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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 12:37 AM
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Place is like a prison ..

My school is one huge sausagefest. There's almost 400 students here, maybe 13 are girls. 3 are decently attractive, all are taken. On top of that, my busy schedule doesn't permit me to go out that much. The only female interaction I and a few friends can get is at the strip club during a rare free late-night weekend.

So saying that .. what options do I have to actually meet women? Utah has a surprisingly good amount of good-looking women here, maybe I should try to cut some time off to go about the town. I was considering going to SLC's huge library more often, but I'm not sure if I'll have much success bothering a girl studying. I'm trying to think up ways to break the ice in that situation actually.

Online matching, maybe? I would try something like that especially with my limited free time, I'm just not sure I can spend the $30 a month and get no results at all. I searched on this topic already, but I'm still not that convinced ..

Clubs and bars, not really into the scene. If I go to a bar, it's to drink, not meet people .. Clubs are cool every once in a while, but when it fills up, it's obnoxious ..
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 12:39 AM
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Ok, where in in Utah are you? This is just sad and pathetic. You must be in some sort of interdimensional hellhole.

Join the Mormon church or at least associate with it somehow, there are PLENTY of "bad Mormon girls" who will break the whole "no sex until marriage" bit. Trust me.
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 12:43 AM
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South Jordan, about 15 minutes away from downtown SLC. Other than the absence of women at my school, it's not so bad living here, as I see hot girls driving around every day, but that's it .. I just don't know where they gather heh.
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 12:45 AM
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Originally Posted by mystikk
I just don't know where they gather heh.
Its Utah, I just told you
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 12:50 AM
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Fair enough.

The Mormon church is a good idea. No mormonites I know have upheld the no-sex rule.
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 01:10 AM
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 01:33 AM
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lol where in cali? Cause i think i need to move
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 01:39 AM
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lol where in cali? Cause i think i need to move
Anywhere near my house. You'll find mad bitches. Ha ha...

On a serious note, so cal. The saying here in Temecula is, town of lifted trucks and dirty sluts. It works.
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 01:46 AM
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Originally Posted by mystikk
My school is one huge sausagefest. There's almost 400 students here, maybe 13 are girls. 3 are decently attractive, all are taken. On top of that, my busy schedule doesn't permit me to go out that much. The only female interaction I and a few friends can get is at the strip club during a rare free late-night weekend.

So saying that .. what options do I have to actually meet women? Utah has a surprisingly good amount of good-looking women here, maybe I should try to cut some time off to go about the town. I was considering going to SLC's huge library more often, but I'm not sure if I'll have much success bothering a girl studying. I'm trying to think up ways to break the ice in that situation actually.

Online matching, maybe? I would try something like that especially with my limited free time, I'm just not sure I can spend the $30 a month and get no results at all. I searched on this topic already, but I'm still not that convinced ..

Clubs and bars, not really into the scene. If I go to a bar, it's to drink, not meet people .. Clubs are cool every once in a while, but when it fills up, it's obnoxious ..

I totally feel your pain, my school is pretty much the same way except we have maybe 1000 people. The women are either not attractive at all, lesbian or taken, it sucks.
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 02:19 AM
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I totally feel your pain, my school is pretty much the same way except we have maybe 1000 people. The women are either not attractive at all, lesbian or taken, it sucks.
Is the school in Ventura or San Jose...cause in SJ there are plenty of beezies around all over the place.
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 02:21 AM
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In Ventura. Film school doesn't seem to bring in many attractive chicks, our photography campus in Santa Barbara on the other hand...
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 12:10 PM
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I could use a vacation to CA right about now.

I just signed up on Match.com. Minus the fees, there's really nothing to lose ..
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 01:29 PM
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I think you need to transfer schools...
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 01:36 PM
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I'm with Ken. Join one of those mormon groups. don't they hand out young hot wife's?
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 02:30 PM
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Do you snowboard? I always see mad hotties at snowbird, park city or canyons. I like snowboard betties, they in general are athletic, friendly, and adventurous. Strike up a conversation on the lift or chill out at the bar apres ski.

I haven't observed too much hawtness around slc, some cute girls at macaroni grill once in awhile. Last year i went to vortex on a friday with my boy and it was a cockfest with fugly chicks.
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 02:41 PM
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Well you're definitely not going to meet any worthy women in the strip club. Just go to different social places like restaraunts, malls or something like that. You can always catch a group of girls pregamin at a restaraunt on the weekends and you might need to change your goals as far as goin to the bar. It's definitely not hard to drink and look for women at the same time. Not a buzz killer for me....
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 02:42 PM
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I would not waste a lot of time in SLC unless you are Mormon. Honestly, they'll date you for a bit until they either figure out you are not or they can't convert you. Then they'll dump you. It's a waste of time. This happened to me...twice. A lot of them will be friendly with the aim to convert you, not date you. But it's hard to tell the difference early on. Also, they use women almost exclusively in recruiting around Temple Square, which gives the appearance of a target rich environment but couldn't be more the opposite.

Stick to girls with common interests and backgrounds. I don't know if moving schools is an option, but UT is going to be Mormon-rich in general. You can't catch a deep-sea fish in a lake my friend.
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 04:55 PM
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Originally Posted by mystikk
On top of that, my busy schedule doesn't permit me to go out that much. The only female interaction I and a few friends can get is at the strip club during a rare free late-night weekend.


If you don't have time to go out and meet women, do you have the time to spend with one on a regular basis, or commit to a relationship? (Not sure what you're looking for).
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Old Nov 13, 2008 | 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
If you don't have time to go out and meet women, do you have the time to spend with one on a regular basis, or commit to a relationship? (Not sure what you're looking for).
I think, at the very least, his hand wants a break
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Old Nov 14, 2008 | 09:23 AM
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What horrible school is this so I can warn everybody not to go there?



And it sounds like the Mormons created this place to punish all the non-Mormons
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Old Nov 14, 2008 | 11:03 AM
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I would not do the Mormon thing. You may get brainwashed. They are very friendly but to extream.
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Old Nov 14, 2008 | 11:39 AM
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go to Vegas. they got legal prostitutes dude.
you can pick up a legal hooker in front of a cop and there's nothing he/she can do.
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Old Nov 14, 2008 | 12:01 PM
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Originally Posted by stright-(paint)balling
go to Vegas. they got legal prostitutes dude.
you can pick up a legal hooker in front of a cop and there's nothing he/she can do.
Actually, prostitution is illegal in Vegas. It's legal in most other parts of Nevada though
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Old Nov 14, 2008 | 12:48 PM
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Well, there's always that option.
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Old Nov 14, 2008 | 02:11 PM
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Originally Posted by TommySalami
Actually, prostitution is illegal in Vegas. It's legal in most other parts of Nevada though
still you can get a hooker near Vegas and nothing they can do.
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Old Nov 14, 2008 | 02:17 PM
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Do you snowboard? I always see mad hotties at snowbird, park city or canyons. I like snowboard betties, they in general are athletic, friendly, and adventurous. Strike up a conversation on the lift or chill out at the bar apres ski.
+1 Go for the snowboard chicks.
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Old Nov 14, 2008 | 07:23 PM
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Originally Posted by slvrdrgn123
+1 Go for the snowboard chicks.
there's a snowboard/ski "mountain" (but it's a giant hill) over by MAP/ELP.(Marysville Auto Plant)/(East Liberty Plant) I occassionally go over there after work.
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Old Nov 14, 2008 | 07:43 PM
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Brilliant! Go hang out with Water, he brings all the girls in

Originally Posted by stright-(paint)balling
there's a snowboard/ski "mountain" (but it's a giant hill) over by MAP/ELP.(Marysville Auto Plant)/(East Liberty Plant) I occassionally go over there after work.
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Old Nov 14, 2008 | 08:06 PM
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Old Nov 15, 2008 | 02:17 AM
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Originally Posted by Street Spirit
If you don't have time to go out and meet women, do you have the time to spend with one on a regular basis, or commit to a relationship? (Not sure what you're looking for).
If I know I'm gonna be in a relationship, I'll make the time .. I'm not really willing to go out if there's a suspicion I might come home "empty-handed".

Snowboard chicks indeed. I'll be going to Brighton pretty regularly soon.

Oh, and I'm going to Colorado for Thanksgiving, I'll have to check out the clubs there.
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Old Nov 15, 2008 | 12:31 PM
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Originally Posted by 1StGenCL
Brilliant! Go hang out with Water, he brings all the girls in
hell yeah, go to the airport and hit on airport check in lady(that's how i got my current g/f). got her number and i'm dating her now.
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Old Nov 15, 2008 | 01:13 PM
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Originally Posted by mystikk
Snowboard chicks indeed. I'll be going to Brighton pretty regularly soon.
Coolness, You guys getting some fresh pow-pow yet? I like hitting brighton for some night boarding action. Going to whistler in january, cannot wait, want now.
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Old Nov 17, 2008 | 02:22 PM
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Originally Posted by surfer rick
Coolness, You guys getting some fresh pow-pow yet? I like hitting brighton for some night boarding action. Going to whistler in january, cannot wait, want now.
I wish Brighton was getting hit, but the whole freaking state is expected to have sunny, cold-ass days for at least a week.
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Old Nov 17, 2008 | 03:17 PM
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Damn, no chicks and no snow. 0 for 2 cowboy
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