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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 06:06 AM
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gotta a 1st date

Yea, I got a date tonight I haven't plan on doing anything real special. We going out more like friends. I told her we'll go out for drinks and dinner, i thought about playing pool or something after. Anybody got any ideas????

Wish me luck
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 08:19 AM
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Location? Maybe there are specific things you can do where you live than other locations? (ie coast = go to beach)

If you're going as 'friends', you are taking this far too seriously. Your dinner & drinks / pool seem plenty on a Wednesday night. Maybe you can go bowling or to the arcades ... that's a very high school thing to do. OK OK OK ... maybe go to Dave & Buster's ... that's a grown-up place to go to do high school things since teens can't afford to go there.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 08:25 AM
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Originally Posted by derrick
Location? Maybe there are specific things you can do where you live than other locations? (ie coast = go to beach)

If you're going as 'friends', you are taking this far too seriously. Your dinner & drinks / pool seem plenty on a Wednesday night. Maybe you can go bowling or to the arcades ... that's a very high school thing to do. OK OK OK ... maybe go to Dave & Buster's ... that's a grown-up place to go to do high school things since teens can't afford to go there.

The beach is about an hr away, but we do have a place call Jillians that is similar to Dave & Buster's. That sounds like an good idea

Thanks
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 08:30 AM
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Originally Posted by derrick
Location? Maybe there are specific things you can do where you live than other locations? (ie coast = go to beach)

If you're going as 'friends', you are taking this far too seriously. Your dinner & drinks / pool seem plenty on a Wednesday night. Maybe you can go bowling or to the arcades ... that's a very high school thing to do. OK OK OK ... maybe go to Dave & Buster's ... that's a grown-up place to go to do high school things since teens can't afford to go there.



if you're going as friends you're taking this way to seriously...

if it's a date on the other hand (a real date not just hanging out with a friend) make sure it's memorable in a good way, and you'llb e set
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 08:46 AM
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Jillians is cool. I've been to a couple. It gives you a lot of options and might allow you to have drinks, dinner and a little pool all in the same night. Maybe a little bowling as well.

Enjoy.

By the way....from past experience if you're any good at pool and she's not, go with something else as an activity. I've been on dates where the girl said let's go shoot pool and it was not fun for either of us.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 09:16 AM
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Dave and Buster or Jillian sounds like a fun place to go after dinner. A pool hall seems a bit more for the guys.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 09:35 AM
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Originally Posted by TheMainEvEnt
Dave and Buster or Jillian sounds like a fun place to go after dinner. A pool hall seems a bit more for the guys.
It depends on the pool hall and the woman. There are a couple in NYC that's pretty trendy. Like Slates.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 10:58 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
It depends on the pool hall and the woman. There are a couple in NYC that's pretty trendy. Like Slates.
I go to Slate at least a few times every month, decent place. There's a very similar place in Forest Hills on Austin Street, forgot what it's called but it's by 71 Ave, I frequent that one as well.
Teaching a girl how to play pool on a date (considering you know what you're doing) can be a rewarding experience.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 11:41 AM
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I agree with ravi...most girls that don't know how to play pool, will agree very quickly to go, but get bored just as quickly after the first game or so. becomes a very socially awkward situation, 10x more so on a first date.

unless that's something she's into, then it's a whole different story.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 12:22 PM
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Originally Posted by twinboy2
Yea, I got a date tonight I haven't plan on doing anything real special. We going out more like friends. I told her we'll go out for drinks and dinner, i thought about playing pool or something after. Anybody got any ideas????

Wish me luck
So which is it? You're contradicting yourself.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 12:35 PM
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Originally Posted by whynot
Teaching a girl how to play pool on a date (considering you know what you're doing) can be a rewarding experience.
I've used that trick before.

Originally Posted by agean
I agree with ravi...most girls that don't know how to play pool
Hold up there boss. I'll never say that girls can't play pool. I met my wife on a pool team. And spend a week in Vegas a couple years ago in awe of how some of them can play.

If you're lucky maybe you run into this chick....

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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 12:39 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
I've used that trick before.



Hold up there boss. I'll never say that girls can't play pool. I met my wife on a pool team. And spend a week in Vegas a couple years ago in awe of how some of them can play.
most girls THAT don't know how to play

i'm not saying girls don't know how to play, just that if this particular one doesn't, it may not be the best idea for a first date...
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted by agean
most girls THAT don't know how to play

i'm not saying girls don't know how to play, just that if this particular one doesn't, it may not be the best idea for a first date...
Just giving you a hard time. Plus I enjoyed the opertunity to post a pic of Jennifer Barretta. I saw her in a naughty Santa helper outfit for a photo shoot. I think every guy within a 100 yards were drooling.
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
the opertunity to post a pic of Jennifer Barretta.
and for that i thank you
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Old Oct 11, 2006 | 10:38 PM
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stay on topic.
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Old Oct 12, 2006 | 11:21 AM
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Originally Posted by TheMainEvEnt
stay on topic.
Crap. Sorry.

How was the date? Hope it went well.
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Old Oct 12, 2006 | 04:35 PM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
Crap. Sorry.

How was the date? Hope it went well.

It didn't even happen she ended up rescheduling on me.
Oh well that how it goes sometimes
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Old Oct 12, 2006 | 04:37 PM
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Originally Posted by TheMainEvEnt
stay on topic.
Are you for real?
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 07:32 AM
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Originally Posted by twinboy2
It didn't even happen she ended up rescheduling on me.
Oh well that how it goes sometimes
Yeh. Shit happens. Well, at least you have ideas for when it happens.
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 09:19 AM
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speaking of pool playing chicks i saw this video (wont post due to nsfw) of the lady who plays pool by holding the stick between her breasts there like tripple d's and shes actually pretty accurate connsidering but back to topic my wife always enjoyed it when i took her to the comedy club when were in fl it was inexpensive and we both usually ended up having a good time
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 09:46 AM
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Originally Posted by RJANACONDA
speaking of pool playing chicks i saw this video (wont post due to nsfw) of the lady who plays pool by holding the stick between her breasts there like tripple d's and shes actually pretty accurate connsidering but back to topic my wife always enjoyed it when i took her to the comedy club when were in fl it was inexpensive and we both usually ended up having a good time
That's talent. I think I saw that on HBO.

I like the idea about the comedy club.
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Old Oct 13, 2006 | 10:38 AM
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just dont sit in the front if your sensitive thats just asking to be picked on/called out
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