OK, I just started school again and this HOT HOT HOT girl is in a class of mine and I pretty much haven't stopped thinking about her...

So, first day of class... I see her... second day of class, I talk to her and it turns out we have a lot in common, at least on a superficial level

THIRD day of class we kind of tease each other a little bit and it looks like it could be a good thing...

TODAY, I notice her lookin at me, and I'm all about checking her out every 10 minutes

But here's the damn problem, SHE ALWAYS rushes out of class! WTF... we have assigned seating (don't ask) and the doors are in the back... I sit in the front... I can't JUMP over people to go talk to her... she's out before I know it, and people don't leave me alone after class (i'm cool, i know)... so, how do I talk to her? I mean, we have teams... we're on opposite teams and I can't even interact with her on class stuff because we all just stick to our groups...

So, how I do I talk to her? I can't wait any longer this is pissing me off

 

Let the bitches come to you my friend...Or talk to her before class...and set yourself up there. You gotta be the one in control...if you go chasing after her...she might as well have you wrapped around her fingers.

 

You said you talked to her the second day of class, so ther emus tbe some opportunity

 

I'm a little confused in your chasing philosophy here... you're saying to have her come to me... doesn't that trump your second piece of advice?

I need to talk to her, I don't care if I get rejected
It's great being able to ATTRACT girls, but she seems a little shy and not the type to talk up every guy that she's remotely interested in. She's quiet... When I first talked to her, she opened up a little bit and that was cool, I just need to get her alone where no one is watching (like not in class) and where she can feel comfortable

 

Not really. The only reason we spoke is because we sat RIGHT next to each other... I saw her and was like "oh I have to sit here"...

BUT, now we have assigned group seating

 

Oh ya, and I think going before class is probably going to be the only way to do this...
The thing is, I'd have to talk someone else up EARLY before class started, then casually wait for her... otherwise I might look like I'm stalking her or something if I just chill and act like a loner then say Hi

 

I was giving you two options...the one where you do nothing, or one where you do something...I usually never know what Im talking about.

Whoa... a hot girl whose shy...that negates my whole wrapped around her fingers theory. Disregard the do nothing suggestion...since I now know that she is shy...this of course explains the running out of class thing. I think the best course of action is to approach her before class since you only see her during this class correct ? Perhaps you can go a little hs and write her a note

 

bro I can't write her a note

before class I guess it is

 

Get her to be your study buddy...I use to do that all the time. Not only do you get to hook up...you can get them to sign you into class and take all your notes

 

lol. dude the professor already knows me, she can't sign in for me
and being her study buddy would be great, but I have to ASK her to be my study buddy first, I wouldn't be posting this if I could easily just talk to her lol

 

what class, what day and what time ill be there lol..
dude we should hit up this hooka spot i know right by here one night..
hit me up next week and we can hang, i'm out here till 9 wens/thurs


and you should make sure she's in your "group" for the "group" project
haha

 

I guess she really is smoking hot then...Im out...Good Luck.

 

Sam, this girl's mine! LOL
She's in my Gateway class... and in a different group

 

gateway?! aww fuck! that sucks! i'm in capstone and i hate this shit alrdy..tell her you want to study her, one on one (thats not a typeo)

 

I dont know if this will help but go before class and be "looking" over your notes. that way when she comes in you are already there. Just a suggestion.

 

Very nice. I might use that.

 

Capstone huh? When do you graduate?

 

Run after her after class and

 

Hey that's not a bad idea
I've never ran after a girl before

 

Seems to work in the movies

 

 

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I'll get pics once we ACTUALLY hang out lol

 

And who writes for movies? Gay writers, and what do gay writers know about heterosexual relationships? NOTHING!

 

Do you have better advice Mr. Love Doctor....

 

My advice is don't ever go by what you see in the movies or on TV. In the movies and television, the gay actor always gets the girl by telling her how he feels and in real life, that just scares the girl away. Amis should talk to her casually and ask her for a bite to eat after class. Talk to her before class if she keeps on bolting after class. If there's no time before class, just ask her to wait up after class is over, but don't use the famous "I have something to tell you" line. Just say "wait up for me after class".

 

Well, I'm definitely a fan of originality and spontaneity when dealing with women. I use my emotional state to convey what I want with an "I don't really care either way how this turns up, I'm here to have fun and you can't bring me down" attitude.

Taking dating advice from watching contrived plots that are dumbed down to the lowest common denominator is not something I feel like imitating. I'm way above that.

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Casual is definitely the approach I'm taking. Not because I'm trying to "game" her into sleeping with me and that will gaurantee success more, but because I like to keep things casual. I'm more comfortable that way and I think it's foolish to let your emotions take COMPLETE control over your decisions. You can't argue with that.

And, I agree with your advice... I should talk to her before class or ask her to wait after class is over, but that's not easy to do in this environment (not to say that's an excuse but it is a reason why I'm even questioning this)... I was just a little frustrated by this because I'm not used to it, I like what I like and I like going for it. I think in the back of my mind I was hoping for something that was so out-of-the-blue and super pimp that I could have used it and everything would have been smooth sailing from there, but silly me to even consider that lol.

 

Well, I'm definitely a fan of originality and spontaneity when dealing with women. I use my emotional state (and penis) to convey what I want with an "I don't really care either way how this turns up, I'm here to have fun and you can't bring me down" attitude.

Taking dating advice from watching contrived plots that are dumbed down to the lowest common denominator is not something I feel like imitating. I'm way above that.

Casual is definitely the approach I'm taking. Not because I'm trying to "game" her into sleeping with me and that will gaurantee success more, but because I like to keep things casual. I'm more comfortable that way and I think it's foolish to let your emotions take COMPLETE control over your decisions. You can't argue with that.

And, I agree with your advice... I should talk to her before class or ask her to wait after class is over, but that's not easy to do in this environment (not to say that's an excuse but it is a reason why I'm even questioning this)... I was just a little frustrated by this because I'm not used to it, I like what I like and I like going for it. I think in the back of my mind I was hoping for something that was so out-of-the-blue and super pimp that I could have used it and everything would have been smooth sailing from there, but silly me to even consider that lol.

 

i'm out this semester thank god. what about you when are out?

 

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Don't ask her to wait for you after class. Not for nothing, if she wanted to talk to you after class, she wouldn't dart out of class every day.
Currently, she is not as interested in you, as you are in her.
If she was, she'd make herself a little more approachable......she would delay her "dart out of class" move by: packing her books up slowly, looking in her purse, writing something in her notebook down-all at the end of class..... i.e. killing time until you get closer to the door.

Therefore, you have to bring some attention to yourself. You have two classes with her, right? Ask her at the beginning of the first class to borrow her notebook for your 2nd class....tell her you need notes, or that you missed something the teacher said. Return the notebook in your 2nd class with her. (Now, this has you "noticed" by her in both classes.) <---bringing attention to you. The gate is now open...move from here. Strike up a convo in your 2nd class, or whatnot. Ask to "study" with her, etc.

Don't come off impatient or desperate (no man wears either one of these well) get noticed first, the rest will shortly follow. (That is, as long as she is into you.)

 

moment, are you a male or female?

 

female

 

Cool. Now from a female perspective, why do you feel that the girl is not feeling amis? Is it because she always jets after class? Isn't it possible that she just has another class right after that one?

 

a minute won't kill her.

Trust me, if she is feeling him, she'd spare the minute and walk in to her next class late.

I'm not saying she is definitely not into him, but he is more into her than she is at the moment.

 

its great how guys look into things to much, so what you caught her eye looking around class everyone does that stuff. just cause she made eye contact a couple times doesn't mean she is that interested. By the way she hauls ass out of class I would tend to agree with Neveradull about her not being interested right now. But hey, your young, go talk to her about the classes your in and see whats the deal. You really have nothing to lose, if nothing comes of it at least you have someone to get notes from or study with. Thats the worst case, best case is your sleeping with her in a week cause she's a closet freak.

 

no no no
1 class and one class only

she's quiet, and she's given me WAY more attention than she's given ANYONE else in the class. besides, i've been the center of attention a few times already and i've seen her smiling and blah blah blah

but if she's not interested in me so be it, but i have to talk to her to find out duuude.

i think you're right though, asking her to wait for me after class is kind of dumb if she doesn't want to - given this class environment, i think it's best to just play it by ear and see if i catch her before class to talk casually AND ALONE

the more i think about it, the more i think i'm just going to chill and do whatever i feel like doing in the MOMENT, but as soon as she hesistates while i'm talking to her, then I know it's dumb to try to pursue further.

besides, she's just number one on my list in this class, i already got another girl's number and she might be funner, but i've already invested energy in trying to get at girl #1

 

Say what? You don't even know this girl. How are you even making that assumption? She could be more into me than I in her, and too nervous/shy to talk to me! It might just require a little bit more persistance to get her to open up and be herself around me, which is all I really care about... Even if she isn't into me.

 

You sound retarded.

 

Correct me if I'm wrong, but unless a guy is a total knockout, no girl is going to be "into him" without any words exchanged until he first strikes up a good conversation and makes her laugh etc. I think thats what amis is asking here....how to get into a situation where he can talk to this girl. I think he'll know pretty quickly if she's into him or not after he talks to her.