oh man.. it was my birthday last night, so i went out to a bar with a few of my girls, and we saw these guys that my 2 girlfriends knew, and we were hanging, etc. then eventually one of the guys was buying me birthday drinks, etc, and then me and the guy start having like real conversation, it was actually quite nice.

but he's 38.

... me and one of my friends went back to the guy's (HUGE) house with his friend, and we were hanging out, then me and the 38 y.o. started messing around (no sex) and this guy is like absolutely googley-eyed for me. he thinks i'm the coolest girl, blah blah. BUT HE"S 38!!!

he wants me to go out to dinner with him in the next couple of days... i'm scared! i mean, he's pretty goodlooking, loaded, and very nice. oh, and republican

what should i doooo????

(oh, and he eats great pussy).

 

Go for it! See how things go, just keep your heads up.

Older men are awesome!

 

Damn that is quite a bit older. Almost 2 times the age.

Have fun but that seems a little bit of a stretch for a relationship.

Man I hope at 38 I can score a 20 year old.

 

....don't you mean...keep his HEAD down...LOL...sorry, couldn't help it...

 

What?! His head should definitely be up, not down!

 

only 38? go older...they will spend even more money on you. try the retired set!

 

hahahah you posted it.

We had this conversation on AIM just a little while ago

I told her to go for it, and take advantage of his spending abilites.


I also added that the age thing is fine...when i'm just about to come out of my second marriage and move on to my third I will probably be in the 40-45 year old range. If my first daughter doesn't have any hot freshmen college roomates, I might just have to go hit on girls in their young 20s are the bars.

Do it, what do you have to lose.
You eat free, he eats pussy.

 

What's so wrong about 38??

do it.. ride him like it's the championship rodeo..

 

that's a strange oral position...unless he his holding her upsided down (by the hips), while standing up...

 

I'm 39, but since I wear my goatee salt-n-pepper...I look too old for dem yungens...Sithgirl loves it...

 

Um, I was referring to the other head...

 

I'd say go for it but keep an eye out, as in any relationship with someone new

 

...LOL

 

38 is not that old

 

right! in dog years that's only like 5..

 

i'd say go for it...your not old old until you hit 39

 

Hmmm cant wait to be 38

 

 

If you're both mature, age is irrelevant.

 

Till his equipment goes limp and hes applying for social security.

 

no, actually 39 and gray... ...LOL

 

The SNAPS say go for it you got yourself a DILF

SNAPS only goes for MILF's

 

Go for it! Old, rich men...I see no problem with it.

 

Dog I'd like to Fuck

 

Most older men know there is more than one way to please a woman. Get some clarity on what he expects relationship wise, and if it is something that you agree with, then go for it.

 

hmmmm. i guess get him to buy you a new car and then trade him in for a new model

 

I've never dated a guy my own age. My bf now is 7 years older then me. Older men are better because they are usually 1- more mature 2- have a career 3- know what they want out of life

 

Gotta be the best reply I have seen on here!!


Yes, go for it!!

 

Thank you. :masksface:

 

I didn't know eating pussy was considered just messing around I guess it's not sex, but it is oral sex and the real deal isn't usually far behind. Anyway, just have fun w/ the poor smuck. He old enough to know better than to get all googly-eyed over a chick he just met, but......Who cares about age really, same with inter-racial dating. It doesn't matter, it's a new millenium, do what you want, take it for what it is and don't get all caught up in the age difference thing.

 

There is higher probability that an older man is mature due to tons of experience (so they know how to please a girl), confident without being arrogant, and has direction in life. But of course, not all of them are like that.

I prefer older men myself. As they say, men age like fine wine.

 

My wife is 12 years my junior.

 

smart man....

 

He's had somewhere in the vacinity of 25 YEARS of experience, I would hope he has it mastered by now!
I would say go for it and see where it takes you. But beware.
I had a friend that started dating an older guy (22-36) and things started getting serious and a year later she thought that she had changed his playing ways that things were going great, blah, blah, blah.....needless to say that the "you can't teach an old dog new tricks" saying turned out to be true, and she was crushed to find out he was doing FOUR other girls behind her back. Then she felt foolish for thinking she was going to change a man who had been a player for the last 20 years. It was then she realized that she wasn't the first to "get fucked" by him, and probably won't be the last.

But I realize that not all old single men are like that.

Not only all that, dating an older man like that makes that whole hanging out with friends thing difficult, a 38 year old man will probably not have the greatest of times hanging out the 20 year olds on the weekends, and generally, a 20 year olds idea of fun does not tend to be hanging out with a group or 35-40 married couples......just a thought

 

I though she your daughters' friend before you got married?

 

Have some fun with it and maybe even some nice gifts.

Just don't get to emotionally attached because he's more than likely just looking for a good time with a hot young girl.

 

Enjoy it while it lasts.

 

Not quite THAT young...

 

ok - so let's recap. a man old enough to be your father is flashing his money around, is buying you drinks (when you're not legally able to drink), and takes you back to his house the first night he meets you and appears to have fed you some pretty decent lines.

20 year-old girls see things a lot differently than 38 year old single men. just be cautious. if you're out to just have fun - that's cool - just look out for #1

 

not going to say what i'm thinkinkg, but you know.