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Old 04-11-2007, 01:10 PM
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If my best friend started dating my ex-girl I would get annoyed because chances are I would prefer not to see her face.

It would probably significantly degrade, if not ruin, our friendship.
Old 04-11-2007, 01:17 PM
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Originally Posted by svtmike
Ex girlfriend from a few years ago? It's ancient history. He doesn't need your permission, and you shouldn't care.
Sure...but, the "best" friend still should have the courtesy. He is after all a best friend...?

I think the OP has every right to feel somewhat hurt and upset about this.
Old 04-11-2007, 01:29 PM
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I think if the guy was considered your "best friend" he should of known how you would feel about it in the first place.
Old 04-11-2007, 04:41 PM
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^^ Agree with both of the two posters above me.
Old 04-11-2007, 07:42 PM
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Originally Posted by svtmike
Whatever. I stand by my position that your best friend does not need to ask your permission to date anyone.
It's just a form of control.
Old 04-12-2007, 01:53 PM
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I probably wouldn't go....
Old 04-12-2007, 03:29 PM
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I'll be just as piss. I do believe, that no matter how long it's been with your ex..it's a courtesy to let your boy know. If he is your bestfriend, then hell..there's no excuse to be doing it behind your back.
Old 04-12-2007, 03:35 PM
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I have a feeling the people that don't see what the big deal is... have actually done something like that before... or at least, have tempted to
Old 04-12-2007, 04:00 PM
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Originally Posted by is300eater
I have a feeling the people that don't see what the big deal is... have actually done something like that before... or at least, have tempted to
That's a really good guess.

There are far too many fish in the sea for my best friend to be all over my ex.
Old 04-12-2007, 04:27 PM
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If I feel that your ex and me have a connection strong enough to pursue then I will...no ifs, ands or buts.

I have a feeling the people that see a big deal with this are the ones who take life too serious.

Worry about yourself.
Old 04-12-2007, 04:31 PM
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Everyone is selfish at one point. Maybe more so than other.
Old 04-12-2007, 08:24 PM
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Originally Posted by KCPreki11
It's just a form of control.
I hope you hook up with your buddies ex without giving him a headsup and he finds out later and laughs his ass off telling you she's an std infested part time hooker which supports both her drug habbits and the kids she likes to trap her men with so they'll pay for childsupport.

didnt say you needed permission, just letting him know, and who knows, he could save you a whole lotta misery.
Old 04-12-2007, 08:36 PM
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Who cares if your buddy asked her to the wedding as his date? What's it to you? Unless of course you wanted to get back with her. If not, it's fair game.

Although he should have found his own date.
Old 04-12-2007, 10:19 PM
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Their best friends, thats a weak-sauce move.
Old 04-13-2007, 11:07 AM
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leedogg is the only person in this thread with any sense whatsover. what a bunch of fucking donkeys. I wouldn't call a single one of you a friend.
Old 04-13-2007, 07:00 PM
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I think the problem here is more the OP's inability to move on with his life than anything else. He's still talking to an ex with whom he ended badly, and apparently still holds some inexplicable hope of getting back with her.

As it came out, his friend had nothing to tell him because she's fucking with his head.

I've had friends end up dating my exes, but once I was done with them I was done - they were fair game, and I really didn't expect anyone to ask permission or otherwise notify me if they had an interest.
Old 04-13-2007, 08:47 PM
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get over it already and find a new girl.....if she was really your love/soul mate/ whatever you would have gotten back together already.....your friend is a dick for not telling you/lying to you but at least now you know what you got as a friend, tell them both to go fly a kite.....you have other friends and theres other girls.....move on......and get something better......
Old 04-13-2007, 09:15 PM
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Originally Posted by astro
leedogg is the only person in this thread with any sense whatsover. what a bunch of fucking donkeys. I wouldn't call a single one of you a friend.
You're just a control freak that can't get over your ex's.
Old 04-14-2007, 02:42 PM
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Your alleged 'best friend' is running you around the bush. It seems to me like there's some serious trust issues there.
Old 04-19-2007, 12:48 PM
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he's breaking man laws. you must ALWAYS ask permission before taking out a buddies ex. not asking is punishable by a severe beating.
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