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Old 06-04-2004, 01:20 AM
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Originally Posted by bent09


how the hell did I miss this drama been away too long.

If there wasnt much trust from the beginning this was probably inevitable. Its up to you whether you want to take his apology to heart and start over...but there is always that old saying "shame on you if you fool me once, shame on me if you fool me twice" just be careful.
Old 06-04-2004, 04:02 AM
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Originally Posted by anothercls
^^^more like let some psycho woman go off and kill him or hurt him for doing it, that will be the day the lesson is learned.
Sad thing is these sicko chicks are out there just waiting to put in work on you...as soon as you slip up...I promise!!!!!!
Old 06-04-2004, 07:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Chinisimo
try to stay in good terms w/ her so you can still get a chance for the occasional booty call
Old 06-04-2004, 07:42 AM
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Originally Posted by KissMy_Type_S
We've had such a past and have known each other for so long I cant just throw that away. I understand time is needed and thats fine and your all right I dont deserve her. She was the greatest thing to ever happen to me and I will regret this for the rest of my life knowing NO ONE will ever measure up to her. I am sick to my stomach everyday knowing the hurt I caused Erin and I cant even stand that I did it. I just pray for the day when she can forgive me enough to talk to me because I already miss her so very much. All of you can continue with the "yea right heard that before" but if you all knew what I had and lost you would genuinely feel the same.
You fucked up dude. She was the greatest thing that ever happened to you so you fucked someone else. :shakehd:
Old 06-04-2004, 08:31 AM
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Originally Posted by DarkSithCL
Sad thing is these sicko chicks are out there just waiting to put in work on you...as soon as you slip up...I promise!!!!!!
That was what I was saying, not that someone needs this to happen to them.

Chap - just pointing out the fact that women do this kind of stuff, just like when a guy goes off and kills someone because his girl cheated, not saying it is right, but it happens...
Old 06-04-2004, 08:43 AM
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I think the first step would be to have a little self respect and change your screen name...
Old 06-04-2004, 11:59 AM
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Well, your best bet is to move on... You can "try" to forgive him for what he did to you, but never forget it. You can forgive, but not forget is what I say.
Old 06-04-2004, 12:08 PM
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Originally Posted by yarigh
Yeah if someone cheats on you they don't truly love you. Or if they break up with you, and you find out they are seeing someone right away then they really don't love you. I guess it depends on each different couple but if you go from happy to thinking they loved you to them breaking up with you, and you find out their friends are setting them up with new people left and right and they are going for it then their heart was never true to begin with. I love the ones that tell people that they still love them, but break up with them. What a cowardly cop out.
Old 06-04-2004, 12:37 PM
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I say give him a dose of his own medicine so he knows what it feels like. Anyone want ot volunteer to be the test subject?
Old 06-04-2004, 12:38 PM
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Did I miss something??? this sounds like a joke and all you fockers are falling for it! Chicks don't just come on this board and start talking about their issues!

And whats with all the noobs and bible thumpers all of a sudden!?
Old 06-04-2004, 12:58 PM
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Originally Posted by yarigh
Yeah if someone cheats on you they don't truly love you. Or if they break up with you, and you find out they are seeing someone right away then they really don't love you. I guess it depends on each different couple but if you go from happy to thinking they loved you to them breaking up with you, and you find out their friends are setting them up with new people left and right and they are going for it then their heart was never true to begin with. I love the ones that tell people that they still love them, but break up with them. What a cowardly cop out.
Sounds like someone had a bad week, and ofcourse ended on the blunt end of the break up stick.
Old 06-04-2004, 07:52 PM
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Originally Posted by ferizzo
Did I miss something??? this sounds like a joke and all you fockers are falling for it! Chicks don't just come on this board and start talking about their issues!

And whats with all the noobs and bible thumpers all of a sudden!?
Actually its for real i can tell u first hand... She came here because I always told her that if I had a problem I always come here first.
Old 06-04-2004, 07:55 PM
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Ill DATE you!!! pm me! and i dont cheat on gfs when i do end up getting one.
Old 06-05-2004, 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by miner
I say give him a dose of his own medicine so he knows what it feels like. Anyone want ot volunteer to be the test subject?
Revenge is God's work, not man's...if he does not truly want to do right, he will suffer far worse than anything she could come up with, even with her wildest imagination!!!
Old 06-05-2004, 02:07 PM
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Old 06-05-2004, 02:10 PM
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The post from acuraulz is gone....


^^^^Its OK, I'm sure I did the same thing when I 1st got on ACL.com
Old 06-06-2004, 09:19 AM
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Originally Posted by ferizzo
Did I miss something??? this sounds like a joke and all you fockers are falling for it! Chicks don't just come on this board and start talking about their issues!

And whats with all the noobs and bible thumpers all of a sudden!?

er.. you obviously dont pay attention much do you.. a lot of girls get on here right away with their relationship/sex issues. :sqnteek:
Old 06-06-2004, 11:00 AM
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its like breaking a piece of glass. Sure it can be put back together, but will it ever be back the way it once was?


you guys both need to go in seperate directions. He's not ready for a committment, and you are. Why can't you guys find new people to be with?
Old 06-06-2004, 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted by SilviaGTO
er.. you obviously dont pay attention much do you.. a lot of girls get on here right away with their relationship/sex issues. :sqnteek:
I do pay attention, which is why I think its dumb and a little unbelieveable that these situations are real. I mean we never hear from half the "women" again that post "oh my boyfriend left me and I don't know what to do" threads.
Old 06-06-2004, 11:34 AM
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exactly. i think if this is real she was just trying to make a point how hurt she was on a board where he posts.
Old 06-07-2004, 10:26 AM
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If I was that hurt I wouldn't bring it to the board, I'd bring it straight to the person. I guess I can see your point I just think its a little unbelieveable that so many are bringing it here. If its true (I'll take kissmy's word for it) then he fucked up and she should move on. Sounds like its a re-occuring issue with him so giving him a second chance doesn't sound like the best idea. good luck to both.
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Old 06-14-2004, 02:44 AM
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damn. can't have much respect for fellas who can't keep it real with relationships... i admit im not the best bf ever but i never have and will cheat on a girl.

if a girl is willing to date you, then it means that she's trusting you with her emotions and everything else intimate about her. how can you bring yourself to violate that?

hope u change your ways dude. otherwise, you gonna get burned and you'll regret it big time.
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