well, for having the discussion and making a decision.

only the two of you, really, know what's best for you.

how much does an abortion cost anyways?

and BC next time, dude.

 

5 years ago an abortion was roughly $300 from what i recall

 

Condoms, Box of 12 Magnums - $9.00

Abortion - $300

Raising Kid - $1,000,000

Recognizing you aren't ready so you don't ruin a kid's life and your own -

PRICELESS!!!!

 

^ u dont use magnums... stop tryin to show off lol

 

With Kaiser abortions are 30 bucks...assuming you have insurance

 

The word "termination" sounds so bad....

Good job on making a decision on your future, black man!

 

Hahahahaha......BAAAMMMMM!!!!!!!!!!! It's ya boooyyyy!!!!

 

yea it does.

i keep thinking of ahnold going after sarah connor.

 

Its unused.

 

^^^Ha Dark anyone can just go buy them! j/k j/k


but Pimp how would you know anyway?

 

I'm working on my own "Shorty" thread...

SIKE!!!

I took matters into my own hands so I can be a bad mofo without fear: snip, snip motherfucker...hahahahahaha!!!

 

 

If you are going to stay with her in the long run, OP, you need to get her to take BC. My SO and I generally only rely on that, and I've been fine for 4+ years now. Shit works hahaha

 

Damn, I thought you knew what's up with that (not me personally ya nut)...I got the NIV a few years ago: non invasive vasectomy ftmfw!!!!!!!!

Now I bust a lot, but don't cuss a lot!

 

OP, by BC, I meant Brooklyn College, day care....

 

and I meant Birth Control

 

 

owned

 

dude keep the kid cuz some girls can't even get pregnant any more after an abortion, plus she'll regret it soon enough.

see what you can do to keep it. thats just my 2 cents.

good luck!

 

^ - How do you know she will regret it? It seems as if they had a serious discussion about what to do and made a determination based on both of their needs, interests, and situations in life.

 

You know what they say... "Sex can wait, masturbate."

 

Sorry to say but that comment is so wrong in so many ways.

 

QFT (Quoted for truth).

 

 

I agree. No two situations are alike, as there are many variables to consider in each case. If someone I knew was immature like the OP's girl, and the guy was like the OP in expressing not wanting the child, then why not abort it rather than wreak havoc on the child's life as well as the parents?

Sounds like a no-brainer to me unless you are one of those pro-life people. I'm pro-choice so I am for what's best in that particular scenario...

 

She may feel the same way after "the procedure". I have no personal experience, but have friends who's S.O. have had lots of emotional issues after having it done.

 

exactly...its not like in and out, done, no more issues on your life...

its more like girl doesnt know whats about to happen, but yes she talked it over with her BF...doctor goes in, pieces everywhere, blood, scars girl, girl realizes how imhumane it is, but still possibly feels its right so keeps it going, then doctor checks if he got all of the human's pieces out...oops, missed an arm, back in, more scars...then tells girl she is all set, can't get pregnant from here on out in some circumstances and girl is scarred for life the tries to play it off since it was such a big decision so then everyone even on Azine believes its no biggie...just like having sex in the first place...

go ahead and do it, but OP, can you promise to respond on the emotional, etc effects after a couple months after the abortion with this girl??

who knows i could be way off, right?

pro-life for the win . too many people that do stuff when they can't handle it like sex etc...kinda like a 13 year old taking moms car for a ride. simply too young, but you know he talked it over with his mom first, so its all good!!!!!!!!!!!

 

^ - I'm pretty sure your bible thumping friends showed you some partial birth abortion pictures. It really depends how far along she is. I have known several girls who didn't wait very long before getting an abortion and everything was fine. No emotional problems, not much physical discomfort.

 

i am just noting how an extreme case would go b/c that shit happens and many girls regret it.

i also respect all opinions so OP can do w/e is best for him and his girl in their situation...i just want to represent the other side, so OP can think about it...even if just for a couple minutes.

2 sides to everything.

again good luck to OP.

 

It aint nothing, at that age i had mine and keep both my preludes! You could do it, and besides baby seats look nice in your black interior LOL

 

I'm glad you cleared that up because for a minute there like subinf said, you sounded like you were one of those crazy ass bible belt mofos!

I think the risk to RUIN lives, is greater in this instance, than the risk of not being able to orgasm on demand for a few months...I'm sure he or she will kickout the proper coin to go to a reputable establishment...if you can detail your car with due diligence, then why not detail the pussy properly...preserve the performance/appearance on the coochie unless you plan on trading it in soon after you get it "cleaned"...

 

I'm not disputing your views on abortion because that's your own personal decision and you are entitled to your views. but a fetus at 2 months is about an inch big. as for the emotional distress....you might have a pt there...

 

mental images.

 

Has anybody reading this ever had an abortion? Care to comment...after all...you are anonymous...

 

^ About 2 years ago my gf was going to have one. She ended up having a miscarriage (if that's what it's called even at only 2 months prego).

 

Personally?

 

The sucks OP, Good luck...

 

Thanks everyone for all the wise words. Ravi you are right, if this happens again i deserved to get slapped. But it won't.

For the future we are working on us. FINALLY. one thing we having done in a long time.

 

Deal. Heartless. Put your child up for adoption so it will have a chance at having a good live with loving parents.

 

Yeah. I think at some point we have all known or met someone who has had one. I am more interested in someone relaying to the OP what that whole dilemma feels like personally, so as to aid him/her in making the proper decision as well as informing them of the possible hardships. Of course, the decision should not be restricted to what is heard on AZ, but every little bit helps...