Smooth breakups...possible?
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Smooth breakups...possible?
After ~6 months, my gf and I just broke up. I kinda knew this was coming since the end of December, but she initiated the talk today. So I wasn't too surprised. I'm not even sad about it right now... I guess our personalities were just too different...
Anyways, is there such thing as a smooth breakup? Or will I crash about it later in the week?
Anyways, is there such thing as a smooth breakup? Or will I crash about it later in the week?
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Originally Posted by TSX 'R' US
After ~6 months, my gf and I just broke up. I kinda knew this was coming since the end of December, but she initiated the talk today. So I wasn't too surprised. I'm not even sad about it right now... I guess our personalities were just too different...
Anyways, is there such thing as a smooth breakup? Or will I crash about it later in the week?
Anyways, is there such thing as a smooth breakup? Or will I crash about it later in the week?
I broke it off because she was entering college and i was out and on my way to life. I knew we would eventually run into issues with me being on a more mature side of life than her so I cut it before problems arrose. (actually, i was forced to by Stiffy and Astro
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It was a very clean breakup so its definitly possible.
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If you both feel it's best to break up, it will definitely feel "better" than if it were one-sided. Doesn't mean you won't feel a loss or have a different lifestyle than the last six months, but might not hurt as much if *you* feel it was a good change for *yourself* too.
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It's very possible. I just had one in November with a girl I got along perfectly with. Never a fight, never even a disagreement and we were always doing something crazy, spontanious and fun. We were out of town almost every weekend for the 6 months we were together.
I broke it off because she was entering college and i was out and on my way to life. I knew we would eventually run into issues with me being on a more mature side of life than her so I cut it before problems arrose. (actually, i was forced to by Stiffy and Astro
)Although, i adored this girl, i havent really thought much about it since.
It was a very clean breakup so its definitly possible.
I broke it off because she was entering college and i was out and on my way to life. I knew we would eventually run into issues with me being on a more mature side of life than her so I cut it before problems arrose. (actually, i was forced to by Stiffy and Astro
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It was a very clean breakup so its definitly possible.
she was going to college and ur 27 ...
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Originally Posted by ludachrisvt
she was going to college and ur 27 ... ![what](https://acurazine.com/forums/images/smilies/what.gif)
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sure there is..as long as everyone is honest and no body broke up with each other b/c there was something they couldn't stand about each other..and mutual...if you're just at different stages in life, fine...
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Good points everyone. It's Monday and I still feel nothing about it... I thought about it over the weekend and I think it might have to do with how much I've gained from the relationship. Definately an eye opener for me...
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