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Old Jun 12, 2009 | 06:12 PM
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The right time to ask?

So i took a class with a girl a year ago, and im attracted to her. She always says hi when we run into each other. I ran into her at the mall one day and she asked if i wanted to come to the club with her. I wasnt able to go to the club because of other things, but i let her know that i really wanted to go. We dont see eachother often, but when we do its the hey hows it going give a hug type deal. If she calls me to hang out again should i just pop the question and ask her if shes seeing anyone and ask her on a date ? or should i try to hang out a few times before i ask her. Might sound dumb, but i guess im just looking for opinions.
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Old Jun 12, 2009 | 06:53 PM
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I'm not sure what you are waiting for.... should have done it about a year ago! If you're into her, next time you see her ask her if she'd like to go out to dinner, then take her out. Don't beat around the bush (pun intended) any longer b/c if you do you will either completely lose your shot or she'll friend-zone you.
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Old Jun 12, 2009 | 06:58 PM
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Originally Posted by SanJoseRoller
If she calls me to hang out again should i .....(snip)....
Why not just call her? Don't wait around. Go for it.
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Old Jun 12, 2009 | 07:07 PM
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Old Jun 12, 2009 | 07:13 PM
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Old Jun 12, 2009 | 10:02 PM
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About a year ago!
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Old Jun 12, 2009 | 11:54 PM
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Old Jun 13, 2009 | 11:34 AM
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I agree, do it now. As for asking if she is seeing someone, skip that and go right to asking her out
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Old Jun 13, 2009 | 11:40 AM
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def go for it! dont wait around ,because the more you wait the more likely she will find someone else so just call the chick!
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Old Jun 13, 2009 | 03:54 PM
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call her...do it asap...if she's saying she wants you to go to the club with her the odds are she isn't seeing anyone. so hurry up and jump on that before it gets away.

just go out hang out with her, see how the night go ad if you guys hang out a few times after that then see if there is a relationship possibility.
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Old Jun 13, 2009 | 04:03 PM
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pics or ban.

and if you dont do it, supply us with a phone number, john smith will do the rest.
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Old Jun 15, 2009 | 08:01 AM
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John Smith would've already hit it.
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Old Jun 15, 2009 | 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted by Doom878
John Smith would've already hit it at the tanning salon.
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Old Jun 18, 2009 | 09:27 AM
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I feel you should wait for her to get into a relationship with some dude that asked her out before you make a move. Or....do it now.
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Old Jun 18, 2009 | 09:39 AM
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wat is all this waiting for her to call you b/s... if you are interested in her, then call her and ask when the next time she is free so that you can take her out...
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Old Jun 18, 2009 | 03:23 PM
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Do it now! We all agree!
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Old Jun 19, 2009 | 07:47 AM
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Hmm. No response from OP. Maybe he's hitting it now.
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Old Jun 20, 2009 | 11:33 PM
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^ He'll come back in a year to check.
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Old Jul 10, 2009 | 12:25 PM
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^ lmao
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Old Jul 10, 2009 | 09:26 PM
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Originally Posted by doopstr
fail
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