I'm SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Mad at myself!!!!
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I'm SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO Mad at myself!!!!
I dated a girl for 4 years....but I always had a crush on my sister's friend for years. The x and I broke up last November....I started dating this girl in December. She is gorgeous.....smart...eduacated...everything I've ever wanted. Everything was going great with the new girl and I...then my stupid x called...and like a dumbass...I tried to work things out with her....leaving my ideal girl. I figured 4 years with someone...I should give it one more try. Well....as we all know, it lasted 4 months...and its over. The new girl was a junior in college, and she went to Italy for a semster. She came back last week...and now she has a new guy... BUT, she came out with my sister last night....and I haven't seen her since April! She looks better then ever...and we talked at the bar for like an hour. I really like her....I even got the tingles being around her. I kind of spilled guts to her...telling her that I wish I stayed with her...blah blah blah....and she left it saying you never know what the future holds. So once again may I state....going back to my x over this girl was one of the top 5 biggest mistakes in my life....and I hate my x even more now!
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Originally Posted by mrsteve
and she left it saying you never know what the future holds.
I HATE that
I HATE that
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She was tickling your balls without sucking your cock...time to move on.
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Originally Posted by The Sarlacc
She was tickling your balls without sucking your cock...time to move on.
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I didn't see that in the first post.....
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
Nope....this is a crush on a girl since I was 20 and she was 16. I had to wait until she was a little older...then I fucked up!
Bingo, your holding on too hard, and way too long.
Go experience life. Met new chicks. If it was meant to happen it will.
Hell, go take some pics of yourself in the mirror if thats gonna make you feel better
EDIT: just dont post them
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I was recently conned into getting back with an ex, it lasted a month at best and I remembered all the bad again. At least I didn't walk away from a great girl, that part is the real shitty part for you. I hope things work out for you.
I was recently conned into getting back with an ex, it lasted a month at best and I remembered all the bad again. At least I didn't walk away from a great girl, that part is the real shitty part for you. I hope things work out for you.
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Whooo boy. Being angry at yourself is one of the hardest things, because it's you versus yourself. You win and lose at the same time. Very difficult to keep score.
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I hope she feels the same way about you, other wise she's just letting u down easily, without harming your ego. Then again she could be just playing with ur wee little <3, u sure she doesn't hold a grudge against u leaving her for ur x? & when u find out that ur x & u didn't work out u come crawling back to her? Not very appealing imo. (sorry I don't mean to sound insensitive I'm stating how it is with us girls)
When a guy spills his guts out to a girl she can't help but feel a little simpathetic as to let him off easy. I hope she's not leading u on, b/c you sound a just a LITTLE head over heels at the moment.
When a guy spills his guts out to a girl she can't help but feel a little simpathetic as to let him off easy. I hope she's not leading u on, b/c you sound a just a LITTLE head over heels at the moment.
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Originally Posted by The Sarlacc
She was tickling your balls without sucking your cock...time to move on.
I think Sarlacc is right!!! She is getting back at you and you are not even noticing it.
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Originally Posted by mamboking
I think Sarlacc is right!!! She is getting back at you and you are not even noticing it.
We'll see...she's coming to New year's....and her BF is not gonna be there! We are all staying at my Bro's place in the city.....i will report back
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
We'll see...she's coming to New year's....and her BF is not gonna be there! We are all staying at my Bro's place in the city.....i will report back
BTW everytime you post I think of Andrew Dice Clay
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I read some wise words on here a while ago, and it went something like this.....
Now that I said that....It seems like you may get a second chance with the other chick, so don't fuck it up.
And, it has to be said....
Let's see that chick.
"ex's are called ex's for a reason"
And, it has to be said....
Let's see that chick.
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I read some wise words on here a while ago, and it went something like this.....
Now that I said that....It seems like you may get a second chance with the other chick, so don't fuck it up.
And, it has to be said....
Let's see that chick.
Now that I said that....It seems like you may get a second chance with the other chick, so don't fuck it up.
And, it has to be said....
Let's see that chick.
Lets us judge if she is the woman of your dreams for you...lol
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You f-ed up, now you have to live with it. But you're a douche if you try and get between her and her bf. When/if they break up, by all means, give it another try. Just don't try and be the cause of their break up
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
We'll see...she's coming to New year's....and her BF is not gonna be there! We are all staying at my Bro's place in the city.....i will report back
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Originally Posted by moeronn
You f-ed up, now you have to live with it. But you're a douche if you try and get between her and her bf. When/if they break up, by all means, give it another try. Just don't try and be the cause of their break up
You shouldn't have to "get her back." It should naturally happen with time.
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Originally Posted by Lister00169
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You shouldn't have to "get her back." It should naturally happen with time.
You shouldn't have to "get her back." It should naturally happen with time.
By all means...I'm not pressing anything. I haven't called her....I've just seen her out a few times and there was something.....I have nothing but time!
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Originally Posted by Whiskers
I didn't see that in the first post.....
I missed it too
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Originally Posted by Nicky Pass
We'll see...she's coming to New year's....and her BF is not gonna be there! We are all staying at my Bro's place in the city.....i will report back
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