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Old 03-18-2004, 10:46 PM
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Happy news, need help on how to propose!

Ok i did it, i finally going to get the ring on friday. I dunno how to give it to my girlfriend though. Damn ring cost a small fortune for me about 6 gs. So no H22a on the old CL. Now I need some opinions how you guys think i should do it. I am in the NYC area and it should be affordable. Thanks oh

BTW please no comments like PIITB lol.

Oh forgot to mention, we don't have my own places and we don't live together.
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dinner at tavern, overnight stay at the W... dont know if thats too cliche tho...
i'm not a very creative person but thats the first thing that popped into my head..
Old 03-18-2004, 11:03 PM
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Re: Happy news, need help on how to propose!

Originally posted by fusionnv
Ok i did it, i finally going to get the ring on friday. I dunno how to give it to my girlfriend though. Damn ring cost a small fortune for me about 6 gs. So no H22a on the old CL. Now I need some opinions how you guys think i should do it. I am in the NYC area and it should be affordable. Thanks oh

BTW please no comments like PIITB lol.

Oh forgot to mention, we don't have my own places and we don't live together.
Congrats! As a MA boy, I am not sure what you mean...or perhaps I am just dumb?!!?!! Personally, I gave it to a girl in Acaidia National Park....it was cliche' but it worked better than doing it when she was comfortable!
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put the ring on your dick and when you're about to get it on, she takes off your pants and VIOLA!!! and pop the question
Old 03-19-2004, 12:02 AM
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Run, motherf*cker...run!!
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^ plus the priceless stores she'll have to tell her friends "So how did he propose"
Old 03-19-2004, 12:17 AM
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heres and idea...

tell her to pack her clothes for 1 week. tell her she will need suntan oil (spring break good excuse)

fly down somewheres exotic

get a shanty by the water nice view preferred

go have a blast there that week

one morning wake up early and make her breakfast in bed

wake her up time it to where the sun is about to rise.

tell her how last night you got restless and went on a walk on the beach and thought about somthing serious etc etc... how you cant live without her and how happy she makes you...tell her you went to a little shop that was still open last night and got her a gift. blah blah as the sun is comming up.. tell her youve made up your mind, just like the sun comming up right now to start a new day i want to start a new day with you, i dont ever want to spend another day watchign another sunrise without you etc etc... give her the ring box..and do the deed!

something along those lines would be cool
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J/k...sorta.


Outside of heading for the hills, Chinisimo has a decent idea.
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or..... hire a private gourmet cook and waiter for the night....

have them set up a table in a nice park or landmark area.

have her dress up really nice

pick her up in a limo you wearing a tux of course

get to the park candle lite table waiting of course

have them do cook/serve your meal there

take her somewhere nice/upscale for after dinner something like a live show

talk to the owner or whoever is running the show before hand of course.

have them call you up there and say you won a prize or something... go up there and talk about how happy you are to win the prize etc then shift the focus on your girl being your prize etc and ask her to marry you right there.
Old 03-19-2004, 12:34 AM
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i got another one! lol...


do a scavenger hunt of sorts!

start off with a we need to have a serious talk meet me here at 9 o clock... lol (rhymes)


at the first stop make sure she finds something that means something to the both of you.. or just to her or just to you. with another note to go somewheres else
(video tapes with someting she can watch it on, pictures, love notes, souvineers from trips etc.)

at the end of the chase have her go back to her place or you place.

when she opens the door

candles everywhere lit up with a note that says go to the bathroom.

have a hot bubblebath waiting with a bottle of wine in a bucket of ice with a note go ahead ill join you shortly.

when you make your way in there give her your prepared speech about how all those things remind me of you or remind you of the both of you and how well you fit etc etc and how you want to make more memories like that for the rest of your life and do the deed.
Old 03-19-2004, 03:44 AM
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Originally posted by Chinisimo
put the ring on your dick and when you're about to get it on, she takes off your pants and VIOLA!!! and pop the question

Perfect proposal
Old 03-19-2004, 07:23 AM
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Originally posted by Chinisimo
put the ring on your dick and when you're about to get it on, she takes off your pants and VIOLA!!! and pop the question
Somehow I am attracted to this one but, my dick is too big to fit the ring. lol
Old 03-19-2004, 07:26 AM
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whatever you do, DONT propose to her at a halftime show at a basketball game :P
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Originally posted by shimbo519
whatever you do, DONT propose to her at a halftime show at a basketball game :P
or the 7th inning scratch at a baseball game
Old 03-19-2004, 08:01 PM
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Originally posted by kevin79925
heres and idea...

tell her to pack her clothes for 1 week. tell her she will need suntan oil (spring break good excuse)

fly down somewheres exotic

get a shanty by the water nice view preferred

go have a blast there that week

one morning wake up early and make her breakfast in bed

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tell her how last night you got restless and went on a walk on the beach and thought about somthing serious etc etc... how you cant live without her and how happy she makes you...tell her you went to a little shop that was still open last night and got her a gift. blah blah as the sun is comming up.. tell her youve made up your mind, just like the sun comming up right now to start a new day i want to start a new day with you, i dont ever want to spend another day watchign another sunrise without you etc etc... give her the ring box..and do the deed!

something along those lines would be cool
what the fuck?
Old 03-20-2004, 03:51 PM
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kevin79925 sounds like he's done this type of thing more than once.
Old 03-20-2004, 11:32 PM
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lol or you could just take her out to dinner and ask her haha
Old 03-20-2004, 11:38 PM
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lol or you could just take her out to dinner and ask her haha
mcdonald's or burger king??

ps, don't forget to let her supersize too!!!
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Take her to a chinese restaurant for dinner, then have the restaurant put her ring in a fortune cookie with the piece of paper that reads, "Will you marry me?"
Old 03-22-2004, 07:38 AM
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Ok i did it, of course it seems like no matter how much i plan it will get messed up. I was planning to do it earlier after dinner in a nice park area. But that got messed up. The restaurant had a party that was hold up my table. The people eating there was there for over two hours and delayed me more than 30 mins. Then it was raining really hard. Ended up in the car under the pouring rain all wet. Oh well the ring was big enough so I think she didn't care anymore.
Old 03-22-2004, 09:53 AM
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she say yes?



if she did then congrats!


but no more free time and car mods 4u....catch-22
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i wanna see the ring!!!!
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awesome dude and congrats. I proposed on my birthday when my wife took me out to dinner. She didn't expect it at all. Oh and at that point I ended up paying for dinner.

Kevin, you romantic you!
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just be like, i'm rick james bitch, marry me
Old 03-23-2004, 07:39 PM
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Originally posted by Katies99CL
i wanna see the ring!!!!




Here is ur wish. Damn diamond is sooo hard to take a pic of. But the specs are:

Cut: Very good heart
Carat 1.06
Color E
Clarity VS1
Old 03-23-2004, 07:41 PM
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YAY!!

thank you! thats so pretty!!!

congrats!
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hehe thats a cute ring
Old 03-23-2004, 08:24 PM
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hehe thats a cute ring
Yeah she loves it, esp since it is kinda unique.
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Yeah she loves it, esp since it is kinda unique.
yeah, I noticed that too. Its great when 3948394839843 aren't wearing your damn ring!
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Originally posted by Chinisimo
mcdonald's or burger king??

ps, don't forget to let her supersize too!!!
exactly then take a big gulp of Coke and burp out "will you marry me" that will for sure make her say "yes"
if she says yes after that she's a keeper
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Originally posted by GOOSE
kevin79925 sounds like he's done this type of thing more than once.

nope never been married.. bought a ring once for an ex gf.. planned out some stuff then got dumped a month before the day i planned to propose... aww fuck it...
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nice ring, how much did it set u back if you dont mind me asking?
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try the restaurant in NYC called:
One if by land, two if by sea

very romantic... but again, that might be giving out hints thou.
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exactly then take a big gulp of Coke and burp out "will you marry me" that will for sure make her say "yes"
if she says yes after that she's a keeper
esp. if she burps out yes
Old 03-28-2004, 02:55 PM
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Originally posted by dallison
esp. if she burps out yes

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damn, 6g for a ring...that's love!

Am I cheap for looking at $2-3k rings?
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Originally posted by GINge!
damn, 6g for a ring...that's love!

Am I cheap for looking at $2-3k rings?
Hells no man. Get what you can afford and be comfortable with. If a bitch is so caught up in the 2 times a month salary thing or how big the ring is you are finding out all you need to know.
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haha, no, she's not into that at all. We've been common-law for 7 years and she's now at the point where she'd rather see the coin go towards a paved driveway and some landscaping! But.... she has these friends who are very into rings, and I don't want her (or me) to feel like a cheapskate whe she's around them.

I hate the fact that all the diamonds come from like 2 companies and its a virtual monopoly price game you have to play. For that reason alone, we may go with a ring that is specifically not a diamond.

2 months salary... net or gross?? CRikey, either way, thats a lot!


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