-She met someone else

-Doesnt want to hurt you

-Ignoring you so you get the hint



Either end it, or make a surprise visit catching her with whoever it is and have them shit their pants when you start running through the walls.

 

I would try to get break up sex out of it first. Seriously, just nail her for it and then when she realizes what happened, fuck her best friend.


Or you could just end it and be done with her.

 

I agree with most posts here, just straight out ask her, you owe it to yourself.

Sounds like you're miserable and worried about it, so find out what's up. Keep us updated.

 

So there is a blood connection....

 

I say don't ignore her, otherwise you'll spend a lot of your days wondering if there was something legit going on or "there was something going on".

 

Just come straight out and ask her, just like you posted here. "You've been distant, you don't respond to my messages, what's going on? Have you found someone else?"

 

 

You might as well call her up if you can and just head on over and confront her without assuming too much. Who knows maybe the both of you might have a change of heart with all that is going on with the lack of communication. :surrender Remember it does take two to tango

 

guaranteed there is something going on... if you bring it up it'll probably be over by the end of the conversation or if not then then soon thereafter.

 

I agree with the above - otherwise there's always Joey Grieco and Cheaters.

 

^^

 

Call Cheaters!!!

 

Man - point blank, while you were typing this, she was fucking somebody else! LOL! The quickest way to get over some pussy that you had on layaway (which yours was) - is to go on a fuck-a-thon! Just smash her out of your heart, mind, and dick! But don't you dare shed a tear, or you will wind up driving 3 hours only to find she couldn't answer the phone cuz she had a dick in her mouth:

Phone rings: "The hoe that you have reached, is not in service at this time. Please grab your Kleenex and try again."

Shit, if you lived 3 hours from Maryland, it might've been me! Sorry dude, but I keep telling you young'uns that you don't own the pussy! Listen up, strengthen up, and firm up and go fuck somebody else! She is! It ain't chinese math!

 

i only ignored her for one day, but she called me and said sorry for not keeping in touch for the last few weeks. she's been busy with work (she's a financial analyst).

i was just there in DC yesterday b/c i had some work related business there too. stopped over at her place for the night and nothing seemed out of the ordinary.

 

good to hear.

how long have you guys been long distance? and how often do you see each other?

sure there wasn't anything odd?

 

+ 1

 

 

"last few weeks" ???? something seems fishy. :troutslap

 

she's ing someone else,

oops I mean someone else is ing her

 

^ See??? Even women with big titties are saying she's fucking somebody else!

 

Dude, I've just been through the same situation like half a year ago (some of you probably still remember the thread I made about that), the truth is... She's fucking someone else.

 

Busy for weeks? And absolutely no time to say hi. Mmmm.

 

I think she's just being polite...her mama taught her not to talk with her mouth full!

 

well now you can either wait to see what happens, or call her out on it and see how she reacts...

defensive people are usually guilty!

 

damn man, is this a place to get advice about dating/relationships or just make fun of people who are down in the dumps?

 

exactly, I would call her out on it now. She will probably say some shit like "it's not that", the famous "I just need time for myself" line or just flat out deny it all together. But if you suspect something, its more than likely the truth, especially if she gets real defensive about it. Happened to me as well, and I'm sure a lot of others here.

didn't mean to be so harsh in my first reply, but there is really no need to sugar coat it. Sure there may be a possibility that she's not. But come on, many girls these days are so full of shit anyway, the OP shouldn't be surprised if she is seeing someone else. Its better to expect the worse and hope for the best, then to put up with her lies and BS thinking things are better than they really are.

 

I dont know, sometimes people are just busy. When I get really busy at work, I get pretty distracted and my GF is all "whats going on?" "are you mad?" I just have to calm her down and tell her it's just about me being busy, not about her. So maybe she really is just busy.

 

Can't it be both?

 

I been in similar situation. You should confront her and get it over with. Maybe your girl is good at covering things up and everyhing is OK. In a few months down the road after she's done it a few time with the other guy, she will feel guilty and come out confessing to you.

Save yourself the heartache, and get things square away now vs later.

 

I have worked for 40 hours in a row before and still was able to pick up the phone to say I was too tired to come by... lets be real y'all...

 

....never mine for weeks... never been that busy... women nowadayz are slick as oli on water when they want to be... cover ur commando!

 

True, but not for a "few weeks."

 

I am not saying she is banging some other guy and/or girl, however if she doesn't say hi when she sees you online or that you called and totally ignores you, she really just doesn't like you anymore.

 

i think AZ is very helpful.

but in this situation, something just doesn't seem right.

i'm not going to go far as saying she's ing someone else.

but either she's not as interested in him and the relationship or she feels comfortable in a communication-less relationship.

 

AZ is the best place to get advice on girls... the default answer is always she's someone else.

When your girlfriend doesn't compliment you on your new outfit.. she's someone else.

If she IM's you and tells you she loves you with only 2 !'s.... you better believe she's someone else.

 

I would pick up some tang a little closer to home and have her on the side when she is "availible." So now you got girls in different area codes.

As others have said, nobody is too busy to say hello on IM or text. Girls love to talk - that's what they do best- so when you find one that doesn't like to talk or be all up in your face and biz she is not all that interested in you.

She may have tested the waters with another dude and things did not work out and now she is headed back to the safety of your arms. But you never want to be a girls back up choice because she will always look at you like she had better options and settled.

 

speaks the truth...

 

Enough of this! I live in that area. Just give me the description, name and address. I will go by and check the pussy out. If she is fucking somebody else, I'll tell you. If not, then I'll try to fuck her. If she doesn't, then you know she isn't fucking anybody! Problem solved! Deal? Anything for a fellow forum member!

 

As has been stated many times already - sorry, but she has met someone else.

It is not out of line to ask her what is going on - do you have communication problems? That would be the first question out of my mouth. No need to be afraid. Of course she is going to lie and make up some bullshit excuse, but at least you will feel better about yourself for actually asking.

Stop caring now - makes everything easier. Don't pay attention to her, etc. Don't fall for her manipulation if she wants to keep you around (if you provide some sort of financial benefit, etc).

Best is to just start dating again.

 

Gps?