I wont make this long.

Im not sure if people remember me making a thread awhile ago (like 2 years ago) on how i found the girl who could be the one?
Well anyways i dated her for awhile and realized she needed to grow up a little since she was just a freshmen in college. So basicly i wanted her to get all the partying out of her system. Anyways, I havent seen her in about a year but i still talk to her randomly online and on the phone. Well couple saturdays ago she asked me if i wanted to go out for dinner and drinks. So i went and had the perfect time. We ended back in apartment where things went well, so well that i didnt come home till 6am. The shitty part is that she has a boyfriend right now which she says she gonna break up soon, which she hasnt yet. Now that saturday night was different than any other night i have with girls, the way she looked at me and such just screamed "im in love". Im not stupid, i know when a girl just wants to hook up and dont have much feelings behind it. But that night she talked as if we were gonna get married and how she never been so happy her whole life. Hell she even wanted me to stay with her the whole Sunday. She even talked about how she wanted to take me out for my birthday this week.

Well that was then.
So that Monday comes around and shes basicly keeping her distance from me. I will call and she will make small talk then say she has to go. OK fine, i give her the space cuz i know when im not wanted. So now i see her online and she talks to me about her day and such. Anytime shes online she talks to me, everyday. But as soon as i bring up anything that has to do with us, she says she has to go.
Now today she says thats she cant see me on thursday to take me out for my birthday. Of course im not going to get mad cuz thats her choice. She said she cant go cuz shes moving back from school that day.

WHAT THE FUCK IS SHE SCARED OF ?

I mean i know when im getting played, but shit there is no way in hell she was doing that on saturday. There were strong ass feelings there and i know it!.

Could she be scared that i might not take her seriously this time? I mean i did break up with her pretty badly last time and her friends told me she was hurt for awhile.

Or maybe she just doesnt want to break up with her current boyfriend for me?

WHAT THE FUCK DOES SHE WANT FROM ME!

 

You know what, she aint worth my pain. Whatever her problem is fine with me, but dont talk to me as if nothing happened on saturday.

 

jesal whats ur aim?


i'll give u some advice as soon as i get back from the gym

 

arent you like 17? how you gonna help me.

anywho, its crazyquattro

 

nigga plz


i'm 21 altho i have the mind of a high schooler

 

i wouldnt stress over her, if she calls ya up take it from there, sounds like she might just be payin games

 

she probably still has feelings for her BF. she has a decision to make between you and him, and it isn't easy for her(you know how clingy girlz can be.) When the subject of your relationship, and your saturday night hits the table, she abandons the subject because she hasn't made up her mind about what choice she wants to make. Sure she likes you, but doesn't want to lead you on too much until she has made up her mind for sure.

 

i agree, but who knows with girls!!!

 

its any man's guess when it comes to girleez.

 

wait another year

 

dude shes playing you.

she doesnt want to, and isnt going to break up with her man.


its not very hard to fake `feelings`

 

this i know. But why bother to to show that much feelings if she just wanted to fool around? Shit i so would have done her even without all that noise.

Ahh well, im over it.

 

Yeah, get back to your 20 gigs of porn that won't talk back or show 'feelings' and PM me in the morning!

 

I do need to stop recycling my ex girlfriends though. I need some fresh meat.

 

hit up high school girls

 

I forgot to mention that shes going out of the country for 2 years in June :o

 

Forget about her then!!!!!!!!

unless you just wanna get sexual... which is a whole other thing, i mean... i hope you know the difference?

spit game nikker

 

test the waters and if its good enough I'm sure you can persuade her to leave her man. But do you really wanna be in that situation?


Many times girls who already have a guy have issues if they are out cheating on him. If you had her who's to say she wouldn't be out cheatin' on you?

 

[QUOTE]Originally posted by Crazy Sellout
I wont make this long.

Im not sure if people remember me making a thread awhile ago (like 2 years ago) on how i found the girl who could be the one?
Well anyways i dated her for awhile and realized she needed to grow up a little since she was just a freshmen in college. So basicly i wanted her to get all the partying out of her system. Anyways, I havent seen her in about a year but i still talk to her randomly online and on the phone. Well couple saturdays ago she asked me if i wanted to go out for dinner and drinks. So i went and had the perfect time. We ended back in apartment where things went well, so well that i didnt come home till 6am. The shitty part is that she has a boyfriend right now which she says she gonna break up soon, which she hasnt yet. Now that saturday night was different than any other night i have with girls, the way she looked at me and such just screamed "im in love". Im not stupid, i know when a girl just wants to hook up and dont have much feelings behind it. But that night she talked as if we were gonna get married and how she never been so happy her whole life. Hell she even wanted me to stay with her the whole Sunday. She even talked about how she wanted to take me out for my birthday this week.

Well that was then.
So that Monday comes around and shes basicly keeping her distance from me. I will call and she will make small talk then say she has to go. OK fine, i give her the space cuz i know when im not wanted. So now i see her online and she talks to me about her day and such. Anytime shes online she talks to me, everyday. But as soon as i bring up anything that has to do with us, she says she has to go.
Now today she says thats she cant see me on thursday to take me out for my birthday. Of course im not going to get mad cuz thats her choice. She said she cant go cuz shes moving back from school that day.

WHAT THE FUCK IS SHE SCARED OF ?

I mean i know when im getting played, but shit there is no way in hell she was doing that on saturday. There were strong ass feelings there and i know it!.

Could she be scared that i might not take her seriously this time? I mean i did break up with her pretty badly last time and her friends told me she was hurt for awhile.

Or maybe she just doesnt want to break up with her current boyfriend for me?

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To me it sounds like she is going through some drama with her ex. She is probably in love with the past and not ready for you. Her coming on and then going back to the guy she is running from isn't surprising. If this girl is worth it then hang on. IMO, don't push it. She likes you because you are doing something different from the current guy. Good luck man.