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Old 09-30-2004, 12:24 PM
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the Married Chick and i

I use to work ith this girl, I always wanted her but she married. Well a few months ago I roke up with my ex, me and the married chick didn't talk for a while, so when she alled she asked how is your gf, i said it was over and done, and she was like we should chill one day. We have hung out before but always a friend bases. So when we meet up for a while, she was like drive me to my car, so i was like ok. While i drove her we talked and she was like i wonder what it would be like to kiss you. I thought ok its just a kiss, next thing I know it went further in fact too far. We didnt have sex but i still didnt want to take it that far.

Was I wrong in doing this, i spoke to her husband once on the phone and asked for her, so he aint my boy.

Now she calls me alot and wants to meet more, i can only gues why. Should i continue to meet her.
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Old 09-30-2004, 12:26 PM
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no. plenty of single girls out there.
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Old 09-30-2004, 12:28 PM
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yeah but she is my type, she fits the bill.
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Old 09-30-2004, 12:28 PM
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if u want someone to crack ur skull with a bat, then yes......don't fuck around with married women. it'll catch up to you eventually, but do go ahead and bang her single friends and sisters.
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"fits the bill" or not, she is married, plain and simple.. go out and find someone who is single, dont waste ur time on her. for christ sake your 27, i thought u would know the right thing to do.

if she divorces, then move right on up, but dont mess with another mans shit, it catch up to you.
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Old 09-30-2004, 01:08 PM
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Simple answer really

If you can you kick her husbands ass ( and all of his friends/family) ... yes
If you can't ... no
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Old 09-30-2004, 01:17 PM
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I think should stay away. It says something about her that she is married, but is pursuing you.
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Old 09-30-2004, 01:20 PM
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She's married = don't do it
you could end up with more problems than it seems...
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Old 09-30-2004, 01:46 PM
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tell her to get a divorce first

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Old 09-30-2004, 01:49 PM
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If you don't give a shit about the consequences of it then go for it. If you do get into something with her I wouldn't suggest thinking about the long term. If she can cheat on her HUSBAND, she can do it to you. Just keep things in perspective.
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I'd like to call 11/7/58 to the stand... Excuse me sir, what the fuck were you thinking? If that was my wife, you'd be having some problems with my bat.
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Old 09-30-2004, 02:31 PM
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All girls are shady.

Dont do it. Especially dont call him
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Old 09-30-2004, 03:02 PM
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would u want someone fucking your wife?? didnt think so
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Old 09-30-2004, 03:07 PM
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Originally Posted by nyc11758
I use to work ith this girl, I always wanted her but she married. Well a few months ago I roke up with my ex, me and the married chick didn't talk for a while, so when she alled she asked how is your gf, i said it was over and done, and she was like we should chill one day. We have hung out before but always a friend bases. So when we meet up for a while, she was like drive me to my car, so i was like ok. While i drove her we talked and she was like i wonder what it would be like to kiss you. I thought ok its just a kiss, next thing I know it went further in fact too far. We didnt have sex but i still didnt want to take it that far.

Was I wrong in doing this, i spoke to her husband once on the phone and asked for her, so he aint my boy.

Now she calls me alot and wants to meet more, i can only gues why. Should i continue to meet her.

I hate to say this, but I am in your shoes a little too. There is this 30 yr chick that is sweating me. She is cute and has a body like Stacey Dash. Her husband is a deadbeat and I just broke up with my gf so Tempation Island is trying to book me a first class flight. Hopefully, I will think with the right head
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Old 09-30-2004, 03:15 PM
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a hoe is a hoe is a hoe! Its not worth the hassle.

This is tough because I agree with most that you don't mess with another man's lady. But then again she is on your shit...not saying give to her but its hard ringo, real hard!

me personally, if I found out my wife was cheating on me....lets just say it would be pretty for anyone involved!
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Old 09-30-2004, 03:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Vegeta1
Hopefully, I will think with the right head
Make that right decision.
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Old 09-30-2004, 03:20 PM
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i had this same situation a couple years back..cept i didn't know that she was married..and i didn't know that her husband was a HUGE personal trainer at the gym I went to....needless to say..i got lucky and she got divorced (after we had fucked many times though)

long story short:
she doesn't talk to me anymore cuz she says i broke her heart (i was 20, she was 28)
last i heard from her, she moved to virginia and got married again
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Old 09-30-2004, 08:13 PM
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bone her
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Old 09-30-2004, 08:15 PM
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Don't eat from another man's bowl. EVER!!
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Old 09-30-2004, 08:15 PM
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ahh what the hell ... throw one in
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Old 09-30-2004, 08:20 PM
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milk that shit for what it's worth
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Old 10-01-2004, 12:51 AM
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huuuummmmm....let me think about this.....HELL NO!!!!
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Old 10-01-2004, 10:37 AM
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the other day we talke, and decided to stop talking, but she been calling me alot, i cant lie, i really like the way she does what she does. i want to stop, but its like pressure. theres so many things i like about her. before this i use to love looin downher low cut shirts at work, she got the best 34dd's i seen. i wish i could stop talkin to her but cant.
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Old 10-01-2004, 11:17 AM
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dont get your honey where you get your money.
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Originally Posted by nyc11758
I use to work ith this girl, I always wanted her but she married. Well a few months ago I roke up with my ex, me and the married chick didn't talk for a while, so when she alled she asked how is your gf, i said it was over and done, and she was like we should chill one day. We have hung out before but always a friend bases.
The first thing you should do is go back to school. After you've mastered the English language, find yourself a nice literate girl.
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Old 10-01-2004, 11:47 AM
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Thank you, Dean.
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Old 10-01-2004, 11:53 AM
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all your friend bases are belong to us!
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Old 10-01-2004, 12:09 PM
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Originally Posted by Batin Dean
The first thing you should do is go back to school. After you've mastered the English language, find yourself a nice literate girl.
first off who cares about the misspelling, you dont make mistakes, my friend told me about you people. my keyboard is messed up and sometimes i write too quick and my finger pushes another key. personally i could careless about your grammer opinions or any others you may have, i am on here to pass the day in an otherwise borring work day.

by the way you look like a fool in your avatar
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Old 10-01-2004, 12:13 PM
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The fool in my avatar would choke you out in a matter of seconds, adulterer.
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yo lets not care about grammer here, this just a site to talk on not an english class. lets all get along ok.

the fool in th eavatar really cares that i say he looks like a fool.

if someone calls me a fool, i say it makes no difference to me.

as far as being a noob, doesnt bother me, wasn't everyone a noob here at some point. we all start from somewhere
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Old 10-01-2004, 12:17 PM
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I don't take well to adulterers. Go brag about that bullshit somewhere else, if it's true that is, not some made up story by an illiterate fantasizer. Bring something good to the table and you'll get good advice despite your literacy problem. There's hardly a person on this board who condones adultery.
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Old 10-01-2004, 12:21 PM
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getting back to subject at hand, i really like this chick, so i may continue to see her, if i had a wife and she cheeted on me because i wasn't putting in work, i would try to change that, she married me to cover all her needs, i wouldn't be happy, but i would fix that problem.

she and i both agree that she looks bad, but she needs attention. she is real cool i know her 3 years. we tell each other everything.
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Old 10-01-2004, 12:23 PM
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yo lets not care about grammer here, this just a site to talk on not an english class. lets all get along ok.
Grammar ownz you, Meathead!
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Old 10-01-2004, 12:24 PM
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You're fixin' to catch a whippin' when her HUSBAND finds out.
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Old 10-01-2004, 12:29 PM
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Originally Posted by nyc11758
getting back to subject at hand, i really like this chick, so i may continue to see her, if i had a wife and she cheeted on me because i wasn't putting in work, i would try to change that, she married me to cover all her needs, i wouldn't be happy, but i would fix that problem.

she and i both agree that she looks bad, but she needs attention. she is real cool i know her 3 years. we tell each other everything.
Dude, just let it go. Adultery is not cool, whether it's in real life or just a fantasy. I don't condone going after a married woman and neither does the vast majority of A-CL posters so if you're looking for approval to go after a married woman, you won't find it here.
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Wow it seems that grammar is such an issue here. go ahead and give me two bad rep points feel better now.
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ok so then if there is a moderator here, i'm sure you know of one, lock it. and you can go about your business.
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Old 10-01-2004, 12:34 PM
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Wow it seems that grammar is such an issue here. go ahead and give me two bad rep points feel better now.
I gave you no negative rep, but I really don't believe in adultery. Married women who cheat on their husbands are the scum of the earth. You can believe all that nonsense about the husbands not giving them enough attention if you want to, but that's because they're out there supporting the wives' broke asses. The "he doesn't give me attention" line is the oldest and worst excuse for cheating in the book.
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