God I hate this feeling.
01-11-2006, 01:52 PM
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Originally Posted by dnd2984
Just an update. I have been doing better. But I mean I still think about her and still love her. What I woudnlt do for a second chance.
01-13-2006, 01:22 AM
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Originally Posted by dnd2984
I hate thinking about gher, especially when I am drunk
01-13-2006, 10:46 AM
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Still we are communicating. So we have been talking and stuff, like nothing ever happened. So then I bring up where we stand and all. So she says she cares for me more than anything. When I asked do you love me she said this "How can I love someone that always argueed with me, but I dont know if I am in denial" Then she say I want to remain as a close friend to you.
01-13-2006, 10:54 AM
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Originally Posted by dnd2984
Still we are communicating. So we have been talking and stuff, like nothing ever happened. So then I bring up where we stand and all. So she says she cares for me more than anything. When I asked do you love me she said this "How can I love someone that always argueed with me, but I dont know if I am in denial" Then she say I want to remain as a close friend to you.
01-13-2006, 11:30 AM
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man just fight the urge to call her or pick up when she calls ... i havent read this thread since the beginning but from what sasha just says it seems to me you are holding on. Dont do it. I have in the past and it will literally drive you crazy. Just give her the silence. It kills them. Even if they arent calling you they are upset bc you arent calling them EITHER. Dont call, dont write or anything. She should be "dead" to you!!
01-13-2006, 11:30 AM
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Originally Posted by sasha
You are just giving false hopes to yourself when you continue to talking to her and expecting she'll consider you again. Practice self-discipline and enjoy other people's company.
Let go already.
01-13-2006, 11:33 AM
#139
ok i just read what you said ... the girl straight up told you she didnt love you. come ... on ... i know its VERY HARD ADVICE TO FOLLOW! JUST LEAVE HER ALONE!! After about a month you will be fine and on the prowl again. Its fun being single man. I promise. Then when you arent looking, someone special will walk into your life. Thats just how it works. Dont be so uptight and shitty about this. Just kick her to the curb. You will NEVER get what you want as long as ur up her ass 
01-16-2006, 05:56 AM
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Dude its girls in florida especially this area, they have no clue how to be civilized human beings. I moved down from the NE to ocala and then up to gville for school and damn there must be something in the water either that or their mothers continue to drink and not work while pregnant cause damn ppl are dumb here
01-21-2006, 12:04 AM
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Originally Posted by dnd2984
I know I am not even close to being over her. But how should I act when I see her in public with someone else.
Should I stay cool and introduce myself as a freind or what??
Should I stay cool and introduce myself as a freind or what??
NO MATTER WHAT, DO NOT CAUSE A SCENE....
if you can't deal with it, make it look like you're going to a hot house party...don't let her know it bugs you, but if you freak (no matter HOW justified you are in doing it), you will look like a loser...
01-21-2006, 12:20 AM
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Originally Posted by demolition_x
your buddy jack daniels is your friend...
you can talk to him about any thing and every thing...
you can talk to him about any thing and every thing...
At least he makes me forget.
03-05-2006, 03:08 PM
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well its been quite some time since we broke up..... Over the last couple of month we have been talking everday. I thought we were making progess but she cant move on with me she says shes not ready. She says she loves me and cares for me deeply but cant get over the past. I want to keep talkng to her but I dont think its a wise move. Should I keep talking to her as friends and move on with my life or jsut let her go competley and dont even talk.
03-06-2006, 12:28 PM
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it's hard, but move on....
if you let her treat you like this, she'll keep walking all over you for the rest of your future together....
you gotta show her that you respect yourself and are worth enough that she can't keep you dangling by a thread.....
IMO, she doesn't want you anymore....she just wants to keep an eye on you cause she doesn't want you to be with anyon else...
you're officially on back-burner status
if you let her treat you like this, she'll keep walking all over you for the rest of your future together....
you gotta show her that you respect yourself and are worth enough that she can't keep you dangling by a thread.....
IMO, she doesn't want you anymore....she just wants to keep an eye on you cause she doesn't want you to be with anyon else...
you're officially on back-burner status
03-26-2006, 12:03 PM
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No-Talking to EXs!!! I finally dump my girl for the 2nd time last night and guys let me tell you small part inside of me feels free.... I SAY FREEEE ~ free...
04-05-2006, 09:48 AM
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Originally Posted by Newplay1
No-Talking to EXs!!! I finally dump my girl for the 2nd time last night and guys let me tell you small part inside of me feels free.... I SAY FREEEE ~ free...
04-08-2006, 11:09 AM
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YEa so I stopped talking to her cold turkey for couple of weeks and over Spring break we say each other and I didnt say a word to her......He comes up to me and say "Cant even say Hi" Ok so that was couple weeks ago....... Now for the past couple of weeks we have been talking again like a couple but she dosnt thihk so and I really wanna tell her but I am just gonna have to wait till after her MCAT.......
04-10-2006, 12:47 AM
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Originally Posted by dnd2984
...... Now for the past couple of weeks we have been talking again like a couple but she dosnt thihk so and I really wanna tell her but I am just gonna have to wait till after her MCAT.......
Quit being stubborn. It's over.
04-10-2006, 02:41 AM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Stop talking to her!!! You sound like you are still harboring a hope that you guys will get back together. Yeah, she talks to you because she misses you but that doesn't mean she wants you back.
Quit being stubborn. It's over.
Quit being stubborn. It's over.
are you listening to ANYTHING being said in this thread???Step 1: stop talking to her in any way, shape or form
Step 2: see step one
04-10-2006, 08:11 AM
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Originally Posted by sasha
Stop talking to her!!! You sound like you are still harboring a hope that you guys will get back together. Yeah, she talks to you because she misses you but that doesn't mean she wants you back.
Quit being stubborn. It's over.
Quit being stubborn. It's over.
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