Conrats Jeffy, I hope he makes you very happy

 

Congrats, J! You too look great. Enjoy hawaii. Still rockin my Jefford avi, ftw!

 

What a beautiful couple.

 

 

Oh wait what thread is this? J/k
Mazel tov Jefford.

 

I like the added shadow near the baby region

 

Back from Hawaii.

 

It's still not too late!

 

Um... Yes it is. :trapped:

 

 

 

 

 

"Just married" life is pretty much the same as "just about to be married" life without all the wedding planning arguments.

 

Wait until she stops putting out?

At least that's what I've heard happens.

 

we have been married for 2.5 years and she still got it

the only thing which slowed things down for us was the kid (now 7 months old)...fuqqer wakes up at weird times. I told him "if you want a little sister, you gotta stop waking up like that"

 

This happens because usually the man becomes complacent from being married and show less and less interest in the relationship. This then gives the wife that same mentality and the whole relationship becomes uninteresting and unattractive.

Relationship naturally fades through time. Marriage is the worse of the fade. Most people stop working towards the relationship. As a matter of fact, I found that you must work even harder after marriage because you get too used to things and then you start to take things for granted. I refuse to be like other men who go head over heels trying to get a girl to marry him and then complains about marriage. That shit annoys me. Don't complain about something that YOU went out of your way to get.

I haven't been married long, but I've seen my relationship decline a little already. I then snap out of it and pull my wife in the shower with me and many things start to rise........even the water bill gah dammit.

 

^^^ agreed...

its all about not taking the other half for granted and keeping it fresh....

the wifey and I leave notes here and there, or at times I will make her breakfast in bed, or take her for a special dinner....the minute you take her/him and the relationship for granted, it starts going downhill....

 

 

Congrats Jeffrod...now where are the bridesmaids??

 

PortlandRL was the only bridesmaid...

 

dont do it.

 

This. I was with my wife 8 years before marrying her. We went through all the problems that most married people face purely from being together for the same amount of time. Time presents plenty of opportunities to misstep and hurt people.

 

So what the update? pics?

 

I'm pretty sure it's still not too late to back out!

 

Dont do it...

 

She preggers yet?

 

no, not yet...

 

Slacker!




<-----At least we all know what your baby will look like.

 

 

Whiskers is still overseas, so I think I am safe...

 

 

I thought that too