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Old Sep 25, 2009 | 11:13 PM
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It's weird to me.

It's been a while since I been in a relationship, I am glad I had my years of "fun" to get a lot of the stuff out of the way. From A-Z you name it and there is a chance I did it. Like Tom always said.... If you are going to be in a serious relationship:
1. Be over 25. I didn't think this was true before, but damn did that guy have a point. I am able to think with the head on my shoulders vs the one below. Sometimes the one below still takes over but it must be a guy thing.
2. If you are going to be in relationship make sure to not F' it up by cheating. If you are going to cheat... Why not just stay single and have some fun?
3. Women... you are great! well for the most part... I still don't like the "no's" but I understand them more.
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Old Sep 26, 2009 | 01:01 AM
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So what's weird to you?
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Old Sep 26, 2009 | 11:14 AM
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Maybe you find it weird and you haven't been in a relationship in a while because you find that "kissing" isn't cheating.
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Old Sep 26, 2009 | 11:19 AM
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Old Sep 26, 2009 | 02:30 PM
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Originally Posted by HittingDaLine
1. Be over 25. I didn't think this was true before, but damn did that guy have a point. I am able to think with the head on my shoulders vs the one below. Sometimes the one below still takes over but it must be a guy thing.
While this may be true in your case I don't think this is a universal rule that applies to all guys (or girls).
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Old Sep 27, 2009 | 12:03 PM
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it's weird to me that I am actually putting my 2 cents in. Kissing isn't cheating... making out is. A kiss goodbye isn't cheating. I have guy friends who kiss everyone goodbye, it was strange at first but oh well. You are right not everyone should be 25 or older to be in a serious relationship, but if you think about it it does help one out. Most people get out of college and start focusing in their careers in their mid 20's. Being a relationship can (not will but can) keep you from focusing on your goals. Not only that but being a bit more mature, older and have less time you have the less you possibility to go sleep with anything that moves.
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Old Sep 27, 2009 | 08:37 PM
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Originally Posted by HittingDaLine
It's been a while since I been in a relationship, I am glad I had my years of "fun" to get a lot of the stuff out of the way. From A-Z you name it and there is a chance I did it. Like Tom always said.... If you are going to be in a serious relationship:
1. Be over 25. I didn't think this was true before, but damn did that guy have a point. I am able to think with the head on my shoulders vs the one below. Sometimes the one below still takes over but it must be a guy thing.
2. If you are going to be in relationship make sure to not F' it up by cheating. If you are going to cheat... Why not just stay single and have some fun?
3. Women... you are great! well for the most part... I still don't like the "no's" but I understand them more.
1. You don't have to be over 25 necessarily. You do need to reach the maturity point where you are capable of putting the needs of someone else ahead of yours. Youth and selfishness can go hand in hand, but that emotional maturity can come before 25 and in some cases doesn't arrive until you are 40 (if at all).
2. If you really want to be in a relationship, don't maintain inappropriate relationships with members of the opposite sex.
3. Yes, women are very nice.
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Old Sep 28, 2009 | 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted by HittingDaLine
A kiss goodbye isn't cheating. I have guy friends who kiss everyone goodbye, it was strange at first but oh well.
:gheylaugh:
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Old Sep 28, 2009 | 12:18 PM
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Originally Posted by 1Louder
1. You don't have to be over 25 necessarily. You do need to reach the maturity point where you are capable of putting the needs of someone else ahead of yours. Youth and selfishness can go hand in hand, but that emotional maturity can come before 25 and in some cases doesn't arrive until you are 40 (if at all).
2. If you really want to be in a relationship, don't maintain inappropriate relationships with members of the opposite sex.
3. Yes, women are very nice.
Check.

Check.

And Double Check.
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Old Sep 28, 2009 | 12:18 PM
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Old Sep 29, 2009 | 08:02 AM
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Having less time because you're older will keep you from sleeping around?

1. Being older doesn't mean you have less time.

2.If your inclined to sleep around, you'll "fit" it in.

I'm not so sure that some of your statement makes sense. The part I mentioned shows immaturity. We don't become faithful partners by over-scheduling our time. We do it by growing into another mindset. One that chooses a closer bond with one person, rather than no bond with many.
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