Nicky Pass

I was in a bad mood on Saturday, but the woman and I went out with another couple. Needless to say, I wasn't that friendly! I had just gotten over being sick for a week, and I didn't really want to go out with the other couple. She told me to go fuck myself in front of them and stomped away telling me that I'm inmature. I didn't see her Sunday....then last night she calls me after work and says shes tired and going home. Then she calls me from her new friend's house a 11:00pm asking me how to hook up a DVD player! All I said was "I thought you were tired!"....she had another hissy....saying I'm trying to control her and I don't want her to have any friends! Then she calls me today and asks why I never invite her over. For the past 4 years....I've never had to ask her over. Then she says shes going out tonight and tomorrow night......and maybe we should only see each other on Saturdays! WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH HER! She contradicts herself all of the time...and I think she is just looking to pick a fight with me....I don't know how much of this shit I can take!

Sarlacc

du- du- du- DUMP!

mattg

saline poisoning?

TLD

Put her in an armbar.

Nicky Pass

Seriously....lately....dealing with her is like dealing with a stubborn 6th grader. I always get....whatever......FINE....I DON'T WANNA TALK TO YOU.....then she hangs up on me. Yet, she'll get mad at me for not saying goodbye at the end of a conversation!

Doc.Booty

Sounds like 99.9% of all women.

Nicky Pass

I was thinking more like Wanderlie Silva knees to the face!

FunkeeTown

dude, sounds like she's dealing with something big and she's taking it out on you. go over to her house with some flowers and buy her some starbucks coffee and ya'll sit down on the front porch swing and talk this out. stop yelling back at her because that won't solve anything. sometimes you just have to chill.

TLD

How about a rear naked choke?

oneilc

Leave now.. do it ... DO IT! Seriously, whatever she's doing it doesn't sound healthy to me. You can try talking it out with her but if she keeps flaking out like this I would set her aside for a bit. She could always just be tired of the relationship considering that you've been going out for so long.

Nicky Pass

She'll says shes going to her friend's house....which is fine, but when I stop by my friend's house....I get....you never wanna spend time with me...or....hes single.....theres girls there isn't there?!

GeishaGirl

She sounds really unstable and you shouldn't have to deal with that. Does she have a history of these episodes? It also sounds like she wants you to chase her and my advice is not to. There is nothing that makes fits worse than when you placate them. Good luck with that!

mantis23

chloroform

JnC

iTrader: (12)

Um no shrink or nothing, but she is messing with your head, and thats all. And i am certainly not being sexiest saying all girls are like that. Some chix love attention, and when they dont get it they flip out, you dont have to go outta your way to please them, she should like or love you for who you are not coz you will be whoever she wants you to be. Dump her and get on with it, bail out while you are still ahead. Coz you certainly dont wanna be a in a situation where she tells you " its no you its me " , my vote goes on Dumping her.

oneilc

"excuse me honey, does this towel smell like chloroform?"

phipark

valium

BC2G

leave the silicon ho... u dont need dat bro

UNCTYPE-S

you have been complaining about this for a while now right? Like this wasnt your first thread about this before i dont think. why do you keep putting up with it?

Nicky Pass

I don't know either

CrockPot

me...thinks...she...has...another....nicky...in... .her....life....

mesmerize

not all girls are like that.
and you shouldn't put up with the ones who are.
end of story.

Intox1221

omg why u putting up wit all this n makin urself misrable... get out of the god damn mind cage she trying to put u in, and fly free....

txathlete

Sounds like she's already cheating or gonna cheat on you dude. She's trying to make you feel guilty so that you break up with her rather than she do it to you. That's the vibe I am getting.

Red-CL

Give her an ultimatum.

Let you know what's going on or lose you forever.

Don't chase 'em, replace 'em.

I know you're 4 years in but she'll only get worse with time.

amisconception

Try this...

if she doesn't quit... dump her.

she sounds so confused

SilviaGTO

i cant help you with that. she sounds insane.

i could see her being pissed off if you were being an asshole.. but it sounds like shes using it as an excuse to leave you and make it look like your fault

sasha

One way to look at her behavior is she probably wants change, perhaps she's craving for more wooing/flirtation and excitement in your relationship, but she just doesn't know how to express it. Maybe she feels that you don't shower her with the same kind and amount of attention as you used to.

In any case, you need to talk and straighten this out.

chef chris

Time to roll Nicky...

dallison

its the new boobs man, they change women

also she is prob a bit insecure if she is asking if there are other girls at your friends place

dabuda

4 years? maybe she's expecting a rock? are all her friends getting married or already married?

Nicky Pass

One girl she knows is engaged.....I'm not thinking about marrige for a LONG time! I'm not even thinking about contemplating pondering about getting engaged!

dallison

not after something like she is pulling now

chef chris

Nicky...Maybe you guys need to be apart for a few years, etc.

Nicky Pass

Years