I don't know man, I think body language and any observations she can make will lead her to make some conclusions.

Ya, I just want to know How I can MAKE that situation because it seems that if I don't make it happen, It'll just be more looks and rare opportunities to talk. I don't want that because I want to at LEAST talk to her and see where it can go.

If she's not diggin me, I'll be able to tell... This isn't the first girl I've ever talked to folks...

 

i got caught doing that today........... i was saying that the teach's zipper was open

 

goto class late on purpose and then after class ask to borrow the notes u missed at the start of class. 65% success rate, holla acha ur boi

 

you and andrew

 

your the one asking for advice on how to pick up a girl who runs out of class every day but for some reason you think she likes you, hmmm who sounds retarded?

 

Scanning most of the comments here briefly, my 2 cents based on the fact that she quickly leaves class can only mean either 1) she has no particular interest for you, couldn't care either way, but doesn't mean nothing can ever happen.... or 2) she is very shy and actually afraid to have contact with you on a higher level anymore than you've already had together. Either way, it doesn't look good at this point. You might have to reach down deep for this one or go the extra mile to get what you want.

As a guy, I know for sure when I was in school and I thought someone liked me and I didn't like them, I would do whatever I could to avoid them. I didn't run out of class like a girl but I did try to be wherever this person was not. Being in, near, or around another person is not very difficult and most people can achieve this without being a stalker. Keeping the distance is a bad sign, although it could be temporary/innocent.

 

You could always try IM. It sounds geek but IM is hella mainstream in college so it wouldnt be thought of as such.

I would IM her and ask to clarify something about lecture. Say you already asked your friends but they dont really pay attention and couldnt help. Let the conversation remain on subject for about ten minutes which will prove to her two things:

1.) You really did need this information and didnt just IM her to spit game.

2.) You are interested in her answer because the information is important to you.

Once she is convinced that you ONLY im'd her about class and not to get in her pants, you have effectivly snuck in the backdoor without her knowing you're inside. Then you can then steer the conversation wherever you like. One good IM conversation and you're in with her at class. No it will seem a lot more natural when you try and catch her before of after class to chat real quick.

You probably dont have her IM name or know how to get it, but its college, everyon knows everyone. A lil searching through friends and youll find it player.

Anyway, this only works in college because IM so heavily relied upon for everything. This was the standard game at UO. Just dont take this shit out into your adult life, trust me

 

Guys, you're getting this all wrong. There's no way she could not be even remotely interested in me as of RIGHT now. I haven't done or said anything to her that could have possibly turned her completely off to me. I'm not ugly, geez.

But Ken, I think you're right about one thing. When I know someone likes me and they're actively pursuing me while I don't feel the same way, I tend to avoid them too. But this isn't that sort of situation, I know that because I haven't displayed that sort of hopeless b.s. to her.

It's been four short classes. We've had ONE conversation, and I'm not on her like white on rice. I'm talking to other girls in the class, and I'm being a cool guy here.

ALL I wanted to know from you guys was if you had any tips or tricks on just getting ANOTHER conversation out of this (given the parameters that I've written). I'm not asking her to have sex with me, I'm just trying to make a situation that can give me the OPPORTUNITY to see if she's what I want, and if I'm what she wants.

 

OK, I'm starting to see another girl in this class now, not the girl I originally posted about... But I noticed she kept looking my way, she obviously doesn't know, I never told her... shit no one knows but me and the girl I'm talking to.

So, check this out, I'm in class and we're all out of it, but I notice her looking, and I'm completely avoiding eye contact with her because now it's just awkward. At the end of class, she starts to linger a bit and asks another guy in my group for his number for a class they both have with each other, and I look at her while she's asking him, and she looks PISSEDDDDDD at me lol. And then, I was walking with another girl just talking about school stuff right, and I'm on my cellphone walking out, and I look up and she's like 10 feet in front of me and we completely make eye contact (but we both had sunglasses on) and I think "Oh shit" and go back to my cellphone She's gottttttttta be pissed now... This ignoring game I'm playing with her is awesome. I think she'll crack soon, she definitely is interested in me.

But now I'm a little confused about this whole situation BECAUSE the girl I'm seeing KNOWS about this girl!! I didn't tell her! I guess she saw me talking to her... and she brought her up... Well, I told her that the girl has a huge hill to climb, and that her initial rushing out of class pretty much bothered me to the point of totally ignoring her.

So where am I messing up? I think I'm handling this pretty well

 

By the way, I overheard her (the girl I was originally interested in) saying that she had a class right afterward and she had to leave because of that... Hmmmmmmmm...

 

your choice its up to you my :twocents: says you should have played hard to get to begin with cause thats what she was doing to you!

 

Ya, but I didn't know exactly what was going on. But this is my strategy from here on. She has to really make an effort and show me what she's really like... I'm done chasing her (for now lol).

 

Either way, having 2 prospects is better than one.....jealousy is a powerful tool.