Girlfriend gone :[
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bwahahaha.
well. i want to start off and say you sound like a really nice boy. Stay that way, and dont turn into just another guy every girl is used to.... ..
i just have to ask.. i dont mean to sound mean or rude ... but... were you clinging onto her until the point she couldn't breathe? If so... this may be the problem.
Now im going to say that this will pass. This was the first girl you ever had any type of relationship with. It's puppy love, not real love. You're WAY too young to be stuck on one girl who doesn't seem to feel the same way as you do. I've been there and done that. In fact, you kind of remind me of my 1st "boyfriend" ... and it may sound horrible but i acted just like she did. One day i just broke it off and moved on... he didnt. When you get older you're going to laugh at yourself and how silly you were. You're not even in college yet.. that's a whole other experience on its own. Coming from a girl who just got out of a EXTREMELY WAY TOO LONG relationship, trust me when i say you need to meet a shit load of people and experience the good and bad before you really know who you want to be with for the rest of your life. I thought i knew, and boy was i wrong. Just dont sweat it kid. Worry about your schooling and other important priorities at this point.
well. i want to start off and say you sound like a really nice boy. Stay that way, and dont turn into just another guy every girl is used to.... ..
i just have to ask.. i dont mean to sound mean or rude ... but... were you clinging onto her until the point she couldn't breathe? If so... this may be the problem.
Now im going to say that this will pass. This was the first girl you ever had any type of relationship with. It's puppy love, not real love. You're WAY too young to be stuck on one girl who doesn't seem to feel the same way as you do. I've been there and done that. In fact, you kind of remind me of my 1st "boyfriend" ... and it may sound horrible but i acted just like she did. One day i just broke it off and moved on... he didnt. When you get older you're going to laugh at yourself and how silly you were. You're not even in college yet.. that's a whole other experience on its own. Coming from a girl who just got out of a EXTREMELY WAY TOO LONG relationship, trust me when i say you need to meet a shit load of people and experience the good and bad before you really know who you want to be with for the rest of your life. I thought i knew, and boy was i wrong. Just dont sweat it kid. Worry about your schooling and other important priorities at this point.
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Coming from a girl who just got out of a EXTREMELY WAY TOO LONG relationship, trust me when i say you need to meet a shit load of people and experience the good and bad before you really know who you want to be with for the rest of your life. I thought i knew, and boy was i wrong. Just dont sweat it kid. Worry about your schooling and other important priorities at this point.
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See, what did I say? You may think we are trolling, you may think you know things, but you can't really be blamed for that. You can't buy experience. You can't study it or try and fake it. There is some good advice here. The best of which is grow a pair, confront her about why she's blowing you off, and then go from there. Wondering if and when she will come around is the worst you can do. 
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hey it was just a complement to her....that avvy is awesome and she looks cute...besides she did post a pic on her in a bikini so i know she does have a good body....
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not joking....
am sorry but am not gonna act all cool and show attitude on the interwebz....just complemented her....now if she is your sister and you dont like the joke, am sorry....
am sorry but am not gonna act all cool and show attitude on the interwebz....just complemented her....now if she is your sister and you dont like the joke, am sorry....
bwahahaha.
well. i want to start off and say you sound like a really nice boy. Stay that way, and dont turn into just another guy every girl is used to.... ..
i just have to ask.. i dont mean to sound mean or rude ... but... were you clinging onto her until the point she couldn't breathe? If so... this may be the problem.
Now im going to say that this will pass. This was the first girl you ever had any type of relationship with. It's puppy love, not real love. You're WAY too young to be stuck on one girl who doesn't seem to feel the same way as you do. I've been there and done that. In fact, you kind of remind me of my 1st "boyfriend" ... and it may sound horrible but i acted just like she did. One day i just broke it off and moved on... he didnt. When you get older you're going to laugh at yourself and how silly you were. You're not even in college yet.. that's a whole other experience on its own. Coming from a girl who just got out of a EXTREMELY WAY TOO LONG relationship, trust me when i say you need to meet a shit load of people and experience the good and bad before you really know who you want to be with for the rest of your life. I thought i knew, and boy was i wrong. Just dont sweat it kid. Worry about your schooling and other important priorities at this point.
well. i want to start off and say you sound like a really nice boy. Stay that way, and dont turn into just another guy every girl is used to.... ..
i just have to ask.. i dont mean to sound mean or rude ... but... were you clinging onto her until the point she couldn't breathe? If so... this may be the problem.
Now im going to say that this will pass. This was the first girl you ever had any type of relationship with. It's puppy love, not real love. You're WAY too young to be stuck on one girl who doesn't seem to feel the same way as you do. I've been there and done that. In fact, you kind of remind me of my 1st "boyfriend" ... and it may sound horrible but i acted just like she did. One day i just broke it off and moved on... he didnt. When you get older you're going to laugh at yourself and how silly you were. You're not even in college yet.. that's a whole other experience on its own. Coming from a girl who just got out of a EXTREMELY WAY TOO LONG relationship, trust me when i say you need to meet a shit load of people and experience the good and bad before you really know who you want to be with for the rest of your life. I thought i knew, and boy was i wrong. Just dont sweat it kid. Worry about your schooling and other important priorities at this point.
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