Ok, i'm still in shock, kinda bewildered. This is nuts. I dont know if this should be in Dating and Relationships or not, but i want to post it here cuz a lot more people are here than there.

Well, i've been kinda seein this new girl on the side, everythings good u know, typical dinner, movie, sex, yadda yadda yadda. Well today, we got on the subject of fantasies. I told her some of mine, she told me some of hers...but then she laid the big one on me.

Her- "Well, i ll tell you this one, but i really want you to do it to me"
Me- "Ok, no problem, you know i ll do it" *laughing*
Her- "Well.....i want you to rape me"
Me- "what?" *jaw hits the fuckin deck*
Her- "yea, well, its always been a fantasty of mine to get raped, and i want you to do it to me"


So this crazy bitch wants me to pretend rape her, or whatever. I dunno about this shit, i dont think i can do that. I mean, she's like, dont hurt me or anything, but i want you to treat me rough, call me slutty names, and hit me. What the fuck!! This is the absolute craziest shit a girl has ever said to me, and i mean ever. I dont think i can do anything like that, not in me to make it happen. Shes fun to be with, and cool, and sexy, but this has got me flippin out.

Chime in A-CL.

 

Wow, probably not a very good idea in case something goes terribly bad...Does she give a reason for this "fantasy"?

 

its a setup! dont do it eric!

 

Run

 

Doesn't sound like a good idea. You never know what might happen in the near future, and the evidence of rough play will be there... Just in case something crazy happens and she cries "rape" to someone, or even jokingly tells a friend that she got raped or whatever.

You just never know what could happen.

 

Piitb

 

run away fast man! (after you rape her)











j/k i'm down with the rough sex and all but that takes it too far...

 

dam... jk... or am i?













lol no really im jk....














or am i.

 

so.......are you?

 

the world may never know.........

 

she just may like it rough...

 

I think I'd head for the hills, man.

 

tell her it's your fantasy too and you'll abide if she goes FIRST. I had a chick I've met exactly once tell me the other day she wanted to "fuck my brains out." This is the third woman in 3 months to tell me basically the same thing after two of them left very hot messages on my VM. Can't figure this all out.

 

this is like a movie...

 

 

Just get her request on tape...then do it.

 

if she had only said she wanted some really rough sex, that would be one thing... it's still established that it's all mutual and consensual & there's nothin wrong with that. but the fact that she's using the word RAPE brings up a whole different set of issues. that's kinda messed up

 

some people are into kinky things, but a request like that is left to be made in a relationship thats well established.

you dont know what kind of trouble you could get into if you accidently get too rough, or you piss her off sometime in the future..

i wouldnt go near that.

 

 

Can anyone say, The Last Seduction! Rent it dude. See what can happen.

 

Don't listen to these asshats - do it!
It's not really rape if she's asking you too, it's just a fantasy of hers. Who knows.... if you give her this one she may give you one of yours.

 

watch out for the hidden video camera!

 

yeah if shes asking him too. if he gets rough with her, and leaves ANY kind of evidence of roughness or forceable sex

and she decides to change her story, then what.

 

seriously, id tread lightly.

 

Have her sign a little waiver on a piece of paper. You can be rough without leaving any marks - just wrestling and shit - nothing closed fist :P

 

I've had an ex say this to me also. However, I don't know if it's really considered rape. She probably just wants you to man-handle her, such as constrain her. She probably just likes it rough.

 

thats bad news man, ask her if you can just piitb.

if she's asking you to hit her i wouldnt do it b/c there might be marks and that could come back and get you

 

It's a fairly common fantasy for women - I'm telling you, just don't hit her or anything and you'll be fine. Have a safety word that means to stop (like banana on the Family Guy).

 

 

yeah if you hit her, make sure its just slaps.. something that wont leave a mark

 

I'm a big fan of open hand - just make sure it's easily hidden by clothing. :o

Is it just me or is it getting hot in this thread?

 

do it

 

whats my name bitch?????????????

 

either way, let us know what happens.

 

He means with pics/video.

 

i used to date a girl that was into that, she always wanted me to come over while she was sleeping and go at it. But she had problems, any one who requests something like this is twisted.

 

That is correct. I didn't want to come out and say it.

 

dude my ex girlfriend said some similar shit liek that, and when i did it, I didnt really hit her just sort of ripped her clothes held her down and that sort of shit, she looooooved it she said that she came like 4 or 5 times

 

man id be pissed if my clothes got ripped lol.

 

Yeah, until she goes to the cop shop w/ bruises on her and his DNA all over her crying and saying he raped her then there will definitely be rape charges against the man for something he didn't intend to do. This shit's fucked up, I wouldnt do it.