LOL you should see Sng35 Avi

 

My thread has been jacked by HOOOLIGANS

 

^^^but we got your mind off the girl, right?!? Mission accomplished, now go out there and get some fun experiences with new and interesting people under your belt.

 

Go to Vegas. Bring someone old enough to buy your supplies. Bring condoms. And a slut from your HS.

 

ahaha no comment.......

 

We jacked it alright.

 

omfg...this thread. im dying laughing


i was a nice indian boy back when i was 16 and was with a nice indian girl for 3 years. it ended. i became an asshole and the girls love it, especially when you put them in their place. got so many more chicks when i stopped being such a nice guy. being nice doesn't pay off in my experience

anyways, it took me almost two years to get completely over her (especially since we lived in the same dorm building for a while), but now i have a new gf and life is great again. you will move on to better things. cheer up.

 

it's not about being nice or an ahole...IMO. Because you see plenty of people that are rude pretending to be nice...you see plenty of nice people pretending to be aholes. Never works in the long run. Be sincere, be honest.

It's a matter of knowing yourself, being yourself, not apologizing for who you are (not NOT apologizing, we all have to), setting what you will and won't tolerate realistically, giving when someone deserves and not giving until they show you they deserve it...and number 1 rule.

Love yourself more than anything else and the rest falls into place. But don't love yourself so much that you think you're better than everyone.

 

bro story cool

 

I was watching that dating show last night.. excused. It gets to the last date and the Peruvian girl asks Mr. Nice.. show me something about yourself that would seal the deal. I immediately unzipped my pants.. he did nothing. I took the girl home, you do the math.

 

 

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and I have to agree with Jeremy again (this is becoming a trend)....be true to yourself....infact, be yourself....

OP, in all seriousness....we all have seen our fair share of breakups and those loved ones leaving us....it happens...dont get too hung up on it...try to move on....hit the gym, play some ball, study for something....live your yourself for the time being

 

Assholes and girls don't correlate. You missed the point of your experience.

Girls love confidence. "Nice" people typically don't have the confidence factor. Assholes do; in fact they have too much. There is a fine line between confident and cocky and you apparently have crossed it. One day when you grow up you will realize what I mean.

Chicks dig nice guys that have confidence. 100%.

 

Spy, i agree with you 95% ...

i think what he meant by being an asshole is, when you dont keep telling her she looks HOT 20 times over a dinner....even thow its running in your head....or if you notice a chic but pretend to not notice her....that action of showing attitude and being "carefree" or "footloose" is what he is referring to as being an asshole....

but i totally agree....confidence is something which girls digs....and it not only in talking, but the way you walk/talk/handle a situation is what keeps her with you

 

^^^^ load of crap... Assholes have a jollier time

When I played the asshole card, I've had the hottest bitches; and I mean sizzling. Key note, they were bitches.

There are girls you have fun with, and there is a girl that you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Confidence and being a real man with values and goals will yield the best of both worlds, if you are lucky to find such a mate.

 

Fixed?

I suppose our definitions of assholes are different.

Teh key to teh confidence factor is that girls are insecure. All of them. I haven't met one that isn't, even beneath a front of bitchiness. When tehy find someone with confidence, tehy gravitate toward them. Almost as if sharing in teh experiences of someone with confidence will somehow fix tehir insecurities. Teh key here is that it doesn't matter if teh person is an asshole or not as long as tehy are confident; teh girls will still gravitate. Teh difference lies in teh assholes ability to manipulate teh insecurity. Doing so effectively only exacerbates teh desire to seek confidence which is inherent to teh asshole who is making tehm feel bad.

A strong woman who is worth spending time on (more than getting your dick wet) will not tolerate an asshole. Tekno's last line is gold.

 

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If all you want is to get laid, pretend to be whoever you need to be.

If you want a relationship, be who you are.

But putting on an act, and wanting a relationship, are mutually exclusive ideas.

 

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I didn't mean be a complete dick to the girl, like tell her she looks ugly or beat her or show any disrespect. Just show her that you're not just gonna let her walk all over you. Show confidence. Make fun of her a little bit (but not too much).

I've learned there is a delicate balance between being confident and being a complete jerk. It is exemplified in the following graph. I think it is accurate from my experiences.



I should also mention that I have an awesome, smart, and good looking gf right now who was initially attracted to me because I challenged her. I'm not afraid to make fun of her, or stand up for myself.

 

TRUE !!!

 

Right, I think, in a nutshell, don't treat the good ones bad and don't lick the asses of the ones not worth your time. When we're young, that's exactly what we all do and once you give the other person the upper hand or take the upper hand, it's doomed. Nobody wants a doormat long term unless you, yourself, have low self esteem.

 

WTF is going on with this thread. This mofo brought out a f&#king graph with statistics and data and.................OMFG I see some t!tt!es BRB

 

Fapppppppppp!!!!!!

 

Why shouldn't we lick some of their asses?

 

OP, its also quite possible she got tired of old dick and wanted some new dick. Usually its the guy that feels like this, but you appear to be the bitch in the relationship.

 

Leedog has a way with words...
spy, lick away! But the ones that are used to it, won't appreciate it!

 

 

Touché salesman. Touché...

 

lol, yea with all these kids n their smartphones and social media, there's got to be one.

 

hahaha, ok, well heres the low down people usually think i have to much confidence, and its annoys them. Im always putting my point out, dressing my way (shirts with the collars! but not poping), and im nice, but i can be rather challenging. I use to be a total flirt before this girl, things settled down with her, maybe thats why she left, not as much excitment, idk. I was definetly not the bitch though, we both respected eachtoehr and if i had a differnet opinion she knew about it. Shes not really the girl either that looks for sex in a relationship, i know u guys might say thats not possible haha but shes not like that. IDK, shes just weird like that i guess... end of story haha.

 

nudez bro?.. also.. those graphs.. tits. ass. nice.

Also, if she's not jumping your bone 3x a day for the first 3 - 6 months you're going out.. move on.

 

Did you guys fight? Did she give you any indication she was unhappy and what it was about? She sounds a little crazy

 

well ultimatum, sounds like you finally met your match. It was bound to happen. You probably hurt plenty of girls in the past, and finally had one say no to you. that happened to me in 1998. Sometimes you're the boot, sometimes you're the doormat.

This will have prepared you for a real, meaningful relationship where nobody is the other one's b*tch.

 

You don't pop your collar?? No wonder she left yo ass

 

Of course we fought I mean all couples do there were big fights and little fights. She just sort of sprung everything on me saying she wasn't feeling it anymore but she continued to try and she seemed to be fine like little things she would do or randomly saying I love you and for some reason she always wanted to believe that something was missing. So she said I just wish you'd break up with me and I just did it it was impulsive but she said it before and i just didn't want to deal with it cause she was to stubborn. Looking back she was just unsure of what she wanted and how she saw us because she is so young. Not to mention is freaked her out how well we could be together and.never eachother that through all the bullshit we still made it (lots of crazy stuff happend) maybe our relatonship scared her, we were like a married couple at 17.

 

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