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Old Jun 4, 2006 | 01:59 PM
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ok so i dated this chick for about a year and a half. We broke up about 2 months ago but we talk and stuff cuz we still have feelings. she used to cheat on me but she was pretty attractive. so anyways we stopped talking for a bit then she called me about 2 weeks ago and she was like i wanna be there for u and be a better GF and shes like please listen to that unfaithful song . so i did and i was like bs. So she calls me up and says she loves me etc for about a week. SO im finally like ok i need to hang out with other women or something to get away from her so i dont fall into a trap. So somthin strange happened. MY best friend called me up and said he found a girl for me. so i met her and i took her out on a date. we onl hooked up but u know barely( just because she was realli hot and i didnt wanna screw up chances for realationship etc in the possilbe future.) So Im talking to this girl im on a date with and some hhow she knows my ex. But she told me that shes with someone???!!!?? so im acting like i dont care u know so i dont seem crazy or something. So then i also find out that shes had sex with him too! and theyve only been dating for 2 weeks!!!! So i was kind blown back at all the 411. So after the date i call me ex up and she denys it all until i say his name and that i know shes had sex with him
Then she gets hella pissed cuz i found out etc. i just dont know what 2 do cuz i admit im jealous cuz she was my first for alot of things and i dont know what 2 do. can any1 help me out?
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Old Jun 4, 2006 | 02:10 PM
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at your age, don't take it all so seriously. As for the ex, you seem to still have feelings for her. Why not just hook back up with her but only for the sex and with the private knowledge that she will cheat on you. Use protection and don't even risk getting her pregnant.

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Old Jun 4, 2006 | 02:26 PM
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funny u mention that cuz i kinda did for a bit but i think it kinda made me want her back more
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Old Jun 4, 2006 | 02:57 PM
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Sounds like you have a great ex.

-Get over her
-or like Eggplant said, just get some on the side, but only do that if you dont want to date the new chick.
-Your ex sounds like a P.O.S., so just remember, if you start bangin her again, she's gonna talk about it, and the new girl is gonna find out.
-And if you two start humpin again, you're probably gonna start getting emotional again, and just set yourself up for failure.


Truth be told, just forget the girl, move on.


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Old Jun 4, 2006 | 05:34 PM
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MOVE ON. you sound immature. grow up and forget about her. and DON'T hook up with her ever again. and wear a condom everytime with all your other encounters.
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Old Jun 4, 2006 | 07:23 PM
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What you should do is obvious. and the new girl.
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Old Jun 4, 2006 | 08:06 PM
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I agree with the other guys. That girl is a grade a piece of shit pirate hooker. If you get back with this girl you should be castrated.
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Old Jun 4, 2006 | 10:28 PM
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Originally Posted by NewAgePirate
I agree with the other guys. That girl is a grade a piece of shit pirate hooker. If you get back with this girl you should be castrated.
that is fuckin hilarious.... i was just going to say your ex sounds crazy, but you cant beat that...

def dont hook up with the ex... it sounds like you may have something with this other girl or who knows you will find another one soon enough... if you hook up with the ex you will just enter a very annoying and painful loop...
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Old Jun 4, 2006 | 11:28 PM
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Get the fuck away from the ex...don't look back
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 12:42 PM
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I'll give advice as soon as I can figure out what you just wrote.
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted by phipark
I'll give advice as soon as I can figure out what you just wrote.
I got to "she used to cheat on me but she was pretty attractive." before I realized that we have an idiot on our hands and gave up.
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 12:51 PM
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She cheated on you several times, lied to you, and tried to manipulate you... Nothing good is going to come out of a relationship with someone like her. Move on.
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 12:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
I got to "she used to cheat on me but she was pretty attractive." before I realized that we have an idiot on our hands and gave up.

Agree.............
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 01:40 PM
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I say you find the guy she is fucking and cut his head off with a rusty metal saw. Then tie a string around his ears and hang it from her car door handle. Then rip out his eyeballs and shove a note into his eye sockets. The note should say something along the lines off..."this is what will happen to every guy you have sex with from now on." Then walk away happy, knowing your days of jealousy are no more...

Or...you can stop being stupid and just get over the psycho, manipulative bitch.
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 01:49 PM
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^^ Gibby scares me....



Stay away from the ex.
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 02:20 PM
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it sounds like you got a hot new bitch already (and you knew to get physical even if it was just for a bit so she doesnt pull the "just friends" thing) so stop worryin about that other ho!
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 02:59 PM
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Any chick who tries to explain her shitty actions by making you listen to an even shittier song isn't worth the time of day
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 03:22 PM
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Just move on. Sounds to me like she's playing you in case it doesn't work out with all the other guys she's dating.

And for God sake, use the "ENTER" key every now and then. It's hard as hell reading your post.
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 03:23 PM
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By the way the was for the ex and the new girl. Let the Azine family tell you which one to date.
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 06:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Amoeba
Get the fuck away from the ex...don't look back
i find the irony amusing...

btw, what did you spend my money on?
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 11:16 PM
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Originally Posted by Always Dirty
I got to "she used to cheat on me but she was pretty attractive." before I realized that we have an idiot on our hands and gave up.
Yeah........pretty much...

I got to the "she used to cheat on my, buts pretty attractive" part..... Which means it happened more than once......

You should go back to her, so she can play your ass like a fiddle somemore.
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 11:19 PM
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i read that gibberish and no pics !
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Old Jun 5, 2006 | 11:23 PM
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Originally Posted by fuckleberry
i read that gibberish and no pics !
You read the whole thing.
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Old Jun 6, 2006 | 05:09 PM
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Man, I've never seen so many SO.. at the begining of each sentence! So...duh! He's got me doing it too!
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Old Jun 6, 2006 | 05:18 PM
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Leave the bitch, she's playing you hard. When it does not work out with the guy she is seeing, she runs back to you. Your are the fallback guy. Press on with the new girl
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Old Jun 6, 2006 | 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by 05TLTony
Man, I've never seen so many SO.. at the begining of each sentence! So...duh! He's got me doing it too!
hahahaha
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Old Jun 8, 2006 | 03:04 PM
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lol thanks guys i think ill try to drop her.. the only thing i look back at is the sex i guess lol.
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Old Jun 8, 2006 | 04:53 PM
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you will fuck again. dont worry.
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Old Jun 9, 2006 | 10:26 AM
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Dude i went through the ssame shit and i actually posted here when i broke up with her caues she cheated. The thing is i found a way better girl even though i never thought i would caues i was "in love" with the cheating girl. Dude you are 20 years old, do you know how many girls are goign to come your way. Just go with the flow go out with your boys meet girls have drinks get fucked up and have a ball with your life bro. Everything happens for a reason.
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Old Jun 10, 2006 | 12:31 AM
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thanks i feel a ton better
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Old Jun 10, 2006 | 02:11 AM
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dude you're 20, this whole gf thing is a blur. they use their pussies to make you care about them. Just find some other chicks, you won't even think twice about her. It's amazing how emotions can vanish after you blow your load.
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Old Jun 13, 2006 | 08:36 PM
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get a hooker and ull forget all about it
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