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Old 06-03-2004, 05:42 PM
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Im too fawkin nice

So theres this cute chick in my class... i see that she left in a new mustang GT. I saw her the next day walking by me and she smiled and i said hi... then i said hey, you have that beatiful mustang gt, dont you...

Then we talk about cars for 15min... and what do i do? I say ok.. see ya in class. I didnt even ask her for her name. :o

I can sense a friend vibe now... is it too late for me to ask her out ?

Why did i start talking about cars to her.. now im sure she wants to be buddy budy with me cuz of it. I dont need friends! I need ass.
Old 06-03-2004, 06:23 PM
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See her, ask her out, if she says no, continue to be her friend and get her drunk enough so she pukes in her car, revenge for saying no.

I have a similar problem with women, never ask names, numbers or out....I just talk, leave when I get bored and end up at home, alone.

If anything you can get out with her as a friend, she has friends, who might be single, or you can just meet others when your out with her. Getting out is probably the biggest mistake people make, if your not out, you can't meet anyone.

Race her in your A4....
Old 06-03-2004, 06:35 PM
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I don't understand how you could approach a girl you'd like to date and not ask for her number or even her name at the very least. I am a shy guy myself but I can't even fathom doing that, if you had the nuts to strike up a convo you should have the nuts to ask her out.

As for you present situation:

You can't be in the friend zone after one 15 minute conversation, thats just a ridiculous assumption. Next time you see her just ask her her out straight up, no chit-chat about the car or anything. Something like this:

You: Hey what's up, I never got your name last time we talked
Mustang Girl: Oh hi, my name is Suckthechromeofatrailerhitch
You: My name is teh Jesal, nice to meet you....again (small chuckle)
You: So I actually need to get out of here and go meet some friends, but I'd like to give you a call sometime and maybe we can see whose car is faster, or just have some coffee.
Mustang Girl: Oh hell no you ostrich looking motherfucker!
Old 06-03-2004, 07:19 PM
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^^

If you actually pulled an "I'm teh Jesal" That would be CLASSIC...videotape it if you do that.

Old 06-03-2004, 07:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Gilgamesh
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If you actually pulled an "I'm teh Jesal" That would be CLASSIC...videotape it if you do that.

Old 06-03-2004, 09:11 PM
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jesal, you crack me up.

its not too late, ask her if she wants to catch a beer sometime, but NOT to talk about cars
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besides jesal, just be yoself fool, don't change for these chicks.
Old 06-03-2004, 09:34 PM
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Originally Posted by mantis23
besides jesal, just be yoself fool, don't change for these chicks.

Be yourself b/c she should like you for who you are not what you have or what you can buy.

Neways, women decide if they want romance within the first two meetings. If you talk like a friend, your in the friend boat for good.

Peace.
Old 06-03-2004, 09:39 PM
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What's all this be yourself crap you guys are spewing? It's not like he went up to her and tried to act like a surfer dude, or a gang-banger, HE FORGOT TO ASK HER NAME!

That is something about his self he should probably change, you know the whole finding out chicks names thing is kinda important if you ever want to date them.
Old 06-03-2004, 09:52 PM
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word, i was being myself which talks about cars :o

Also its not like i was really talking about my car.. i was just talking about mustangs cuz i can tell she loves hers. Ill talk to her again, but what else can i talk about besides cars... thats all i know. :o Oh well, ill figure somthing out.. afterall... i am "TEH JESAL" :fingerfawk:
Old 06-03-2004, 09:55 PM
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Let her do the talking, let her talk about herself and then you comment on her topics. try this:

"So when you aren't in class or ripping around town in your Stang what do you?"

This works like gold for with every chick because they love talking about themselves, garan-dam-teed 30 minute conversation right there.
Old 06-03-2004, 10:05 PM
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I know a girl that would talk for 3hrs off that one question...damn adhd medicine not working...

It is probably good you didn't ask her name, now you call her bitch in all your dreams.
Old 06-03-2004, 10:07 PM
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wish i was drunk at the time
Old 06-03-2004, 10:15 PM
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if she was fat then i wouldnt have this problem.. but i figure i should start trying for girls who weigh less than me.. but its hard :o
Old 06-03-2004, 11:30 PM
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Uh...story of my life man.

I end up having great conversations with a girl, and forget to ask her name or get her # or whatever...sucks.

Be yourself and dont give a fuck what she thinks....who cares if she says no even. At least she knows you got balls.
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Talk to her again the next time you see her. What's the worst she could say to you if you ask her out? No. And if she does say no? Hey, at least you tried.

And what is so bad about talking to girls about cars? It's not the only thing a guy should talk about, but I don't see anything wrong with it.
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Well i feel like if i talk about cars with her then she will think of me as a buddy. Anyways im over it... ill talk to her again and see what happens. Ill ask her name this time...
Old 06-03-2004, 11:53 PM
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Watch, she will come up to me and ask if i was talking about her on a acura forum That would rock and suck at the same time.
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It's a given you'd be talking about her on a forum, that's all you have.
Old 06-04-2004, 09:31 AM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
Well i feel like if i talk about cars with her then she will think of me as a buddy. Anyways im over it... ill talk to her again and see what happens. Ill ask her name this time...
You just met the chick, you talked to her for 15 minutes, stop over-analyzing and ask her for her number next time u see her.

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Originally Posted by tmk70
It's a given you'd be talking about her on a forum, that's all you have.



You morbidly obese
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Originally Posted by Gilgamesh
^^

If you actually pulled an "I'm teh Jesal" That would be CLASSIC...videotape it if you do that.

That was some funny shit! teh Jesal...I'm still

whatever you do don't take her home....it might be too early for her to meet the rents!
Old 06-04-2004, 01:29 PM
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I knew a guy that talked to a girl and what did his stupid ass talk about, you guessed it, Playstation 2 and I guess we all know it goes without saying that he DID not get the digits....

Yeah, that conversation that Waddy made up is fuckin' hilarious. Man, when will a-tl come back online? This site is hilarious....
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i seen some guy with an a4 and a bodykit with utah license plates. hope it wasnt you crazy. anyways, i must see pics of the girl before i tell you how to talk to her
Old 06-04-2004, 02:23 PM
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Originally Posted by evilstorm
i seen some guy with an a4 and a bodykit with utah license plates. hope it wasnt you crazy. anyways, i must see pics of the girl before i tell you how to talk to her

Why whould teh Jesal have Utah plates?
Old 06-04-2004, 03:09 PM
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So he could marry 15 women and have them all be mormons?
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if you're having girly trouble, there's always http://www.realhamster.com/
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Originally Posted by mantis23
if you're having girly trouble, there's always http://www.realhamster.com/
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Originally Posted by Gilgamesh
Why whould teh Jesal have Utah plates?
Have no idea when he came to chicago, and it was the first a4 i have ever seen with a kit or anything on it and he is an a4 enthusiast. Not that i really think it was him, but i believe the guy was going to school here? maybe jesal is just in school here? i dont know him whatsoever.
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what your situation have to do with being nice?
Old 06-04-2004, 05:27 PM
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cuz i dont want to come on too strong and look like a dick.
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
cuz i dont want to come on too strong and look like a dick.
but girls like dick.
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you guys.. ALWAYS gotta ask for a number... even if it is on friendly basis.. hey sometimes those friendships change!
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
if she was fat then i wouldnt have this problem.. but i figure i should start trying for girls who weigh less than me.. but its hard :o

you know what they say
fat chicks are like mopeds.......they're fun to ride till your friends find out
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All my friends know about me and the fat chicks. :o But i would like to step it up a bit to chubby chicks..
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
cuz i dont want to come on too strong and look like a dick.

saying hi? perhaps we can go for some coffee or something is coming on too strong? :sqnteek:
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damn it brownie, i already said hi to her and made small talk. That wasnt the problem... its asking her out and i dont want to be too pushy about it.


fawk i think too much. Im going in for the kill tommorrow anyways.
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
damn it brownie, i already said hi to her and made small talk. That wasnt the problem... its asking her out and i dont want to be too pushy about it.


fawk i think too much. Im going in for the kill tommorrow anyways.


yea def......too much thinking....just be about it.
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lmao @ that convo waddy, good one


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