need help for best friend
11-23-2003, 10:01 PM
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need help for best friend
my best friend has this situation, need your guys and girls input...
he's been going out with this girl for two years now, and lately they've been on and off now. a few weeks ago, he was gonna give this personalized ring to her, but while it was being made, they broke up. whats kind of adding fuel to the fire was that my friend's mom doesn't really like her, and she is intimidated by his mom. so he wants to give her this ring, but because they broke up, he wasn't sure he wanted to. the girl wants the ring. his mom doesn't want her to have the ring, saying that 'giving it to her would signify that both of you aren't broken up.' he's frustrated with the fact that both sides are aiming this to him, calling him up and getting into heated arguments, so now he just completely cuts off contact from both out of pure frustration (she calls him a coward, his mom says he's running away). now he's completely confused on what to do... he wants to make both sides happy and compromise on the situation
what would you do if you were him?
he's been going out with this girl for two years now, and lately they've been on and off now. a few weeks ago, he was gonna give this personalized ring to her, but while it was being made, they broke up. whats kind of adding fuel to the fire was that my friend's mom doesn't really like her, and she is intimidated by his mom. so he wants to give her this ring, but because they broke up, he wasn't sure he wanted to. the girl wants the ring. his mom doesn't want her to have the ring, saying that 'giving it to her would signify that both of you aren't broken up.' he's frustrated with the fact that both sides are aiming this to him, calling him up and getting into heated arguments, so now he just completely cuts off contact from both out of pure frustration (she calls him a coward, his mom says he's running away). now he's completely confused on what to do... he wants to make both sides happy and compromise on the situation
what would you do if you were him?
11-23-2003, 10:04 PM
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Re: need help for best friend
Originally posted by creationCL
my best friend has this situation, need your guys and girls input...
he's been going out with this girl for two years now, and lately they've been on and off now. a few weeks ago, he was gonna give this personalized ring to her, but while it was being made, they broke up. whats kind of adding fuel to the fire was that my friend's mom doesn't really like her, and she is intimidated by his mom. so he wants to give her this ring, but because they broke up, he wasn't sure he wanted to. the girl wants the ring. his mom doesn't want her to have the ring, saying that 'giving it to her would signify that both of you aren't broken up.' he's frustrated with the fact that both sides are aiming this to him, calling him up and getting into heated arguments, so now he just completely cuts off contact from both out of pure frustration (she calls him a coward, his mom says he's running away). now he's completely confused on what to do... he wants to make both sides happy and compromise on the situation
what do i tell him?
my best friend has this situation, need your guys and girls input...
he's been going out with this girl for two years now, and lately they've been on and off now. a few weeks ago, he was gonna give this personalized ring to her, but while it was being made, they broke up. whats kind of adding fuel to the fire was that my friend's mom doesn't really like her, and she is intimidated by his mom. so he wants to give her this ring, but because they broke up, he wasn't sure he wanted to. the girl wants the ring. his mom doesn't want her to have the ring, saying that 'giving it to her would signify that both of you aren't broken up.' he's frustrated with the fact that both sides are aiming this to him, calling him up and getting into heated arguments, so now he just completely cuts off contact from both out of pure frustration (she calls him a coward, his mom says he's running away). now he's completely confused on what to do... he wants to make both sides happy and compromise on the situation
what do i tell him?
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11-24-2003, 11:42 AM
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Originally posted by SilviaGTO
they broke up, why should she get a damn ring. if she wants the ring, she can pay him for it
and he needs to tell his mom to let him live his life
they broke up, why should she get a damn ring. if she wants the ring, she can pay him for it
and he needs to tell his mom to let him live his life
why would he give the ring to the girl???
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