As you all know...I dated a girl for 4 years...we broke up, she is now dating a tool that only takes her to kareokee bars ( ). When we were together, we were both asked to be in my good friend's wedding....now that we broke up, we had agreed to not bring anyone to the wedding (no, there will be NO chance of bangin' her again....she disgusts me now)...she said even though we aren't together, it would kill her to see me with another girl. Her boyfriend isn't allowed at the wedding because he said he wanted to fight me if he ever saw me... :gheylaugh: The guy that is getting married told this guy..."Nick would kill you if you two ever got into it, you're 6'4'', 140 lbs....your a tool"...then he backed down, then I saw him walking out of a bar by my work...he ran to his car before I could get out of mine...PUSSY! So he is not an issue.

NOW...I've been seeing this GORGEOUS 22 year-old for a couple of weeks...and everyone says I should have her come to the wedding after dinner (she knows alot of my friends)...which I want her to do, which will make the ex sick to her stomach...childish...yes....do I care....NO! I wouldn't care if she died from cunt rot from the inside out! Is it a good idea?

 

If you don't care about your ex, looks like you don't, then there is no problem bringing your current gf with you to the wedding even. Sure she is gonna be sick, but if you don't care, let her be.

 

Thats how I feel!

 

yes, its a great idea. do it.

 

Well, do you want the new girl to come beacuse you want her there or do you just want to piss off your ex?

I say if you bring your girl, though, she has the right to bring the tool without it getting confrontational.

Edit: Make sure there is at least one video camera fixed on each of you the whole night.

 

There wouldn't be a confrentation at all....he has the fear of god of me! I have no fear of him even looking at me....I have plans for him later! I would like to piss my ex off...the only person that really wants her there is the bride, everyone else says she's a bitch for doing what she did to me...so....hopefully she'll leave early, then I can have some real fun!

 

sounds like you need to move on.

 

^^ do whatever you want

 

I have moved on...but I am bitter. I'd like to see anyone buy a townhouse for her and I...then decide she didn't like it, and it doesn't feel like "ours"....yet she pays no bills and put NOTHING towards the down payment. Then she leaves me for a stroke that lives at home with his mom and only has a part-time job 2 weeks later! Fuck her...in the butthole with a plunger handle....WITH SPLINTERS!

 

Well if its OK with the hosts then who cares what she thinks/wants.

she's dead to you.

 

Oh, and after what she did.

you are SO MUCH BETTER OFF. Bitch showed her true colors. She's a ho.

 

Nicky Pass, if I were you, I would bring her.
Good luck and have fun at the wedding.

 

Don't bring your new girl to the wedding just to piss off your ex. You had an agreement with your ex, and even if you don't care about her anymore, there is no need to rub it in.

You are there to celebrate a good friend's wedding, not create a live soap opera for your friends to watch.

 

Bring her.

 

revenge > (reason OR agreement)

 

Do it! Bring her!

 

just don't let it interfere with the wedding....
unless you want the bride hella pissed at you and the groom pissed at you cause she's pissed off that you had a confrontation with your ex at her event...

if that's coming on, TAKE IT OUTSIDE!!!!!!!!
Do not distract any attention from their day...

other than that, bring the girl and laugh when she slinks out at 8 pm ALONE!!! HAHAHA


(i'm big on revenge personally )

 

 

I would bring her only if you're bringing her because you want her there and not to shove it in your ex's face. I mean, your current gf would feel like shit if the only reason you brought her was to get back at your ex.

I also think you should let her bring her current bf. Nothing like ruining a friend's wedding with a nice Ultimate Fighting Championship moment to include in the happy memories of the day.

 

It would be more like UFC Ultimate KOs...If we ever do get in a fight, I'm gonna punch him in the face until I break my hands!....then get ump take my shirt off...wipe his blood across my chest like and indian after a scalping!

 

No need for the drama.

 

I like the new girl....

 

did he steal your EX or something? sounds like a sneaky bastard

 

I don't think he stole her....white trash is inevitably attracted to white trash. If she can have kids, I'm sure they will have some toothless beauties in the double wide! I just don't ever wanna see her again....EVER!!!!

 

be a man, do the right thing

 

i.e. bring the chick

 

Do it! Chances are her new :ghey:friend is gonna show up anyway.

 

don't even think twice about it...

 

DO NOT BRING HER.

Dude you gotta think about this:
-Ex Girlfriend 4 years
-Knows your family
-knows your daily habits?
-Has enough dirt to ruin your life?
-She is a female and therefore a nutcase
-If you piss her off she may go postal and who knows what some of these crazy ho's are capable of
-I've seen it happen
-be safe, nothing is worse than a crazy ex trying to get at you with all her power

 

Be a man. You should be aiming to behave in a manner that makes all your ex-s
regret either breaking up with you or even being dumped (a little harder). Be a good guy even when you hate her. It'll be harder than fucking her over but it'll make you feel better about yourself in the long run.

 

out of respect for the 4 years you spent together it'd truely be a fucked up thing to do

 

fuck that shit. Bring her. Why should it kill her to see you with someone else? She broke up with YOU. Not the other way around. WTF to you owe her. You owe her jack shit. I have heard you have to deal with this chick since I have been on this board. Fuck that nice bullshit. Bring your new chick and let her know you don't need her fake boobed ass. Revenge is sweet when you are dealing with bitches.

 

So are you getting at he should bring the new girl or not?

 

if you dont bring her you're a fucking pussy!

 

Simply because this is a WEDDING...I concur with this.

If it werent such a big event I'd say bring her.

But either way...you guys need to LEARN that your ex SHOULD NOT exist = Zero problems. I've seen a couple of my ex's...Didnt look at them, walk passed them like they werent there...If they tried to initiate conversation, pretended like I didnt know them.

 

I'm saying that if he really liked this new girl and just wanted to bring her, that'd be one thing. But again, weddings aren't events that you bring new prospective girls to either. So personally, I wouldn't bring her if I liked her and wanted to get to know her. It'd be weird to ask a girl you barely know to a wedding.

But on top of that, his main motive is to try to get his ex mad which means that he is still hung up on her no matter what he claims. The opposite of love is disregard or apathy, not hatred. Hatred means that they have your goat and she got to you pretty bad when she dumped you.

 

Just to point out. I think his passive aggressive behavior is clearly resentment that his ex is going out with a guy who he thinks is a loser but since she's going out with this loser instead of Nicky, he feels miffed.

 

We are on the same page.

Miffed...how would you feel if you could have cheated on your ex with a better looking girl EVERY weekend...and didn't, then she leaves you for a guy that sings Sarah McLaughlin song at kareokee bars that looks like he could be on queer eye! Its more then miffed...I'm pissed. All that ass I could have had.....

 

I think you should bring the girl. But First you need to get over your Ex. From your post, its obvious that you are clearly not over her. Your Bitterness shows it. Do you think if you bring the new chick, that will be vindication enough for you to move on?

 

Seriously Nicky, bringing the new girl is a very childish move. You will look bad.