Anyone can smell an act, but what I was talking about wasnt an act I put on. I just use that knowledge to help me, I learned from it and use it. Im always real and myself when meeting girls.


And I agree with you 100% about the pics. I wanna just drop that shit, when everyone started talking about pics I still wasnt 100% over her and those emotions fed the things I said. The truth is that she was a good girl and regardless of the fact that we only knew each other for less than a month and she dicked me over, she doesnt deserve to have sexual pics of her posted all over the net.
And if you guys think im acting like a pussy by saying that, I dont really care. I really, really appreciate everyones help and support, but the pic comments went just a litle too far.


But anyway, theres an update. I met another girl yesterday, shes a friend that I met through my brothers ex. She seems very genuine and we have a good amount in common so im gonna see where this goes.

-Mark

 

Well put Mark...and yeah, I normally ignore those comments requesting pics too. And I don't blame you for being pissed. Hey, sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. I'm sure plenty of girls out there were a bit upset that things didn't work out with me, but I was always up front and honest about how I felt and even gave them feedback on why it wasn't going to work out. Believe it or not, even though they would get pissed initially, I don't have ANY girls that I've dated after 25 that would have much bad to say about me.

As far as the being hurt part, I have seen it too...guys, for the most part end up effing things up for other guys in the future. I don't think I've ever met a girl that hasn't been cheated on, physically abused or taken advantage of, etc...that to me is not being an asshole...that's just being a piece of shit. Anyway, girl then has her guard up all the time and when she meets someone worthwhile, she won't give it a shot (probably has met other "too good to be true guys that actually WERE). My GF now was the same way when I met her and I was patient and she got over it...but she DID have me on the brink of walking away.

Either way, you met someone new and you're happy now so no harm, no foul. Have you spent a good amount of time alone? The most growth I've ever had within myself was during the time when I was not serious with anyone, mostly just figuring out what I wanted and who I was.

My current gf I actually met on match.com...I don't have a problem being outgoing or meeting women, but I got tired of either getting shot down....or being successful only to find that the girl had 2 kids, or no job, or missing teeth, etc....using match was able to give me an idea right off the bat and pick and choose.

Take care,
J.

 

Whats said in AZ stays in AZ. And a new girl? More pics!!!

 

hows the new girl?

 

hey, there's always next summer.

 

well... this happened to me once, and when i asked her, indirectly, like 6 months later, her answer was that it was gettng too serious, and she didn't want to go that way in the relationship.