Selfish when on the rag?
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Originally Posted by L's TL
Alot of girls don't know (or act like they dont know) that they cant get the "man" up and not put him back down.
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Originally Posted by GIBSON6594
Well, i guess you all told me exactly what I was hoping you would. Even though I don't entirely agree, I can't argue against all of you. I guess I need to lower my expectations. Maybe I've been spoiled by the other girls I've dated.
Originally Posted by svtmike
Where did this "rule" come from? Your boner isn't automatically her responsibility.
Actually the boner that she erected is automatically her responsibility. You cant help make something and just not take care of it. Thats kinda irresponsible
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Originally Posted by svtmike
I thought you were a member of Menses....
edit: and a google search confirms this
(I thought you were saying I was a member of Mensa....I suppose not...)
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Originally Posted by darksom1
If you say you just WANT her to do something - then that's cool, but if you are talkng about leaving her if she doesn't, then that is like a demand or ultimatum (I know you didn't say it to her).
Look, of course you are selfish. A lot of guys are when it's like that. I am. We're horny and we want some satisfaction. Nothing wrong with being selfish then. What is wrong, is taking it out on the girl and acting like you don't know you are being selfish! Aren't you old enough to deal with the disappontment of finding out it's that time of the month yet? How long have you been fucking??? And how in the fuck do you justify leaving someone for some shit like that? Be honest...you just wrote this shit for attention dude! Either that or you have a lot to learn young gunner!!
Sheeyyiitt...I want something, head or anal during those times, too. But I'm not going to kick the girl to the curb just because she didn't offer or do it!! That's stupid as shit! She should leave YOUR ass and probably would if she knew you were this selfish and superficial!
Some of ya'll just sit at home and think of some of the dumbest shit to come up in here with...that was funny...NOT!
Look, of course you are selfish. A lot of guys are when it's like that. I am. We're horny and we want some satisfaction. Nothing wrong with being selfish then. What is wrong, is taking it out on the girl and acting like you don't know you are being selfish! Aren't you old enough to deal with the disappontment of finding out it's that time of the month yet? How long have you been fucking??? And how in the fuck do you justify leaving someone for some shit like that? Be honest...you just wrote this shit for attention dude! Either that or you have a lot to learn young gunner!!
Sheeyyiitt...I want something, head or anal during those times, too. But I'm not going to kick the girl to the curb just because she didn't offer or do it!! That's stupid as shit! She should leave YOUR ass and probably would if she knew you were this selfish and superficial!
Some of ya'll just sit at home and think of some of the dumbest shit to come up in here with...that was funny...NOT!
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Gibson, I actually disagree with the majority of the people on here.
If the girl cares about you and your "needs" she will take care of you, period. It's been my experience that HIGHLY interested women will do WHATEVER you want (and more) pretty much 99% of the time.
People on here saying that you're being selfish... Whatever the fuck ever. You want it, and you need it (practically) - so if she wants to keep her man satisfied she better do it. Obviously, you can't give an ultimatum, because that would be overtly driving her away.
But I would consciously move away from her, and consider my other options.
I would do anything for the girl I was with (and you're indicating that you would as well) - if that sentiment isn't reciprocated, then obviously something is wrong here.
P.S. Wonderlust, you might need to re-read his post and then re-evaluate how "unsexy" she might be feeling while she's groping and "fooling around" with him - that excuse doesn't fly. Neither do the cramp pains.
A girl has SOME responsibility for her boyfriends arousal and subsequent satisfaction. Sure, it's not illegal. But that's how you keep guys happy. Ever hear the term "tease" or "cocktease" ? Of course you have... And it really fucking sucks to be "fooling around" with a girl, and just be left hanging. It's probably ONE of the worst things a girl CAN do.
I'm a highly sexualized individual. And the girl I'm with BETTER match that or I'm either going to 1.) cheat OR 2.) dump her for someone else. Obviously some communication is warranted but if you make an effort to communicate your needs and she doesn't take them under consideration, YOU DUMP HER because you deserve better. You're just not sexually compatible.
If the girl cares about you and your "needs" she will take care of you, period. It's been my experience that HIGHLY interested women will do WHATEVER you want (and more) pretty much 99% of the time.
People on here saying that you're being selfish... Whatever the fuck ever. You want it, and you need it (practically) - so if she wants to keep her man satisfied she better do it. Obviously, you can't give an ultimatum, because that would be overtly driving her away.
But I would consciously move away from her, and consider my other options.
I would do anything for the girl I was with (and you're indicating that you would as well) - if that sentiment isn't reciprocated, then obviously something is wrong here.
P.S. Wonderlust, you might need to re-read his post and then re-evaluate how "unsexy" she might be feeling while she's groping and "fooling around" with him - that excuse doesn't fly. Neither do the cramp pains.
A girl has SOME responsibility for her boyfriends arousal and subsequent satisfaction. Sure, it's not illegal. But that's how you keep guys happy. Ever hear the term "tease" or "cocktease" ? Of course you have... And it really fucking sucks to be "fooling around" with a girl, and just be left hanging. It's probably ONE of the worst things a girl CAN do.
I'm a highly sexualized individual. And the girl I'm with BETTER match that or I'm either going to 1.) cheat OR 2.) dump her for someone else. Obviously some communication is warranted but if you make an effort to communicate your needs and she doesn't take them under consideration, YOU DUMP HER because you deserve better. You're just not sexually compatible.
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Originally Posted by amisconception
Gibson, I actually disagree with the majority of the people on here.
If the girl cares about you and your "needs" she will take care of you, period. It's been my experience that HIGHLY interested women will do WHATEVER you want (and more) pretty much 99% of the time.
People on here saying that you're being selfish... Whatever the fuck ever. You want it, and you need it (practically) - so if she wants to keep her man satisfied she better do it. Obviously, you can't give an ultimatum, because that would be overtly driving her away.
But I would consciously move away from her, and consider my other options.
I would do anything for the girl I was with (and you're indicating that you would as well) - if that sentiment isn't reciprocated, then obviously something is wrong here.
P.S. Wonderlust, you might need to re-read his post and then re-evaluate how "unsexy" she might be feeling while she's groping and "fooling around" with him - that excuse doesn't fly. Neither do the cramp pains.
A girl has SOME responsibility for her boyfriends arousal and subsequent satisfaction. Sure, it's not illegal. But that's how you keep guys happy. Ever hear the term "tease" or "cocktease" ? Of course you have... And it really fucking sucks to be "fooling around" with a girl, and just be left hanging. It's probably ONE of the worst things a girl CAN do.
I'm a highly sexualized individual. And the girl I'm with BETTER match that or I'm either going to 1.) cheat OR 2.) dump her for someone else. Obviously some communication is warranted but if you make an effort to communicate your needs and she doesn't take them under consideration, YOU DUMP HER because you deserve better. You're just not sexually compatible.
If the girl cares about you and your "needs" she will take care of you, period. It's been my experience that HIGHLY interested women will do WHATEVER you want (and more) pretty much 99% of the time.
People on here saying that you're being selfish... Whatever the fuck ever. You want it, and you need it (practically) - so if she wants to keep her man satisfied she better do it. Obviously, you can't give an ultimatum, because that would be overtly driving her away.
But I would consciously move away from her, and consider my other options.
I would do anything for the girl I was with (and you're indicating that you would as well) - if that sentiment isn't reciprocated, then obviously something is wrong here.
P.S. Wonderlust, you might need to re-read his post and then re-evaluate how "unsexy" she might be feeling while she's groping and "fooling around" with him - that excuse doesn't fly. Neither do the cramp pains.
A girl has SOME responsibility for her boyfriends arousal and subsequent satisfaction. Sure, it's not illegal. But that's how you keep guys happy. Ever hear the term "tease" or "cocktease" ? Of course you have... And it really fucking sucks to be "fooling around" with a girl, and just be left hanging. It's probably ONE of the worst things a girl CAN do.
I'm a highly sexualized individual. And the girl I'm with BETTER match that or I'm either going to 1.) cheat OR 2.) dump her for someone else. Obviously some communication is warranted but if you make an effort to communicate your needs and she doesn't take them under consideration, YOU DUMP HER because you deserve better. You're just not sexually compatible.
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Originally Posted by amisconception
You still get blood on your balls, inner-thighs, etc.
But it's not blood, it's the "decomposing lining of the uterus"
But it's not blood, it's the "decomposing lining of the uterus"
As long as you arent doing crazy backflips its not a problem.
I mean seriously, if its a big enough deal to dump her over - you can have sex missionary with a condom once a friggin month.
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The dumping comments go beyond the sexual aspects, I'm suprised the AZ women haven't picked up that. The dumping would more so correlate to a selfish personality. Not directly because she didn't blow me.
But perhaps I'm overreacting in that regard.
But perhaps I'm overreacting in that regard.
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Originally Posted by SakiGT
wtf.
As long as you arent doing crazy backflips its not a problem.
I mean seriously, if its a big enough deal to dump her over - you can have sex missionary with a condom once a friggin month.
Men.
As long as you arent doing crazy backflips its not a problem.
I mean seriously, if its a big enough deal to dump her over - you can have sex missionary with a condom once a friggin month.
Men.
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1 - OP is selfish
2 - amis - she may be even doing the making out/groping thinking that will "satisfy" her man. As to her "responsibility"....
3 - Saki is dirty
It's just not my thing. The blood is bad enough, but the other stuff in there is just a major turn off - condom or not
4 - I can't believe this was seriously a question.
2 - amis - she may be even doing the making out/groping thinking that will "satisfy" her man. As to her "responsibility"....
3 - Saki is dirty
It's just not my thing. The blood is bad enough, but the other stuff in there is just a major turn off - condom or not4 - I can't believe this was seriously a question.
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Originally Posted by SakiGT
wtf.
As long as you arent doing crazy backflips its not a problem.
I mean seriously, if its a big enough deal to dump her over - you can have sex missionary with a condom once a friggin month.
Men.
As long as you arent doing crazy backflips its not a problem.
I mean seriously, if its a big enough deal to dump her over - you can have sex missionary with a condom once a friggin month.
Men.
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Originally Posted by moeronn
2 - amis - she may be even doing the making out/groping thinking that will "satisfy" her man. As to her "responsibility"....
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Originally Posted by amisconception
For the record: This type of offense is worth dumping her over. She's an idiot if she doesn't know by now that not orgasming is not satisfying.
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Originally Posted by moeronn
1 - OP is selfish
2 - amis - she may be even doing the making out/groping thinking that will "satisfy" her man. As to her "responsibility"....
3 - Saki is dirty It's just not my thing. The blood is bad enough, but the other stuff in there is just a major turn off - condom or not
4 - I can't believe this was seriously a question.
2 - amis - she may be even doing the making out/groping thinking that will "satisfy" her man. As to her "responsibility"....
3 - Saki is dirty
It's just not my thing. The blood is bad enough, but the other stuff in there is just a major turn off - condom or not4 - I can't believe this was seriously a question.
Sorry I don't have all the psychological answers that you do.
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Originally Posted by amisconception
Women 101 = If she doesn't satisfy me she's pointless to have around and I should just find someone else.
A - not getting married
B - Getting married and divorced repeatedly
C - Finding someone who is as horny as you right now that you won't be able to keep up with in a few years and will end up cheating on you and/or dumping you.