my gf broke up with me after about a year and two months...i feel like shit, she was like my whole life. the reason she broke it off was because it turned into just us hanging out instead of her having any friends. she started geting depressed and ... now were here, she says that she loves me and wants to get her life back and then we can go out again, i realize that i need to be less controling of what she does and let her go out with her friends more often. when we are apart do i wait for her, or do i like hang with other chicks or what??

 

move on you're still young

 

ya but the hard part is that i love her and would do anything for her, shes not like any other girls, i also like love her family and they have been a huge part in my life, long story...i guess it would be really hard without that support, but i could probably manage

 

It sounds like you've been through a lot for a 17 year old.

With that said, move on to better things.

 

Dude, you're 17. 'Nuff said.

I loved a girl from 17 to 21 but she treated me like shit. Haven't spoken to her in nearly 2 years now. I'm better for it and I've found someone completely different and I didn't know how good love could be.

You'll change a lot in the next 5 years and so will she. She obviously has some issues other than you that she needs to deal with. If you really love her you'll want her to deal with those things.

Then again, if you really love her she wouldn't have been depressed and you would have let her do the things that make her happy, like have friends

 

Pretty much covers it.

 

Dude, you're fockin' 17! Go out and get a life. You haven't even experienced college yet!

 

You'll both go off to college next year. Most likely to different schools. She'll find a new boyfriend and you'll end up at the school clinic with a burning sensation when you pee.

You've got nothing to worry about. Again, since you think you love her let her go. If she's being honest then she does need to get away and get herself straightened away before she can be in a relationship again. Who knows what the future will bring you two. Just relax and deal with it. It's only a small step in the grand scheme of things.

 

 

and don't forget to post pics

 

she's already seeing someone on the side...move on.

 

I know how u feel man, but I had a very similar situation to you, and kept getting back with her. She was the wrong girl, ask we got older and what not, we didn't agree and get along as well. You're young, you have college to look forward to. They're ex's for a reason, you'll find new love, just takes time to heal. Keep your head up playa.

 

sounds like it's time to grow some hair on your balls and find some new poon

 

You are too young to worry about her, move along.

 

Dont you have any friends other then you GF to hang out with? Granted, your guy friends wont do to you what your GF does, but you need to hang with your friends from time to time as well. Sounds like you didnt let your GF do this, so, here you are...Lesson learned, move on....

 

wtf still no pics ?

 

both of us drifted away from our friends

 

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Dude, she's a cutie. But don't worry, there are a lot more out there. You're young. I used to be there.

 

this is the exact same reason why me and my ex broke up, except I was the one that was tired of not being able to spend time with my friends. You'll get over it, it'll be increadibly hard for the first few weeks (even months maybe) but pretty much everybody goes through this. Look at it as a learning experience. And also, to what mrsteve said, 17 years old, you've got alot of good times coming your way.

 

 

You're 17-the hopeless romantic in me says it is possible to have a high school sweetheart turn into your wife. The realisitc in me says FUCK NO. Go to college, experience the world, and if you still love her, then go for it. And yes, date other girls-you knows, she might have ended up being the worst girlfriend ever, when compared to other girls. You don't have to bang them, just go on dates and get to know other girls.

 

oh sorry to hear man. At First I was thinking she broke "it" off.

 

Bad dude...Sucks for you if you had really good friends before. Never let a woman get between you and your friends. You just have to learn to balance between hanging out with your friends and with your GF. Luckly I married a woman who has no problem with me hanging with friends. And I dont have a problem with her going shopping with friends or whatever. Give and take is very important.

If your going to college soon, its a whole new world then HS, you'll make lots of friends there. Good luck.

 

And I agree with what other's say, everyone thinks their bf/gf at 17 is so special. Its not to later in life you realize how wrong you were, I don't even think I would recognize my gf from when I was 17, she ruined a few potentially great years of my life Though years later a mutual friend of ours tells me I broke her heart and she's still pissed/in love, so I guess I did have the last laugh.

 

shit happens, what else can I say

just keep your head up and keep on going