Shorty is pregnant.
~Da Nocturnal Cheetah~
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I know this ain't you Blazin, but I wanted to say it cuz its on point...
Shorty
Shortaayyy...
(WHHHAAATTT)
We only did it for one niiiigghhtt
But maaaannnn, the pussy was goooddd
(I aint gon lie the pussy was good than a motherfucker)
Now Shorty messing up my liiiifffeee
...messing up my life...
"Shorty" by DMX
Hahahahaha!
Shorty
Shortaayyy...
(WHHHAAATTT)
We only did it for one niiiigghhtt
But maaaannnn, the pussy was goooddd
(I aint gon lie the pussy was good than a motherfucker)
Now Shorty messing up my liiiifffeee
...messing up my life...
"Shorty" by DMX
Hahahahaha!
I have mixed feelings about this...Part of me says ABORT because you're both young and obviously stupid to have not thought about the potential consequences, and I don't think it's fair to the child for whatever life it may have.
Other part of me says KEEP IT or put him/her up for adoption, because some people just don't appreciate what they have. Why I say this? I currently have no children, my wife had 8 miscarriages, she is now considered a medical mystery by the dozens of doctors we have been to, nobody can figure out why her body is aborting after 6-8 weeks of pregnancy. We are now looking into a gestational carrier (surrogate), but in these economic times, I don't have $80,000-$100,000 to lay out before even having the child to make this happen.
Nobody is pushing or pressuring us to have children, it is what we want. But guess what, the pressure is EVERYWHERE...All my friends have children, all of my married siblings have children, of all the close family and friends that we know and have, we are the only ones that do not have children. It sucks. Really.
Appreciate what you have.
Other part of me says KEEP IT or put him/her up for adoption, because some people just don't appreciate what they have. Why I say this? I currently have no children, my wife had 8 miscarriages, she is now considered a medical mystery by the dozens of doctors we have been to, nobody can figure out why her body is aborting after 6-8 weeks of pregnancy. We are now looking into a gestational carrier (surrogate), but in these economic times, I don't have $80,000-$100,000 to lay out before even having the child to make this happen.
Nobody is pushing or pressuring us to have children, it is what we want. But guess what, the pressure is EVERYWHERE...All my friends have children, all of my married siblings have children, of all the close family and friends that we know and have, we are the only ones that do not have children. It sucks. Really.
Appreciate what you have.
losing a baby sucks
.Well, if I did not want a kid i wud never get married, but thats me.
Hey OP, whateva u do, just remeber it takes two. And remember the Gift of life.
U got to live with every decisions U make.
After its all said and done beign responsible is at least learning from ur mistakes, so it does NOT repeat itself
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Geez, this thread has REALLY taken a turn down a few different roads...
Hmm, I just wanna add I'm gonna prob be like David Letterman and have a kid when I'm really old, but hopefully with like a even a couple percent of the money he has...
Funny story... My ex from high school, only dated for a couple months and I broke it off, basically cuz she was really clingy and would talk about family and how we were gonna have a few babies, maybe like 4 or 5 kids
.. Then a "friend" from our circle of friends hit it off with her one night and THEY started dating. Next thing I know, he knocked her up one night after a lot of drinking... Now, they have 2 kids together! Good thing I got the hell out of there! Who knows, coulda been set-up to give her a baby by pokin holes in condoms or something crazy!! Oh, and that "friend" is uhh, not heard from much anymore by anyone really.. Hmm, must be busy or somethin.....
Hmm, I just wanna add I'm gonna prob be like David Letterman and have a kid when I'm really old, but hopefully with like a even a couple percent of the money he has...
Funny story... My ex from high school, only dated for a couple months and I broke it off, basically cuz she was really clingy and would talk about family and how we were gonna have a few babies, maybe like 4 or 5 kids
.. Then a "friend" from our circle of friends hit it off with her one night and THEY started dating. Next thing I know, he knocked her up one night after a lot of drinking... Now, they have 2 kids together! Good thing I got the hell out of there! Who knows, coulda been set-up to give her a baby by pokin holes in condoms or something crazy!! Oh, and that "friend" is uhh, not heard from much anymore by anyone really.. Hmm, must be busy or somethin.....
Good Luck OP... I've been in your shoes... 
The hardest part is geting past the anti-abortion activists in front of the clinic...
I now have 3 kids and they are the best thing that ever happened to me...
I now enjoy sex better than ever... after the snip, snip 10 minute procedure... Like My boy Dark said... it's so damn liberating know you don't have to worry about that crap anymore...
The hardest part is geting past the anti-abortion activists in front of the clinic...
I now have 3 kids and they are the best thing that ever happened to me...
I now enjoy sex better than ever... after the snip, snip 10 minute procedure... Like My boy Dark said... it's so damn liberating know you don't have to worry about that crap anymore...
Your Friendly Canadian
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Think about what you're going to feel 10, 20 years down the road. You'll remember certain days like "if I'd have had that kid he'd be starting kindergarten today" or "he wouldve graduated high school today" you don't want to miss out on that. Yeah there will be a lot of sacrifices, but it will be more than worth it. Don't abort. Worst thing give it up for adoption and let someone else raise it. Just because you gave it life does not give you the right to take it away.
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Think about what you're going to feel 10, 20 years down the road. You'll remember certain days like "if I'd have had that kid he'd be starting kindergarten today" or "he wouldve graduated high school today" you don't want to miss out on that. Yeah there will be a lot of sacrifices, but it will be more than worth it. Don't abort. Worst thing give it up for adoption and let someone else raise it. Just because you gave it life does not give you the right to take it away.
Great. Now he's loose.
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Shoofin, can you possibly find someone you know to help? I know I would have done it for someone I loved, like a family member. I loved being pregnant....with the three children I have.... that I delivered when I was old enough to raise them. Didn't so much love being pregnant as a teenager.
All over now, and yes it's good to be fixed.
All over now, and yes it's good to be fixed.
Shoofin, can you possibly find someone you know to help? I know I would have done it for someone I loved, like a family member. I loved being pregnant....with the three children I have.... that I delivered when I was old enough to raise them. Didn't so much love being pregnant as a teenager.
All over now, and yes it's good to be fixed.
All over now, and yes it's good to be fixed.
~Da Nocturnal Cheetah~
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Being a father was and still is, a very enriching part of my life. I took pleasure in the pamper changing, late nite bouts, and the whole playing with and raising of my daughter. Wouldn't trade it for the world. Though my ex and I split when she was 5, I was never a "check in the mail once a month". No indeed, I am very much a staple in her life. You never stop being a parent. No vacations, just a lot of overtime. Hahaha!
Having said that, I don't ever think it's fair to bring a kid into this world if you are not mentally, financially, emotionally and spiritually prepared, as well as available to deal with it. A child will garner much attention and love, and dictate your social life as well as other aspects of it. It is not to be underestimated (child-rearing).
Having said that, I don't ever think it's fair to bring a kid into this world if you are not mentally, financially, emotionally and spiritually prepared, as well as available to deal with it. A child will garner much attention and love, and dictate your social life as well as other aspects of it. It is not to be underestimated (child-rearing).
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Think about what you're going to feel 10, 20 years down the road. You'll remember certain days like "if I'd have had that kid he'd be starting kindergarten today" or "he wouldve graduated high school today" you don't want to miss out on that. Yeah there will be a lot of sacrifices, but it will be more than worth it. Don't abort. Worst thing give it up for adoption and let someone else raise it. Just because you gave it life does not give you the right to take it away.
That isn't 100% true. every person is different
~Da Nocturnal Cheetah~
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If you are saying this because you are "pro-life", then I understand why you would say that...otherwise...wtf are you talking about? It gives them EVERY right before it's born...
Sheeiitt...some mothers and fathers out here think they have that right AFTER the fact...lol...mine did...lol...
Three Wheelin'
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I have kids and could never see aborting them but my situation is really different than yours. I was married at 25 and had my first kid at 27. However, at 19 I would have def thought about an abort. Funny how your perspective changes with a little bit of age and a stable, loving relationship. At the end of the day you gotta man up a decide because you were the run that flooded the cave so you have to handle the consequences of your actions.
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