I just got the craziest request EVER!!!!!
06-10-2004, 02:09 AM
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I just got the craziest request EVER!!!!!
Ok, i'm still in shock, kinda bewildered. This is nuts. I dont know if this should be in Dating and Relationships or not, but i want to post it here cuz a lot more people are here than there.
Well, i've been kinda seein this new girl on the side, everythings good u know, typical dinner, movie, sex, yadda yadda yadda. Well today, we got on the subject of fantasies. I told her some of mine, she told me some of hers...but then she laid the big one on me.
Her- "Well, i ll tell you this one, but i really want you to do it to me"
Me- "Ok, no problem, you know i ll do it" *laughing*
Her- "Well.....i want you to rape me"
Me- "what?" *jaw hits the fuckin deck*
Her- "yea, well, its always been a fantasty of mine to get raped, and i want you to do it to me"
So this crazy bitch wants me to pretend rape her, or whatever. I dunno about this shit, i dont think i can do that. I mean, she's like, dont hurt me or anything, but i want you to treat me rough, call me slutty names, and hit me.
What the fuck!! This is the absolute craziest shit a girl has ever said to me, and i mean ever. I dont think i can do anything like that, not in me to make it happen. Shes fun to be with, and cool, and sexy, but this has got me flippin out.
Chime in A-CL.
Well, i've been kinda seein this new girl on the side, everythings good u know, typical dinner, movie, sex, yadda yadda yadda. Well today, we got on the subject of fantasies. I told her some of mine, she told me some of hers...but then she laid the big one on me.
Her- "Well, i ll tell you this one, but i really want you to do it to me"
Me- "Ok, no problem, you know i ll do it" *laughing*
Her- "Well.....i want you to rape me"
Me- "what?" *jaw hits the fuckin deck*
Her- "yea, well, its always been a fantasty of mine to get raped, and i want you to do it to me"
So this crazy bitch wants me to pretend rape her, or whatever. I dunno about this shit, i dont think i can do that. I mean, she's like, dont hurt me or anything, but i want you to treat me rough, call me slutty names, and hit me.
What the fuck!! This is the absolute craziest shit a girl has ever said to me, and i mean ever. I dont think i can do anything like that, not in me to make it happen. Shes fun to be with, and cool, and sexy, but this has got me flippin out.Chime in A-CL.
06-10-2004, 02:19 AM
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Doesn't sound like a good idea. You never know what might happen in the near future, and the evidence of rough play will be there... Just in case something crazy happens and she cries "rape" to someone, or even jokingly tells a friend that she got raped or whatever.
You just never know what could happen.
You just never know what could happen.
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jk... or am i?
06-10-2004, 05:27 AM
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tell her it's your fantasy too and you'll abide if she goes FIRST. I had a chick I've met exactly once tell me the other day she wanted to "fuck my brains out." This is the third woman in 3 months to tell me basically the same thing after two of them left very hot messages on my VM. Can't figure this all out.
06-10-2004, 07:25 AM
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if she had only said she wanted some really rough sex, that would be one thing... it's still established that it's all mutual and consensual & there's nothin wrong with that. but the fact that she's using the word RAPE brings up a whole different set of issues. that's kinda messed up 
06-10-2004, 07:44 AM
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some people are into kinky things, but a request like that is left to be made in a relationship thats well established.
you dont know what kind of trouble you could get into if you accidently get too rough, or you piss her off sometime in the future..
i wouldnt go near that.
you dont know what kind of trouble you could get into if you accidently get too rough, or you piss her off sometime in the future..
i wouldnt go near that.
06-10-2004, 08:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
Don't listen to these asshats - do it!
It's not really rape if she's asking you too, it's just a fantasy of hers. Who knows.... if you give her this one she may give you one of yours.
It's not really rape if she's asking you too, it's just a fantasy of hers. Who knows.... if you give her this one she may give you one of yours.
yeah if shes asking him too. if he gets rough with her, and leaves ANY kind of evidence of roughness or forceable sex
and she decides to change her story, then what.
06-10-2004, 08:18 AM
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yeah if shes asking him too. if he gets rough with her, and leaves ANY kind of evidence of roughness or forceable sex
and she decides to change her story, then what.
and she decides to change her story, then what.
06-10-2004, 08:18 AM
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I've had an ex say this to me also. However, I don't know if it's really considered rape. She probably just wants you to man-handle her, such as constrain her. She probably just likes it rough.
06-10-2004, 08:26 AM
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yeah if you hit her, make sure its just slaps.. something that wont leave a mark
I'm a big fan of open hand - just make sure it's easily hidden by clothing. :o
Is it just me or is it getting hot in this thread?
06-10-2004, 08:33 AM
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i used to date a girl that was into that, she always wanted me to come over while she was sleeping and go at it. But she had problems, any one who requests something like this is twisted.
06-10-2004, 08:37 AM
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dude my ex girlfriend said some similar shit liek that, and when i did it, I didnt really hit her just sort of ripped her clothes held her down and that sort of shit, she looooooved it she said that she came like 4 or 5 times
06-10-2004, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
Don't listen to these asshats - do it!
It's not really rape if she's asking you too, it's just a fantasy of hers. Who knows.... if you give her this one she may give you one of yours.
It's not really rape if she's asking you too, it's just a fantasy of hers. Who knows.... if you give her this one she may give you one of yours.