It feels like my social life just went down the drain due to work. I only go out with my close friends on my days off and they rarely have plans and if they do its boring. I've been like this for about 8 months already and I just miss having a girlfriend/ girl with friends with benefits. Last 2 years I was working less but going to school and going out alot with my old friends and this was at high school and 1st year in college. I just need some advice on how to start picking up girls again. The friends I hang out with right now don't really know that much girls and I don't really want to talk to my old friends because its been a while and they are doing they're own things. Anyways yeah I'd say myspace but theres too much snobby girls on there now. Last time, I even got some punani was like 6 months ago from my ex.

 

How they hell do you get laid on myspace anyway? I'm not asking because I want to try it, I'm in a serious relationship, but how are all these people having so much sex from that website?

 

Need more info. Age? Location? Student or working full-time? Occupation? Hobbies? If you're still in school, it should be a piece of cake to pull tail unless you're like mystikk and in purgatory in utah.

I'd generally recommend pursuing hobbies you like, so you won't be bored and will be doing something constructive, and then meeting girls who also share the same interest in your hobbies. For example, shooting pool, bowling league, poetry slams, art classes, salsa dancing, martial arts, volunteering at humane society, or beach clean-up, etc.

 

Whoa! Six months on the palm ehh? Yeah that's rough. My advice is just get out and keep your eyes open. Restaraunts, bars, malls and even museums. I went to museum hopping with my GF down in DC last month and you wouldnt believe how many hot chicks I saw!

 

<-- married now to a beautiful woman.

this was my pick up line that never failed (in clubs/bars), see the girl, ask her who shes with, if she says a dude just say something like "wanted to tell you, you are the most beautiful girl here blah blah" and if she says no one, tell her and then buy her a drink...

this used to work when i was 120 pounds.... now at 185 im sure i could pull way more...

OOOOOOOOH THE SINGLE LIFE, some days i miss it. until then kamikaze, ill live vicariously through you boi!

 

You realize that is less than what Yumchah weighs, right?





To the OP, what do you and your friends do when you hang out?

 

sheesh I havent weighed 120 since 8th grade LOL...Take my cousin (Derk'sK24)'s advice

 

Everyone tells me I have beautifull eyes and I dont really see it like that but other ppl do. They compare my eyes with husky dog eyes how blue they are. So wherywhere I go, girls always look me in the eyes and tell their friends Look at that guys eyes. So I walk up to those girls and tell them "I tihnk you have the most beutifull eyes" or some crap like that haha They ususally go , NO WAY I was just thinking the same thing about yours. hahaha I have been single for 3 years and have not regreted it if you know what I mean hahaha

 

Meh. Booty>rack>teeth (i abhor chicks with jacked up teeth)>eyes. Don't get me wrong, nice eyes are definitely key but i'd be the first to admit that's not the initial attribute i look at when spocking out a chick. Let's just say i start looking low and then adjust my gaze upwards

 

Where to start...

 

try to get a job that involved socializing with people. places such as a resturant, bar, or club. about 2 years ago i was really shy and had barely any game, after a few months of workin in nightclubs, i was wayyy more confident and knew how to talk to girls, best thing ive ever done, 2 years later and still works...its easier when ur working someone to start a conversation with a girl, because u can just say stuff like, "oh what do u think of this place" "how long u been coming here" "are u having fun tonight" they are great openers that always lead to longer conversation

 

and honestly, its more about confidence versus looks...but granted u cant be the ugliest guy and try to pickup the hottest girl

 

To tell you the truth mostly drive around to nice areas and just eat out. We've been to clubs like three times.

 

 

Go off the eye thing bro, ANYTHING TO BREAK THE ICE!!!

Girls are suckers for eyes too, i have almost lime green eyes (my mama is greek) and its easy to spark up convo ya know. if ya got it flaunt the everlasting shit out of it!

 

dude your avatar, had me fuckin rollin.

"im a tiger, i eat, i sleep, i roar, i climb, i wash....haha"

LOL!O!L!O!L!

 

Whatever you do, just know you're doing a lot better than me, as evidenced below.

https://acurazine.com/forums/dating-relationships-14/place-like-prison-696326/

 

damn really sorry to hear that mystikk. Don't worry bro you will find one because alot of people tend to meet more girls when they are not expecting it, trust me

anyways cheers to you buddy

 

I don't even know how to put this without sounding like I don't mind "punani". I do get my punani but it is from random chicks that I talked to a couple times. It gets kind of old because now that I am getting older I am trying to find something more serious and maybe someone I can take home to moms.

My advice is just go out to certain spots that you and your friends like and maybe some chick will catch your eyes there and then slowly become a regular there or something. After that break the ice by having small conversation and then WHAM!!!! BAMM!!! THANK YOU MAM!!!!! Unless your looking for something serious then disregard the last part of it. Just keep your eyes open for opportunity. I am sure I missed a couple opportunities with people I encounter at work but like people said there are opportunities out there you just have to take chances.

 

just find more activities to do, u'll meet girls everywhere u go..other than staying at home on myspace :/