it go too far and always do it when the other person is right beside us so there are no secrets. And no leading the person on too much.

 

Drop her like a hot rock

 

i had a girl that would chill with me behind her boyfriend's back...

i had no idea she had a boyfriend, she wouldn't let me pick her up at her house (cuz she lived with her bf) and some other shady stuff, so i finally asked around

as soon as i found out, i immediately stopped seeing her

she started out just "hanging out" with me, and it quickly became dates (eventhough i had no idea she had a bf), my opinion... as soon as she starts "hanging out" w/ other guys 1on1... DUMP IT

 

this isn't typical girl behaviour, it's typical skank behaviour....

learn to tell the difference