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Old 12-24-2005, 02:20 PM
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I'm SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Mad at myself!!!!

I dated a girl for 4 years....but I always had a crush on my sister's friend for years. The x and I broke up last November....I started dating this girl in December. She is gorgeous.....smart...eduacated...everything I've ever wanted. Everything was going great with the new girl and I...then my stupid x called...and like a dumbass...I tried to work things out with her....leaving my ideal girl. I figured 4 years with someone...I should give it one more try. Well....as we all know, it lasted 4 months...and its over. The new girl was a junior in college, and she went to Italy for a semster. She came back last week...and now she has a new guy... BUT, she came out with my sister last night....and I haven't seen her since April! She looks better then ever...and we talked at the bar for like an hour. I really like her....I even got the tingles being around her. I kind of spilled guts to her...telling her that I wish I stayed with her...blah blah blah....and she left it saying you never know what the future holds. So once again may I state....going back to my x over this girl was one of the top 5 biggest mistakes in my life....and I hate my x even more now!
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and she left it saying you never know what the future holds.

I HATE that
Old 12-24-2005, 02:27 PM
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Originally Posted by mrsteve
and she left it saying you never know what the future holds.

I HATE that
I know...but IF I get the chance again....she's gonna be Mrs. Pass!
Old 12-24-2005, 02:29 PM
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She was tickling your balls without sucking your cock...time to move on.
Old 12-24-2005, 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted by The Sarlacc
She was tickling your balls without sucking your cock...time to move on.
I didn't see that in the first post.....
Old 12-24-2005, 02:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I didn't see that in the first post.....
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Old 12-24-2005, 02:38 PM
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Nope....this is a crush on a girl since I was 20 and she was 16. I had to wait until she was a little older...then I fucked up!
Old 12-24-2005, 02:40 PM
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
Nope....this is a crush on a girl since I was 20 and she was 16. I had to wait until she was a little older...then I fucked up!

Bingo, your holding on too hard, and way too long.

Go experience life. Met new chicks. If it was meant to happen it will.

Hell, go take some pics of yourself in the mirror if thats gonna make you feel better

EDIT: just dont post them
Old 12-24-2005, 03:11 PM
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to fuck ex's

I was recently conned into getting back with an ex, it lasted a month at best and I remembered all the bad again. At least I didn't walk away from a great girl, that part is the real shitty part for you. I hope things work out for you.
Old 12-24-2005, 04:52 PM
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She was just over with my sister....she wanted to see my place! Its gonna happen boys.....sooner or later...Nicky Pass is gonna get another try!
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I hope you do
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good luck NPizzle! i hope everything works out for ya
Old 12-25-2005, 01:04 AM
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Whooo boy. Being angry at yourself is one of the hardest things, because it's you versus yourself. You win and lose at the same time. Very difficult to keep score.

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I hope she feels the same way about you, other wise she's just letting u down easily, without harming your ego. Then again she could be just playing with ur wee little <3, u sure she doesn't hold a grudge against u leaving her for ur x? & when u find out that ur x & u didn't work out u come crawling back to her? Not very appealing imo. (sorry I don't mean to sound insensitive I'm stating how it is with us girls)

When a guy spills his guts out to a girl she can't help but feel a little simpathetic as to let him off easy. I hope she's not leading u on, b/c you sound a just a LITTLE head over heels at the moment.
Old 12-27-2005, 09:49 AM
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Originally Posted by The Sarlacc
She was tickling your balls without sucking your cock...time to move on.

I think Sarlacc is right!!! She is getting back at you and you are not even noticing it.
Old 12-28-2005, 01:17 AM
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Originally Posted by mamboking
I think Sarlacc is right!!! She is getting back at you and you are not even noticing it.

We'll see...she's coming to New year's....and her BF is not gonna be there! We are all staying at my Bro's place in the city.....i will report back
Old 12-28-2005, 06:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
We'll see...she's coming to New year's....and her BF is not gonna be there! We are all staying at my Bro's place in the city.....i will report back
Well if she does anything with you then you have to worry are there any other ex's out there she might do you dirty with like she might with her current boyfriend.

BTW everytime you post I think of Andrew Dice Clay
Old 12-28-2005, 10:06 AM
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I read some wise words on here a while ago, and it went something like this.....

"ex's are called ex's for a reason"
Now that I said that....It seems like you may get a second chance with the other chick, so don't fuck it up.

And, it has to be said....



Let's see that chick.
Old 12-28-2005, 12:34 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
I read some wise words on here a while ago, and it went something like this.....



Now that I said that....It seems like you may get a second chance with the other chick, so don't fuck it up.

And, it has to be said....



Let's see that chick.

Lets us judge if she is the woman of your dreams for you...lol
Old 12-28-2005, 12:52 PM
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You f-ed up, now you have to live with it. But you're a douche if you try and get between her and her bf. When/if they break up, by all means, give it another try. Just don't try and be the cause of their break up
Old 12-28-2005, 01:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
We'll see...she's coming to New year's....and her BF is not gonna be there! We are all staying at my Bro's place in the city.....i will report back
...don't follow her around like a puppy dog that night... I mean, don't get me wrong, "work it" but... like the other guys said... she's getting back at you... but it sounds like there's still some chemistry there...
Old 12-28-2005, 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted by moeronn
You f-ed up, now you have to live with it. But you're a douche if you try and get between her and her bf. When/if they break up, by all means, give it another try. Just don't try and be the cause of their break up
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You shouldn't have to "get her back." It should naturally happen with time.
Old 12-28-2005, 02:33 PM
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Originally Posted by Lister00169
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You shouldn't have to "get her back." It should naturally happen with time.

By all means...I'm not pressing anything. I haven't called her....I've just seen her out a few times and there was something.....I have nothing but time!
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I didn't see that in the first post.....

I missed it too
Old 01-03-2006, 03:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
We'll see...she's coming to New year's....and her BF is not gonna be there! We are all staying at my Bro's place in the city.....i will report back
Is this the chick from the restaurant Man, your credibility is fading.
Old 01-03-2006, 10:39 PM
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Restaurant girl is #1 ...the other girl decided to stay at home with her BF....shes getting serious!
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