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Old Jul 19, 2011 | 08:42 AM
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Old Jul 20, 2011 | 11:12 AM
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LOL @ bowling story.
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Old Jul 20, 2011 | 11:21 AM
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I dont think tyler was in the friend zone either.
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Old Jul 20, 2011 | 05:14 PM
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I wasn't for a while, no. Over time we became friends and then became closer than friends. We didn't go from hating each other to hooking up
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Old Jul 20, 2011 | 06:16 PM
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Bowling story FTW.

I bet you and your girl watch "Kingpin" on your anniversary LOL.
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Old Jul 20, 2011 | 06:18 PM
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We've actually never seen that movie
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Old Jul 20, 2011 | 08:55 PM
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sorry been busy and forgot.

update. Thanks for the advice guys but captain alcohol pretty much the entire thing go smoothly. We watched some TV, ended up cuddling, making out, snuggling etc etc:p going to breakfast. I'm going to give her some space and let her decide what she wants, if it wasn't so lame I'd have some pics for you but I don't need random aziners fapping to it. :p
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Old Jul 20, 2011 | 09:14 PM
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That's great news! Good man for backing off a bit and letting her make the decision.
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Old Jul 20, 2011 | 09:15 PM
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Btw I don't fap. I have a girlfriend for that.
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Old Jul 20, 2011 | 10:38 PM
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Originally Posted by piggydog
sorry been busy and forgot.

update. Thanks for the advice guys but captain alcohol pretty much the entire thing go smoothly. We watched some TV, ended up cuddling, making out, snuggling etc etc:p going to breakfast. I'm going to give her some space and let her decide what she wants, if it wasn't so lame I'd have some pics for you but I don't need random aziners fapping to it. :p


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Old Jul 21, 2011 | 01:24 PM
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The Captain always delivers!
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Old Jul 21, 2011 | 02:15 PM
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Conrats! This will be a significant ego boost for the next time you want to approach a cashier.
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Old Jul 21, 2011 | 03:07 PM
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JBlue was correct and OP profited. Alcohol is a great tool in these situations. That is your fall back. If it works then good. If it doesn't then it was because you drank too much. Worked for me and my wife.

Why wait and give her space? If you like her, and you have already made the first move and it worked, then discuss it with her. I think waiting around is retarded. She may think you have regrets. Or she may think more about it and get uncomfortable. I would talk to her sooner. If she asks for space then it's different.

Good luck.
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Old Jul 21, 2011 | 05:40 PM
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normally waiting around is hella stupid. I've gone that route and the girl sometimes ends up meeting another guy. But she just got out of something so I think giving her space is probably not ideal for me it's best for her.
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Old Jul 21, 2011 | 05:59 PM
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Originally Posted by piggydog
normally waiting around is hella stupid. I've gone that route and the girl sometimes ends up meeting another guy. But she just got out of something so I think giving her space is probably not ideal for me it's best for her.
Well....it's your call. You know her better than we do. Keep in mind that everyone is getting over someone else and it seems like you have already laid the groundwork here. Either way it sounds like you are doing well with her.
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Old Jul 27, 2011 | 01:46 PM
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Originally Posted by piggydog
normally waiting around is hella stupid. I've gone that route and the girl sometimes ends up meeting another guy. But she just got out of something so I think giving her space is probably not ideal for me it's best for her.
As Ravin said you know her best. But getting physical with a friend can also be a form of non-committal recreation. I think waiting too long can leave that impression. You don't have to invite her over, but keep the communication going...
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Old Jul 28, 2011 | 09:11 AM
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Originally Posted by RaviNJCLs
JBlue was correct and OP profited. Alcohol is a great tool in these situations. That is your fall back. If it works then good. If it doesn't then it was because you drank too much. Worked for me and my wife.

Why wait and give her space? If you like her, and you have already made the first move and it worked, then discuss it with her. I think waiting around is retarded. She may think you have regrets. Or she may think more about it and get uncomfortable. I would talk to her sooner. If she asks for space then it's different.

Good luck.
:Takes a bow:

I wouldn't be too aggressive and question where you and her stand this early in the game.

I'd just ask her to casually hang out and let the relationship develop. Taking things easy will put her at ease and make things flow naturally. You already made out with her so don't be afraid of having more physical contact now.
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