Ok heres a scenario.
If you had an ex you were kinda cool with, not hang out with, but you guys can talk and it still be nice. Text each other every once and a while whatever. Well lets say she had a new boyfriend, something you were fine with, then you meet a girl who is also dating this dude LOL! Would you tell your ex?

I am not going to, but I wanted to see what you guys would say.

 

Depends. If you are good friends and the breakup was amicable, then I would tell her.

If you can't stand her, let her find out for herself.

 

I wouldn't... don't want to get in between/involved... can ruin your friendship with her... being that you are still in contact with each other...

 

Nah, unless you were trying to tap the ex...

 

x2

 

Does she think the relationship with the other guy is exclusive?

Tell them both and get a threesome as a reward.

 

don't get involved unless he knows you know the other girl...

getting involved is just asking for it to backfire on you...

 

text =

jk, if we were still cool yes I would tell her

 

If you dont want to get involved send an anonymous letter/email.

 

Getting stuck in the middle is never a good thing....

Of course if she knows you knew all along and never told her, that wouldn't be good for you either. So just act like you don't know.

 

Notify both of them by fax.....

 

Call Cheaters

 

No, you and the ex are just "cool". It's none of your business. Besides, these things tend to give the perception that you have an emotional interest, and you don't...right?

 

Get everyone together for some tea. Bring video capture device.

 

& x3 at Whiskers comment

 

Add a gigantic inflatable bunny to the mix when you get everyone in a room and bring this up. Trust me, I speak from eerily similar experience, and hilarity will ensue.

Then crying, then violence, but whatever. Hilarity is what's important here.

 

You are in the same city and about the same age as me, HMMM, If you go to USF or Wharton High school it would be the quadfecta of me knowing who you are!

 

Would him having sex with a stinky booty girl practically make you related?

 

dangit, svtmike. i spit water onto my keyboard!

unless you guys are good friends, i'd say no.

not really any of your business if you're just "kinda cool" with.

 

Nope, but I would keep a close watch for some good drama.

 

Fax cover letter FTL! LOL

 

J/K JJ

 

Here you go JJ! Just in case!

 

And Dark's first post makes a good point too - involvement could be misinterpreted as interest on your part.

 

^^

 

coming from being cheated on before, i'd like to know, but its a hard situation... but i say do it...

 

Bump..So what happened? I'm bored.

 

What else...he faxed her the documents and they've been fucking every since then!

 

 

I know I would. If yoou care about someone, why would you keep quiet and see that person get hurt.

Reverse the sitaution and ask yourself if you would like her to tell you (if it was the other way around).

 

Ehh, doesn't really matter to you either way does it? I say

x 3 @ whiskers

 

 

JJ never did tell us if he hit it or not!

 

Snitches Get Stitches!

 

Dam fuckin right!

^^^I agree 100%

 

hard to say really how close you are with her, and how your relationship ended etc. ive been cheated on before, and it sucks.....i'd like to know..

 

If i broke u with her u should tell her. If she broke up with u dont tell her.