I feel bad about myself right now, and I NEVER do.


I went out last night with a girl that has been my friend for quite some time now. She's very funny, attractive, and we get along GReaT. in fact, i wanted to see if things could be more than that before I got with my girlfriend. She acted weird about it, so I kinda slowed things up and didn't pursue her.

My gf kinda took things over, and I've been the happiest EVER with her.

Well last night, after some drinking and dinner, she stayed over at my place. No biggie, I slept in the bed with her before and nothing happened. Well, this time, she started kissing me, and eventually pulled my boxers off and starting goin at it. :o

I hit it, and today I feel so bad. I'm the most honest person you'll ever meet, so its killing me not to tell my girl. Funny thing is, my girl called before it happened, and she called this morning to wake me up. :o
I don't want to give my friend false hope of us being together, because I'd rather be with my gf than anyone. I don't want to breka my girl's heart, and I'd prefer to NOT tell her about it.



What would you guys do? Tell your girl, or keep your mouth shut and NEVER let it happen again?

 

I need some pics to give advice.

 

pics of my gf?


Can u host them?


Cuz we can't just post'em to the fuckin thread. Gayest goddamn thing about this site.

 

i dont have pics of the girl thats my friend on my computer.

 

That's a tough one...you will be caught. Chicks can lie about cheating, guys always give themselves away....your gf will know just by the way you act that you hit it.

 

Aren't you worried that this girl might tell your girlfriend?

 

I think the chick he hit is his friend, not hers. If she wants to ruin his relationship, she very well could do that though. I assume they must have met each other.

 

NO, they have no way of ever meeting.

I'm certain that there isn't a chance of them ever coming into contact with each other.


This girl doesn't know that i have a gf. My gf and I just started getting serious recently.

 

I wouldn’t tell your girl about... you shouldn’t of put your self in that position in first place
but what’s done is done.

ones you crossed that line...that’s that (between you and your friend!!!! )

 

that is f-ed up. you should tell her. if you dont...you take the risk that you guys are still together down the road and somehow she finds out and its not from you. then....you are fucked! I could only wish that whoever I date be honest enough to me with situations like this. I hope everyone else can honor that and do the same.

 

If you think you can live with the guilt, give it a shot. Fucking around usually backfires on you...especially when you really like the chick you're with.

 

TRUST ME IT'S SMALL WORLD ...YOU NEVER KNOW!!!!!!

 

does serious = no commitment??

 

ouch. :o

 

Ahhh trying to hook up with someone you have been friends with. I've been down that road. Regrets regrets regrets. Life's a bitch just ride it out and see what happens.

 

no way i could hide it. she'd see right through me. i used to be able to, but now since i've gotten older i have this stoopid concience thing
good luck bro

 

How old are you because depending on that I can give you advice...if you're looking at this girl as marriage then I would do it.

if your in your teens or early twenty then hell fcuking NO cause most likely you'll be breaking up in the future so no reason to ruin the great sex you're having with her.

I know this is bad thing to say but its honest....you can scratch this up with guys asking their girls how many guys she has been and how far she has gone....sure your curious till she tells her ex use to PIITB and unload in her mouth and your like WHAT

somethings are better left unsaid....and what she doesnt know wont kill her...it might bother you but hey was tapping that ass worth it. If yes then hit that again and stop being a BITCH...I thought your avatar said international playboy

 

no Im with her.. Im sorry this is fucked up. you need to tell her. If you cant have the decency to keep it in your pants, at least tell her so she has the choice to accept you and love you anyway, or to break up.

She might have a little bit more time accepting that you didnt really mean to do it if you tell her right away then hiding it.


hiding it NEVER works. she WILL find out. the fact is, there was another person who participated, who is a woman.. who now has that information hanging over your head. she might just get really pissed when she finds out you have a gf.


its not that hard to tell her NO. were you thinking about how to tell your gf while you were screwing your friend?

 

 

double-ouch :o

 

NO RING.....TAP THAT THING!!!! 99% of guys would have done the same thing. What sucks in your case is that the one you hit knows your girlfriend.....its eventually gonna get out

 

the question to ask is,

is that booty better or worst than your g/f

 

question is I need pics to see which is a better piece

then and only then can I say what to do exactly

 

Don't tell her. Just move on and forget it ever happened.

 

yeah, well think of the big ouch his girlfriend is going to get (and she WILL, if you try to hide it or no)

you all are acting like its nothing, oh hes not married and as long as it was worth it..

you know no one considers that theres another girls feelings involved, whos probably going to have her heart seriously broken.
im just asking him if hurting someone he claims to be serious with is worth getting off for?

 

do you actually date people?

 

Much easier said than done...especially if he's serious about his chick.

 

yes he does. the only reason he gets away with that crap is because hes hot. :P

 

who's to say she is faithfull....everybody is under the presumption she is a saint...probalby has more skeletons in tthe closet ready to unload on Typeskid

 

tell her, ride the storm. that's half the fun.

 

so he should just screw around on her, because.. well shes probably done it anyway?

bad logic.

 

 

so you're saying because he's hot, the people he dates are more accepting of him cheating on them.....'oh sweetie, its ok...I dont care if you put it in her butt so long as you still look hot'

 

damn well if its like that then they should just break up with each other.

 

To clarify, no, my gf has no clue who this chick thats my friend is. They have never met, and I'd bet my life on it that they never will.

My girl would never know, ever. IT hurts to know that if I told her that it would break her heart.

In the past I've always been a player because I didn't care about who i hurt, it was all about me. Last night made me realize that I do care about her, and that this is different.

And yes, my girl is a saint. I'm only the second guy she's ever been with. Also good in a way too.

 

one innocent affair doesnt really mean screw around on her...he loves her...he just made a mistake everybody does it

do girsl tell their guys that they smiled or talk to any random guy who tried to pick them up....99% of the time NO cause their guys will flip

and any good looking girl gets rapped to on a regular bases

 

So your friend is either:

Much hotter than your GF

Much better in bed

A better person all around.

Otherwise, what were you thinking when you were giving her the one eyed ranger?

 

no.. thats not what i meant..

you make me sad.

 

Now there's an oxymoron!!! There's a big difference between some guy rapping to your girl and you stuffing your cock in another chick, no?

 

explain please