I think... I'm in love with this girl in my school.... She has this beautiful smile that just makes me smile every time I see her.

But we've never talked to each other before, and I'll be out of my school this coming December... sigh...

Why didn't I spot her like last year or something... For the past two years, I didn't go out with anyone just because nobody really interested me enough...

I think she is "the one". My heart just starts to pound madly as soon as I see her on campus.....

I don't know what to do. I've been just lurking around her facebook like a loser for the last couple days. It's been such a long time since I've gotten this excited over a girl...

I didn't want to talk about this with any of my friends since they will just go up to her and make me look stupid and shit.

 

Don't you need to be her friend to view her facebook page? Anyway, just talk to her when you see her, say "Hi!" when you walk by, start a conversation. Do you even know if she's single?

 

You will never know if you don't go talk to her.

 

just man up and talk to her bro. then tell her exactly what you told us

 

She's "the one" but you've never even talked to her?

 

Ohhhh man hyung

Go talk to her more

 

You can change the privacy setting to let anyone view the profile.

Relationship Status:
Single

 

No god, don't tell her what you told us. Having some random guy come up and confess his love for her wouldn't be a good impression . Just go talk to her and ask her out to do something casual.

 

 

lol. do you have any classes together at least?

 

I'll try to find the most un-awkward moment to start a conversation... I should try to figure out what her class schedules are first since I rarely see her on campus.

I get so friggin nervous whenever I see her though... it's like doing an unexpected presentation in front of the class...

 

I know... this is why it's so hard for me to start a conversation. She doesn't know me AT ALL.

I was gonna try to ask her to do dinner with me or something.

 

No...

She's a sophomore, I think. I'm only taking two senior classes to finish up my degree so...........

 

you know what you should do? you should actually stalk her. not in a creepy way. but see if she has like a routine schedule. perhaps going to the library, or cafe on campus. once you get that down, put yourself into the scenario. like try asking something like, "is this seat taken?" sit next to her and just say one thing funny or smart and ease into a conversation.

 

btw, any pics

 

i won't post the pic here, but i'll pm you if anyone is interested.

no i don't have her nudes, don't ask for it.

 

heck why not. im a but curious. pm me? hah

 

pm me too

 

D: is that why you're a virgin?





JK.




or am i...

 

pm sent pm sent

she's korean american btw

 

she doesnt seem too harmful. go for itt.

 

Uh I want a picture too buuuuddy

 

But yeah just go talk to her. Are you Korean or are you white?
If you are white you have a 90 percent chance she will talk to you. If you are Korean I'd say it drops to 60 percent. If you are Indian I'd say a cool 50. If you are black 20, unless she is pissed at her parents then it rises to 99.9

 

^^

 

yay 60 percent seems fair enough

 

so she has a facebook...

and from what i know, facebook got pixxors...

from experience here on acurazine.........

you know what to do bro...
=)

 

<--pm plz

 

Pm

 

Whoa! Slow down buddy!!! You don't even know her and you already think she's "the one"?! You need to shake yourself out of stupor and see that what you are feeling right now is just infatuation.

As what others have already said, try to meet her first and get to know her.

So what's your ethnicity? Are you also Korean?

 

Does she work at a bank? Girls that work at banks seem to be tough to talk to, so I'm just guessing.

It's really nice to look at someone and feel that attraction. Especially for a cute smile. I'm a sucker for a cute smile. But you need to actually talk to her and get to know her. You have basically put her on a pedestal by already thinking her as "the ONE." Talk to her and get to know her. I hope she meets your expectations.

 

x10

You're in a very common trap. You see a girl, and she does it for you. Then, you start filling in the blanks with a story that in your mind, makes her the perfect girl. What you are doing is setting her up to never meet this expectation you have of her now, and you're also setting yourself up to come across as some bizarre stalker guy. Fail and fail. And I see it because I spent nearly my entire high school life doing this. :wink:

Take a breath. Stop creating this version of her in your mind that's ideal. Wipe all that clean, and go talk to her. But clear your head first - of all your preconceptions and anxiety. Go find out who she is, not who yo've made her out to be.

 

You're a senior? Hmm... is the senior prom coming up? It's been a while I forgot what time of the year that is. Or maybe... Halloween is coming up... any parties at your school? Ask if she wants to dress up with you and go have a fun time!!

 

^
It sounds like hes in colllege.. + he's 23, and High School doesn't have graduations in December lol

HAHA

 

Just ask her out, dude. Be forward and confident, but not to the point of arrogance.

 

Yeah.. guess I became too excited since it's very uncommon for me to get attracted by someone like this.

I'm going to ask some of my friends about her (apparently, they know her) and try to talk to her in person next week.

well, I feel so alive and happy anyways. I think it's always great to feel this kind of emotion once in awhile.

 

oh yeah, I'm a senior @ USC graduating in 2 months. So, no high school prom lol. There are so many events coming up for the Halloween... so... we'll see.

and I'm an international student from Korea, I've been in the States for almost 8 years. She's Korean as well but was born here, I think.

 

HOPE NOT

 

pic for me too.

 

my current g/f used to work at the a bank when she was in high school. now she's a pharmacist. so it's all in courage to talk to them.