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Old 12-16-2005 | 04:41 PM
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I wanna know what love is...

can it be so obvious that it passes you by? do you get a second chance??? WTF
Old 12-16-2005 | 04:44 PM
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Someone's a touch today...
Old 12-16-2005 | 04:49 PM
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No, maybe feeling lonely.
Old 12-16-2005 | 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted by TXXXX
No, maybe feeling lonely.
Another symptom of being ...
Old 12-16-2005 | 04:59 PM
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That's a great song. It was even one of the songs "The Stig" played on one of his Power Laps.
Old 12-16-2005 | 05:03 PM
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Well, in 5th Element, Leeloo did not know love either until Bruce Willis kissed her...maybe srika needs a kiss from Bruce?
Old 12-16-2005 | 06:32 PM
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you all fools.. the first question I ever ask in DR... and this is what I get.. THIS IS WHAT I FUCKING GET.,.. WTF
Old 12-16-2005 | 06:34 PM
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what did you expect from a car forum?
Old 12-16-2005 | 06:42 PM
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You'd better go have this conversation with your coworkers, assuming you're still at your party. Should make for an interesting Monday morning.
Old 12-16-2005 | 06:48 PM
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if it passes you by, then it wasn't meant to be IMO...

I believe things happen for a reason....
Old 12-16-2005 | 06:56 PM
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love is..........

a culmination of hundreds of vectors and circumstances...sometimes it's meant to be, sometimes not....I have known couples that romeo and juliet got nuthin on....just wasn't meant to be....everybody is their own person....and only you can decide at what COST this love is going to exist...it's all about who is willing to give how much..(i'm talking about long-term here, anybody can be "in love" for 2 months to-....hell, 3 years later..) what matters is what happens when shit hits the fan...do you work together?....or do you blame each other? do you get wrapped up in "me, me, me" or "what are WE going to do?"...what do you do when of you loses a job, or somebody gets sick, or just plain going through a rough time....

it's an elusive mystery.....
Old 12-16-2005 | 06:57 PM
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you just have to remember..."is this worth it?"
Old 12-16-2005 | 07:01 PM
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Originally Posted by oneilc
what did you expect from a car forum?
I don't know. It was my first post in DR and I don't really read DR.
Old 12-16-2005 | 07:01 PM
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thanks for your insight Andrea... it's helped me. now I have to find out whether I can get a second chance. you would not want to know how foolish I have been... that's what I get... that's what I get.
Old 12-16-2005 | 07:47 PM
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it's NEVER hopeless if it's important to you....
Old 12-16-2005 | 07:54 PM
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So any women want to cyber????
Old 12-16-2005 | 07:56 PM
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I think there is a fine line between love and lust, many who think they are in love are in lust with each other. The crazy about each other, would happily spend there time in a dumpster, if only they were together thing. Always happy to see each other and be with each other, when first getting to know each other their heart rates increase, eyes widen.... you know lust.

Greg Brown, one of my favorite musicians has a line in one of his songs that sums it up for me love isn't a hug, love isn't a kiss, love is everday, doing this that this You can fall in lust with many woman, but that deep, profound, true love is hard to find. In my own words I would say you know you have it when: she knows your deepest darkest secret and you know hers and it doesn't change the way you feel about each other.
Old 12-16-2005 | 08:00 PM
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I cant tell if im horny or in love half the time.
Old 12-16-2005 | 08:05 PM
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yea I was kinda only making a reference to the song when I asked the question initially... not talking about "true love" here... my main question is, if you miss a few opportunities to strike up a relationship, is there any hope? I didn't capitalize, I have a problem I am very oblivious to things that may be obvious, especially when it comes to things like this... does a girl totally lose interest in you then or is there still a glowing ember that can be relit to vibrancy again? thx all
Old 12-16-2005 | 08:08 PM
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Old 12-16-2005 | 08:23 PM
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Originally Posted by srika
yea I was kinda only making a reference to the song when I asked the question initially... not talking about "true love" here... my main question is, if you miss a few opportunities to strike up a relationship, is there any hope? I didn't capitalize, I have a problem I am very oblivious to things that may be obvious, especially when it comes to things like this... does a girl totally lose interest in you then or is there still a glowing ember that can be relit to vibrancy again? thx all


You wont know till you try.
Old 12-16-2005 | 08:29 PM
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Originally Posted by srika
yea I was kinda only making a reference to the song when I asked the question initially... not talking about "true love" here... my main question is, if you miss a few opportunities to strike up a relationship, is there any hope? I didn't capitalize, I have a problem I am very oblivious to things that may be obvious, especially when it comes to things like this... does a girl totally lose interest in you then or is there still a glowing ember that can be relit to vibrancy again? thx all
See "ladder theory".

If you're on the friends ladder, you're doomed!

With some girls, the boat comes around a second time. But not usually. Once you miss the boat you can't get another ticket to love island.

On the other hand, if the girl thinks SHE missed the boat, tell her how you feel IF you're not super good friends with her. If you have nothing to lose but the chance, take it. Then she can turn that boat back around and let you hop in .
Old 12-16-2005 | 08:56 PM
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As a Desi, love is something that is arranged by your parents. So, don't worry about it.
Old 12-16-2005 | 08:59 PM
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Originally Posted by youngTL
See "ladder theory".

If you're on the friends ladder, you're doomed!

With some girls, the boat comes around a second time. But not usually. Once you miss the boat you can't get another ticket to love island.

On the other hand, if the girl thinks SHE missed the boat, tell her how you feel IF you're not super good friends with her. If you have nothing to lose but the chance, take it. Then she can turn that boat back around and let you hop in .
thanks guy, I think that infos help me.
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:00 PM
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Originally Posted by wstevens
As a Desi, love is something that is arranged by your parents. So, don't worry about it.
you're a desi??!?!?! wow, who knew.
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:01 PM
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Originally Posted by srika
you're a desi??!?!?! wow, who knew.

I do have an engineering degree..
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:01 PM
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you're a desi??!?!?! wow, who knew.
In his case, Desi = Disturbed Erotic Sick Individual.....
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:11 PM
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wait, which of the following is true??

wstevens <> Whiskers
wstevens > Whiskers
wstevens < Whiskers
wstevens != Whiskers
wstevens <=> Whiskers
wstevens = Whiskers
wstevens + Whiskers
wstevens _ Whiskers
wstevens : Whiskers

circle all that apply, thx.
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:12 PM
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wstevens > Whiskers
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:13 PM
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Originally Posted by srika
wait, which of the following is true??

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[ wstevens > Whiskers ]
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circle all that apply, thx.
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Old 12-16-2005 | 09:13 PM
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I think we need a poll.
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:14 PM
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wstevens > Whiskers
Sure, pick the guy that doesn't hit on your girlfriend..... pfft...
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:15 PM
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wstevens is worse than you when it comes to that.
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:16 PM
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Originally Posted by wstevens
I think we need a poll.
No, I am still crying about my loss to AD......
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
wstevens is worse than you when it comes to that.
She is one of my Myspace friends.....That trumps everything......Im hitting on her right now, and you have no idea.
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:18 PM
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Originally Posted by wstevens
I think we need a poll.
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:18 PM
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I would hit on your wife but.... ok i wont go there.
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:19 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
I would hit on your wife but.... ok i wont go there.
whose wife? and does she got a pic?
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Sellout
I would hit on your wife but.... ok i wont go there.
My wife isnt posting pics here...........yet........
Old 12-16-2005 | 09:32 PM
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