OK - I need as many opinions as possible...

Friday night - I sleep with this girl I have known for a while and I was kinda feelin' her, kinda not - Great girl, great personality - Physically she just isnt there for me...Anyways - You get the idea (although she has a great ass) Anyways, In the middle of the act, I lose interest, get a flat tire, roll up off her and just start kissing her until I fall asleep....But now I feel bad...I guess I should be embarrased - But like I said, I lost interest - and she was...well,....boring in the sack...

So - I call her the next day when I knew she wouldn't answer her cell phone and I left her a message asking her to call....

Now, It is Monday afternoon - No call: I feel bad, I know she probably feels bad - But do I call her and give her a second try tonight? Or do I just wait for her to call...

Basically, for the ladies - What is going through her head right now?

 

damn man... flat tire??? HA thats happened to me before... dont worry about it.... try again... then see whats up... but if you go flat again... or it aint just there.... then get the hay outta dere

 

boring or not, you probably embarassed the hell out of her and made her feel like shit.

if some guy did that to me, i wouldnt call him either.

id try apologizing to her and make up some BS reason why you werent into it besides that she was boring.

if you were with a girl and she just lost interest and got off of you and went to sleep, wouldnt you feel like you werent good enough in the sack?

 

and sorry we sent your other thread to shit lol

 

I didn't call her boring (to her face) - And I did make out with her a little...But I guess I will just tell her I was nervous and that "I owe her one" - But Ill do it in a cute way...sound OK?

 

flat tire...

u need viagra

 

I know you didnt say it to her face, but your actions might as well of said it.

im not sure if shell buy the nervous, just say youve been stressed out about work or something like that..

but other than that your plan sounds good

 

Nah - It wasnt physical - It was mental, Ahh well, Im gonna call her right now and see what she is up to tonite....I must redeem myself....

 

She is at school....But she like to go out Monday nights because she doesnt have class Tuesdays...We'll see what happens

 

good luck i had that happen to me when i was 17 thank goodness the girl still lived at home i used the excuse IM JUST NERVOUS THAT UR PARENTS ARE GOING TO COME HOME

IT NEVER HAPPENED AGAIN AND SHE BELIEVED ME sometimes it just happens

 

she feels embarrassed. just call her back. depends what ur motive is for callin her back tho

 

Tell her you had wisky dick..and that you wanna give it another try...

 

I just talked to her...She is totally cool ...At least she is playin it cool...Im going to take her out tonight for dinner and we'll talk about it...But I may go with the whisky dick/nervous/scared I didn't have a condom defense

 

LOL damn dude that's crucial. I'd feel like shit if some dude did that to me!!! Make up a REALLY great excuse....and let us know what happens!

 

Alright, Its now all good...I think

We talked, I apologized for being too tired....She was really cool about it - But for some reason, Im gonna back off - Im not getting the best vibe....

That is all..

Case closed...Thanks for the advice all

 

I got a co -ed naked shirt that says Co-Ed naked firefighting Find em hot and leave em wet. and this one girl came up to me and said i don't get your shirt . I said do you want me to show you.

 

Best. pick up line. ever!

stupid ass girl.. so did you show her?

 

no cause i was engauged to my ex bitch at the time. :angry:

 

you were engaged to that dumb bitch??! jesus man! im so happy you got out of that and i dont even know you! LOL

 

she was like the biggest jelious bitch i've ever seen. if i even looked at another chick with her she rip me a new asshole. I'm like it's not like i'm saying she's slamming. (even though i was thinking it). Once I had (at the end of the relationship) these 3 chicks(they were hotter than a 2 dollar pistol) in a BEATER civic. honking and revving there motor at the gas station(i'm thinking you might wanna take it on that civic it probably got a shelf life of another 30 miles). (i think they were minors though) and all i did was look over at them and smile my girl was with me she GIVES these girls a glare that if looks could have killed they'd all be doorknob. then i get in the car(cause i was picking up a snack(cause i had the hungry and everywhere was closed and this gas station/convience store open 24 hours) i get my ass ripped. I'm like i didn't go over and say hey babe hows it going. i get my butt ripped for just smileing and looking at them.
She said why didn't you look down at the pavement and walk toward the car. I said okay a car revving it's motor your not gonna look over to see if it's maybe coming at you. or see what kind of motor he or she sporting(even though it was a crap bucket and sounded like it was ready to throw a rod any minute). she's like no. Then they followed us(Sherri and I ) out of town.She was getting CRAZY PISSED. I'm talking i got a MagLight i keep in my car and she grabs it she said if these B!TCHES keep on following you i'm gonna go back there and take care of em. I'm think OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOKAY. I said I'll see in 6-10 years babe . but then she said that was part of the reason we broke up cause I "looked at other women" it wasn't like i hitting on other girls or flirting with em. just if i looked at em my ass is on the grill.

 

OOOOOOOOkay, and you stayed with her why? Sorry dude, but that chick was a psycho hose beast pure and simple. She's like, example 101 of what NOT to be as a girlfriend.

 

why did i stay with her is because of Booty. it was "okay booty" just when your 20-21 your desprate for booty.

 

Although I'm not one of the ladies.. I think you've answered your own question there. If it's not there physically, don't fight it! Take it from me.. don't make that mistake. Gotta go with your feelings on this.. Just keep being friends..

Either way she prob does feel embarrassed, but it's not like you did anything rude to her. If anything say you were really tired, .. and fugget about it.

Good luck. The female thing is tough..