Title pretty much says it all. We just weren't compatible.

I tried to have that "do you wanna start splitting the cost of dinner" talk cause I was tired of paying for everything (its been 2 months already...Probably around $300+ in 2 months dropped in movies, dinner, gifts, etc)...this lead to other shit coming out. Complication and differences in friends/groups/history/class/etc. Knew it wasn't meant to be from the start...But I guess I just hate being alone and I enjoyed my time when I was with her.

Oh well...Time to move on...

 

dude, your in gainsville... no guy is ever alone.

it really doesnt get any easier than a block party.

btw. i was at one last weekend, i think it was 22st and university, in front of the stadium. it was crazy...

 

Long distance didn't help either...She's in Jax.

Don't know that many people here in UF since I drove to Jax every weekend for her and I'm already graduated so I don't go to class here.

 

oh,

i got plenty of friends down there. the parties are decent. and im still in school, so....

 

I totally feel you man...opposites attract, but too many differences usually don't equal a lasting relationship...in my experience anyway. Like I was telling you on AIM, you're better off. Find someone who can contribute to the relationship and not just take...don't date down!

 

Yea...difference was too large I guess. **sigh**

 

Yeah...well good luck moving on...and remember my offer about your little *excess* still stands hehehe

 

 

i'm sorry joe...i'm sure you will find another girl in no time!!!

 

I hope so...I'm picky though.

 

at least you knew the differences!!! I was made to believe we had it all in common until one sudden day!!! go figure!!!!

 

remember, hindsight is always 20/20

try not to feel suckered, played, etc. the times you spent together had their place in your life, and that chapter's over, so time to start another one...easier said than done, i know, just take it one day at a time...try to think positively about the situation

and don't feel yer alone for a second...we're all here for you

 

Hmm lots of Clers are single again. Hmmm you know wat that means, the next meet should be at a club or bar. hahaha

 

did you at least hit it?

 

gosh, $300 in 2 months, i'm lucky to get out of a night for that little.

 

Course...

 

Sign me up for that one

 

In Bloomingdale, MN? Yea...right!

J/K

It would have been more but I only saw her during weekends...Long distance.

And I was lucky enough not to run into any holidays. Never even made it to Holloween.

 

You got out cheap in that deal. Oh well.

 

300$ for two months of sex? not bad i think

 

x 2 for both of us. $300 on her alone. Its not a huge amount in general...But its a lot considering I only see her on weekends. More than that...I just got sick of paying for everything. She never offered.

I miss her though.

 

It sucks man...I hear you loud and clear...I feel like I am gonna go insance unless something happens for me soon. But you can't show it, everytime a girl has chosen me (and yes I think that is just the way it is, at least for non-pimps like me) I was at a point where I had stopped giving a damn. I just need to get that way again, or learn how to fake it. I miss my last, even though she blew me off, at least once a week I consider calling her. Fucking sucks.

You just gotta wait I guess. Sad, I'm giving advice that I have the hardest time taking myself. They say misery loces company...so here I am.

 

It sucks right now, but being single is kinda fun too! After getting out of a non-working 4 1/2 year relationship, I'm rediscovering flirting, checking out guys and letting them know I'm checking them out, etc......

One way I like to think about it is if you thought that girl was really great, and it didn't work out, then the girl that is out there for you is going to be really amazing!

And a CL meet/singles mixer? W00000T! I'm there!

 

I'm down for that too, we just have to hold it within driving distance.

 

Yes, but driving distance of whom, is the question Man, that would be pretty cool. Joe, sorry to hear about the break-up but it sounds like it might be for the best. A guy like you, I'm sure you'll find someone even better in no time

 

Me, of course or maybe nice and centrally located within the US...anyone got airline hookups? :P

 

Sign me up for those airline hookups too...someone come visit me! This damn place is too far

 

LOL, we span the country! Too bad, it probably woulda been a sweet party!. And by the way, centrally located would be like, Kansas. I am not paying to go to Kansas, LOL

 

Hey Joe - not sure if I heard too much about this girl...but I know you well enough to know that you bounce back pretty quick...and even though you're picky, you'll still hang out and flirt with girls that don't meet your standards until you find that crazy Azn fob who loves your squash spencer

 

Fo sho! Pete...You need to hit up Vision. I seen the hottest girls there. Last time 10 Asian lesbians were grinding up against each other. I shit you not!

There was this one girl there that was the hotttttest Asian girl I've ever seen at a club. I'm talking model hot. Couldn't even get the balls to go say hi....she was too cute. Ryan was with me too... P. Diddy rapped on second level for us around 3 am.